Those supposed nice guys who think they deserve to get laid are just assholes. A true gentlemen would not demand sex for good behavior. So anyone who thinks that way is just a self entitled asshole. Self entitlement is one of the worst things in this world.
Yes but those are not nice guy. Those are wolves in sheep coats. You have no reason to actually fear the sheep itself. Some nice guys do exist in this world.
I think it goes further than that, to be honest. You have all these people that go out of their to be nice too everyone, generally nice guys, only to watch the negative people get the people that claim to want the type of person that is nice.
I don't think they think they should get "laid" for it, just that they are what people claim they want in others, yet they are the last chosen, even before the opposite of what people claim to hate.
Wouldn't you feel a bit irritated when you go out of your way to better yourself in a positive manner, then get seen as "not as much as a catch" as the people that claim to want the type of people you are?
People are allowed to have a preference. If they want to choose assholes over nice guys, there is nothing wrong with that, we are attracted to who we are attracted to, but when people complain about there not being enough nice guys, even when the people complaining are not going to give these nice people the time of day, ofcourse those nice guys are going to be annoyed.
I never heard people complaining about being a victim by being a nice guys, but I have heard many of them get "irritated" due to it.
They have this whole standard where they can either be a nice guy and very less likely to find love, or be an asshole and be likely to find love. Wouldn't you be irritated by those circumstances?
I'm not talking about people who are nice just because they want to be nice I'm talking about guys who think they're "nice and much better than assholes" yet still think they deserve to get girlfriend easily for that and then whine about being "friendzoned" after girls reject them.
You might be nicer than some asshole but that doesn't mean women will fall for you because you're decent human being.
I suppose we have to agree to disagree. I can see why such guys would feel like they should be seen as a catch if people are saying how those types of people are a "catch". I don't think they are "entitled" to a girlfriend, but I do think they deserve to have someone to love in that sense.
I don't think it is fair for guys to be nice and not get a girlfriend because girls are too busy chasing after assholes, only to complain that there are no more nice guys while the nice guys are being ignored for being nice guys.
Again, I don't think they are "entitled" to a partner, I do think they deserve one, though, especially if girls want to give out the impression they want a nice guy, because there are many men abandoning their nice ways just to find a partner, which is pretty sad.
Girls are not "too busy chasing assholes" girls just don't have to fall in love with guys only because they're nice. Most of those "assholes" are actually guys who were nice at first. It doesn't matter if you're just nice if you have nothing in common with the girl or are too busy complaining about friendzone than actually approaching the girl.
I have to beg to differ. Being somewha of an "asshole" myself, which is putting it lightly, I get more attention from females I care little about than guys good guys do from them. Not only that, I have also "tested" this whole thing out a few times and always came to the same conclusion.
So I think most girls will prefer to give the asshole the time of day or attention over the nice guys. Most of these "assholes" are not nice guys at all, they are terrible to other people, and hey show that, but girls just keep going for them.
In all honesty, these girls tend to have nothing in common with the guy they like that happen to be assholes, either.
I am not saying girls "should" have to be with nice guys over assholes, like I said, we are free to be with whoever we want. I am simply implying that girls can't expect to be taken seriously when saying "I just want a nice guy", only to not even notice them for the asshole, then complain that there are no nice guys when she has chosen the asshole before the plenty of nice guys around.
You've tested it but made an incorrect conclusion. What women are attracted to are not assholes but traits that assholes tend to possess that nice guys usually don't, at least until they learn more about women(if the ever do). Women are attracted to confidence, cockiness, and a little bit of arrogance among a few other things. As a former nice guy I picked these things up, all the while not becoming an ass, and now women being interested in me doesn't even surprise me anymore, I just think well of course they are. There are lots of nice guys that are great with women, the ones willing to learn.
The only reason why these women are like this is because of their self-esteem. They aren't in the real world in the first place so they can't see the other side. They need to love themselves before thinking of going for a "nice guy". Which I'm sure you probably already know this though. :)
And I personally want a guy who is goofy and likes to chuckle at mistakes he's done, but learn from them at the same time. I want him to love himself and have similar interests and qualities as me. I want a happy guy not an angry arrogant jerk.
I can't really talk for whole gender I'm just saying what I think myself. Personaly I don't even notice assholes because they're just assholes. I always tend to notice nice guys more they only care about girls who like assholes.
It's like one stupid circle where girls that like assholes are fancied by nice guys while nice guys get atenttion from girls that like nice guys but those nice guys don't even notice them and then whine how much girls only like assholes.
Which do you think has the biggest victim mentality/complex?
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Those supposed nice guys who think they deserve to get laid are just assholes. A true gentlemen would not demand sex for good behavior. So anyone who thinks that way is just a self entitled asshole. Self entitlement is one of the worst things in this world.
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That's exactly what I was talking about.
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Yes but those are not nice guy. Those are wolves in sheep coats. You have no reason to actually fear the sheep itself. Some nice guys do exist in this world.
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Yes but most of them are either twice my age or live on the other side of world.
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Or just the shy guys that you ignore/don't notice...
I totally deserve to get laid for being polite...
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Shackleford what about your lovely wife nancy?
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Oh come on now, everybody knows she's banging Redcorn anyway, just let me have this one!
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I AM JOHN REDCORN! LOL
I think it goes further than that, to be honest. You have all these people that go out of their to be nice too everyone, generally nice guys, only to watch the negative people get the people that claim to want the type of person that is nice.
I don't think they think they should get "laid" for it, just that they are what people claim they want in others, yet they are the last chosen, even before the opposite of what people claim to hate.
Wouldn't you feel a bit irritated when you go out of your way to better yourself in a positive manner, then get seen as "not as much as a catch" as the people that claim to want the type of people you are?
People are allowed to have a preference. If they want to choose assholes over nice guys, there is nothing wrong with that, we are attracted to who we are attracted to, but when people complain about there not being enough nice guys, even when the people complaining are not going to give these nice people the time of day, ofcourse those nice guys are going to be annoyed.
I never heard people complaining about being a victim by being a nice guys, but I have heard many of them get "irritated" due to it.
They have this whole standard where they can either be a nice guy and very less likely to find love, or be an asshole and be likely to find love. Wouldn't you be irritated by those circumstances?
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I'm not talking about people who are nice just because they want to be nice I'm talking about guys who think they're "nice and much better than assholes" yet still think they deserve to get girlfriend easily for that and then whine about being "friendzoned" after girls reject them.
You might be nicer than some asshole but that doesn't mean women will fall for you because you're decent human being.
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I suppose we have to agree to disagree. I can see why such guys would feel like they should be seen as a catch if people are saying how those types of people are a "catch". I don't think they are "entitled" to a girlfriend, but I do think they deserve to have someone to love in that sense.
I don't think it is fair for guys to be nice and not get a girlfriend because girls are too busy chasing after assholes, only to complain that there are no more nice guys while the nice guys are being ignored for being nice guys.
Again, I don't think they are "entitled" to a partner, I do think they deserve one, though, especially if girls want to give out the impression they want a nice guy, because there are many men abandoning their nice ways just to find a partner, which is pretty sad.
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Girls are not "too busy chasing assholes" girls just don't have to fall in love with guys only because they're nice. Most of those "assholes" are actually guys who were nice at first. It doesn't matter if you're just nice if you have nothing in common with the girl or are too busy complaining about friendzone than actually approaching the girl.
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I have to beg to differ. Being somewha of an "asshole" myself, which is putting it lightly, I get more attention from females I care little about than guys good guys do from them. Not only that, I have also "tested" this whole thing out a few times and always came to the same conclusion.
So I think most girls will prefer to give the asshole the time of day or attention over the nice guys. Most of these "assholes" are not nice guys at all, they are terrible to other people, and hey show that, but girls just keep going for them.
In all honesty, these girls tend to have nothing in common with the guy they like that happen to be assholes, either.
I am not saying girls "should" have to be with nice guys over assholes, like I said, we are free to be with whoever we want. I am simply implying that girls can't expect to be taken seriously when saying "I just want a nice guy", only to not even notice them for the asshole, then complain that there are no nice guys when she has chosen the asshole before the plenty of nice guys around.
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You've tested it but made an incorrect conclusion. What women are attracted to are not assholes but traits that assholes tend to possess that nice guys usually don't, at least until they learn more about women(if the ever do). Women are attracted to confidence, cockiness, and a little bit of arrogance among a few other things. As a former nice guy I picked these things up, all the while not becoming an ass, and now women being interested in me doesn't even surprise me anymore, I just think well of course they are. There are lots of nice guys that are great with women, the ones willing to learn.
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The only reason why these women are like this is because of their self-esteem. They aren't in the real world in the first place so they can't see the other side. They need to love themselves before thinking of going for a "nice guy". Which I'm sure you probably already know this though. :)
And I personally want a guy who is goofy and likes to chuckle at mistakes he's done, but learn from them at the same time. I want him to love himself and have similar interests and qualities as me. I want a happy guy not an angry arrogant jerk.
I can't really talk for whole gender I'm just saying what I think myself. Personaly I don't even notice assholes because they're just assholes. I always tend to notice nice guys more they only care about girls who like assholes.
It's like one stupid circle where girls that like assholes are fancied by nice guys while nice guys get atenttion from girls that like nice guys but those nice guys don't even notice them and then whine how much girls only like assholes.
"Nice Guys" are really just pusshole's