I can assure you LibertyJames there is nothing gay about this fantasy at all. There is just something very erotic about the woman we love doing something naughty. I have found there is a fine line between jealousy and excitement. Isn't everyone attracted to someone who presents a challenge or is aloof? This fantasy is taking that concept to a new level. The fact you are married and have kids together is irrelevant. The problem is, there is this idea in American culture that when you are married and have children youre either supposed to stop having sex or only have it in a very conservative, almost church-endorsed fashion. Actually, the marriages that last are ones with very unusual sex lives. If its your husband's fantasy maybe you should do it once just to try it.
the thought of my wife with another man excites me
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I can assure you LibertyJames there is nothing gay about this fantasy at all. There is just something very erotic about the woman we love doing something naughty. I have found there is a fine line between jealousy and excitement. Isn't everyone attracted to someone who presents a challenge or is aloof? This fantasy is taking that concept to a new level. The fact you are married and have kids together is irrelevant. The problem is, there is this idea in American culture that when you are married and have children youre either supposed to stop having sex or only have it in a very conservative, almost church-endorsed fashion. Actually, the marriages that last are ones with very unusual sex lives. If its your husband's fantasy maybe you should do it once just to try it.