Did I fuck up? Or am I in the wrong?

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  • they haven’t seen each other in three years and haven’t been friends for a long time acquaintances at most. she has a boyfriend that is serious and him and I are serious. I just know that he used to like her a lot when they were friends back in 2015 and now he blocked her on Instagram and I just feel like I ruined whatever as left at a relationship they had. They barely talk though he would wish her a happy birthday and that would be pretty much it

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    • 1WeirdGuy

      Yeah their friendship is definitely over. It is what it is. He wasnt that good of friends with her if he couldnt face her and tell her where he got the photos and apologize. Its not that big of a deal really you are catastrophizing it just alittle.

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      • probably. He was just so angry at what I did and if I like the guy from years ago and had been good friends with him and did what he did and got caught, i would be sad. I have trauma with my boyfriends liking or still being in love with her ex from the past and saw a part of me is in my head thinking what if he still has feelings for her and he will never be able to talk to her again but that’s probably not the case and you’re right i’m probably catastophizing it a little. Do you think I should I worry about it anymore? Or do you think there’s something I should do to make him feel better?

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        • 1WeirdGuy

          Yeah their relationship is fucked permanently. You did destroy that for sure. Just say sorry.

          Its easy to control a man as a woman. You just grab his dick. Thats pretty much it. If he gets mad again just wait a second and then boom grab the dick. He will know hes being manipulated but theres nothing he can do about it.

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          • If you were in his shoes in this with you what would you be thinking?

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            • 1WeirdGuy

              Id just think it was a woman thing to do but be annoyed.

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          • he doesn’t like when I grab his dick. He tells me to stop and gets mad. I know, it’s weird. So that won’t work…

            but they never really had a friendship anymore to begin with. They are not friends with the same people anymore and she told me a few months ago that they would probably never see each other again because none of them have any desire to. She has known he has been a creep for a while because her friends have come to her saying that he would ask for nudes from a lot of people from their high school and so I don’t think I ruined it completely myself just exposed a part of him

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            • 1WeirdGuy

              Oh ok, id stop talking to the girl. Id be pissed if my wife went behind me gossiping about me.

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              • i mean we only talked that one day when i told her what i had found.

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