Did i fuck up? or am i in the wrong?

He somehow obtained nudes of his friend behind her back, that’s incredibly disrespectful and creepy. That coupled with the fact that he cheats on you and blows up at you all points to the fact that you should get out of this relationship. You cannot trust him.

Dump him.

He got angry and is sorry because he got caught, not because he feels bad. It's definitely creepy and weird that he has those on his laptop. When he got into a relationship with you he should've deleted it and even if he was never in a relationship with you he should've deleted it and it's still really weird that he had her nudes on his laptop. Like-imagine how weirded out and exposed the girl felt and she didn't even know how he got them. In my opinion, he's the problem and you said he's cheated on you multiple times-he's no good. Those kinds of people are never for the good I also really hope you just leave him.

After reading some of the comments on here I've gotta ask: why are you still with him? He's been stalking his ex who doesn't even love him anymore. You've gotta be a real idiot to stay with someone like this at this point. XD

You're a dumbass for staying with someone who cheats on you and if you continue to stay you deserve all the abuse you get.

I really hope you just leave him. He’s not going to change. He’s angry Bc he got caught.

You snooped Bc you followed your instincts. Always follow your gut.

If you don't feel like you can trust him, then Dump him.

Is she hot btw? Lol

The dude already shouts creep

And look at what you wrote "I’m having a hard time trusting him as he has cheated on me for a long time we have been together two years and it’s been three months since you last treated and that’s the longest it’s been for a long time."

Why are you with him??? He cheated multiple times. A man who cheats more than once will continue to cheat, I'd bet 99% likely he's cheating on you now and having nudes of a girl who seems unaware is weird, keeping them is weird too. Seems like a really creepy dude.

Deserved.

Yea I think you messed up. And if he is a cheater, he messed up. You should get out of this relationship because it isn't going to get any better in the long run.

You need to mind your own damn business!

Additionally I would like to say that there is something seriously wrong with you psychologically if think it's okay to stay with someone who cheats on you repeatedly. Don't be a pathetic loser, dump him.

This relationship wont last hon do yourself the favor and let go, he has already proven himself untrustworthy romantically and platonically for obtaining those without his friends knowledge. You need to learn to have some self respect and learn to self love. He did this to a friend of years he sounds like he could be untrustworthy towards anybody and it is not your job to have to fix him.
You will learn someday but since you want him to forgive you so bad I feel like you will not listen to this advice but its the reality check I hope someday you will grow to accept

Only if you never cheated on him does any of this matter

What probably happened is one of his friends fucked her and he sent him the nudes. He saved them and then forgot about them for 7 years. Now you've exposed him to everyone as a creep.

Now the girl is worrying that her nudes are or are gonna be out on the internet somewhere now. Hopefully she doesnt have a dad or a brother that confronts him over this. Everyone in town is gonna think hes a stalker.

He needs to unblock her and tell her at this point and then just reblock her. She deserves a explanation now after you exposed all this. Dont put it in writing he should call her and tell her. You dont want to text that kind of shit.