How to stop intimidating women

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  • RoseIsabella

    I honestly don't know. Maybe you should look to date female bodybuilder types?

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    • Doesnormalmatter

      That's pretty rare. Also being muscular is kinda masculine and not so attractive to me. Some tone is nice and so is being lean but there is a point where it's like ugggg

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      • RoseIsabella

        Just a suggestion. I'm not trying to be rude, or mean, but the whole body builder thing was a turnoff for me personally when I was a coed, and still is not to my taste. I guess there are some girls who are into the juice-head gorilla thing, but I just don't get it. I have never understood why any other female would find someone like Arnold Schwarzenegger attractive.

        I just think the lean look is more attractive, and intelligent looking on a on a guy. Intelligence is a big thing for certain women. I can honestly say that when I see a guy make a lot of spelling, and or grammatical mistakes it's a turnoff, and makes me uncomfortable like I'm dealing with a stupid, or less educated person. I like texting a lot, because I get to see how people write.

        It's sort of hypocritical that you wouldn't be into bodybuilder chicks, but you expect regular females to accept it on you. Do you know what I mean?

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        • bleedingdiarhea

          I'm gonna disagree about it being hypocritical that hes not into bodybuilder ladies. He just wants to be masculine for women who like masculine men but likes his women feminine. I'm a bigger guy too but admire feminine women.

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        • Doesnormalmatter

          Yeah I understand the hypocrisy bit, just not sure what I can really do about it. If I find a girl like that who lives lifting weights than that might outweigh the fact that she is less attractive because we have a common interest.

          The more I hear from knowledagable people like you and boojum(among others) the more I feel like a committed relationship can't work for me. I'm worried I'm too horny and too addicted to lifting weights and how I look to have a committed S/O. I can't imagine there being someone who could deal with all that baggage. That and the fact that I have all these absurd kinky desires that I don't think I could get away with never bringing up in a relationship. All this combination of things makes me feel like too much of a handful.

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          • RoseIsabella

            Maybe all of your quirks are a result of some underlying previously unresolved trauma?

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            • Doesnormalmatter

              *Sigmund Freud has joined the chat.

              That is possible, but a it's hard to imagine what it could have been. The only friction I really had as a child was how religious my parents were verses me becoming an atheist(they still don't know). But doesn't a lot of trauma that causes weird shit happen before people are old enough to remember? I also am not so sure that trauma could be the entire answer for everything weird about me either.

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              • RoseIsabella

                If it's something underlying then you wouldn't be immediately aware of it.

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