to vilen10dency: He said very plainly that he enjoys white women's sense of independence. I don't think that qualifies as lustful?
To the author: I'm white, and I love asian guys. It's just the way personal preference goes. But let's put it this way - either you can do what your family wants, or you can do what you want. If you do what your family wants, there is a very high chance that you will be very unhappy. If you are unhappy, your wife will be unhappy and if you both are unhappy, the kids probably won't be so cheery either. On the other hand, if you do what you want, you will be technically disowned by the people you love very much ( I assume ). The decision is very big, and no one can decide for you. However, you could always move far away from your current residence. There are many communities in the United States that are very accepting of multicultural families and such. Perhaps it would be better to do what makes YOU happy, and find a place where the people will love you for it.
I want to begin by stating that no one really has the right to criticize another person's desires as to what they find attractive. Its a proven fact that today we all want to be happy. The world is an ever changing place, and diverse. The human brain craves stimulation, excitement and new experiences. Each person WANTS to be come better over time and will gracitate towards people that appear to be able to help them meet those desires within the self. With the increasing advancements in technology society is being exposed to much more information than ever before and it is happening at an exponential rate. It is no wonder why we see multi-cultural/racial relationships also growing as such precedented rates. The lines of traditional cultures are becoming blurred and the number of developing sub-cultures are rapidly on the rise.
If we honestly look back same culture/same race/same religion relationships dominated history as that is all people had the oportunity to be exposed to. Also, when critial moral/cultural standards are compatible, they give a groundwork for a very healthy and stable longterm relationship. Still, what most fail to see is that there are other people who with share those same deep standards, but be in packages of race/culture/age combinations that they were just never exposed to before, therefore faultlessly IGNORANT of what really is out there.
There are fundamental principals that are critically important to each individual to share with others in a longterm relationship. Thats what should be focused on when having an LTR. Nothing else matters.
Yes, its normal to be strongly attracted individuals of cultures that are different than your own if you find that what they value and you calue most deeply are the same! White women are notably very independent, because they are raised in America (a culture that promotes individual independence/pursuit of happiness. Latina women are notably very sensual, and family oriented because of their culture. They are taught that a womens feminitiy is her greatest power and is a very important tool for her. This will be to the benefit of her husband and thus children. They are very matriarcal. Indian women are typical very traditional and businesslike as their culture is less centered on the individual than most westernized cultures. They are not as expressive emotionally as alot of decisions are made in that culture based on logic/tradition/success of family. Hence why they really excel in business/medicine.
'I like Asian guys' Ha. 'Anna' can you see what a slut your comment makes you? You think your dear 'asian guys' think any more of you than an easy piece of pork? A racist slut too as it happens. Racism is racism, favourable or otherwise, go figure slut..
Indian man exclusively attracted to White women
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to vilen10dency: He said very plainly that he enjoys white women's sense of independence. I don't think that qualifies as lustful?
To the author: I'm white, and I love asian guys. It's just the way personal preference goes. But let's put it this way - either you can do what your family wants, or you can do what you want. If you do what your family wants, there is a very high chance that you will be very unhappy. If you are unhappy, your wife will be unhappy and if you both are unhappy, the kids probably won't be so cheery either. On the other hand, if you do what you want, you will be technically disowned by the people you love very much ( I assume ). The decision is very big, and no one can decide for you. However, you could always move far away from your current residence. There are many communities in the United States that are very accepting of multicultural families and such. Perhaps it would be better to do what makes YOU happy, and find a place where the people will love you for it.
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I want to begin by stating that no one really has the right to criticize another person's desires as to what they find attractive. Its a proven fact that today we all want to be happy. The world is an ever changing place, and diverse. The human brain craves stimulation, excitement and new experiences. Each person WANTS to be come better over time and will gracitate towards people that appear to be able to help them meet those desires within the self. With the increasing advancements in technology society is being exposed to much more information than ever before and it is happening at an exponential rate. It is no wonder why we see multi-cultural/racial relationships also growing as such precedented rates. The lines of traditional cultures are becoming blurred and the number of developing sub-cultures are rapidly on the rise.
If we honestly look back same culture/same race/same religion relationships dominated history as that is all people had the oportunity to be exposed to. Also, when critial moral/cultural standards are compatible, they give a groundwork for a very healthy and stable longterm relationship. Still, what most fail to see is that there are other people who with share those same deep standards, but be in packages of race/culture/age combinations that they were just never exposed to before, therefore faultlessly IGNORANT of what really is out there.
There are fundamental principals that are critically important to each individual to share with others in a longterm relationship. Thats what should be focused on when having an LTR. Nothing else matters.
Yes, its normal to be strongly attracted individuals of cultures that are different than your own if you find that what they value and you calue most deeply are the same! White women are notably very independent, because they are raised in America (a culture that promotes individual independence/pursuit of happiness. Latina women are notably very sensual, and family oriented because of their culture. They are taught that a womens feminitiy is her greatest power and is a very important tool for her. This will be to the benefit of her husband and thus children. They are very matriarcal. Indian women are typical very traditional and businesslike as their culture is less centered on the individual than most westernized cultures. They are not as expressive emotionally as alot of decisions are made in that culture based on logic/tradition/success of family. Hence why they really excel in business/medicine.
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'I like Asian guys' Ha. 'Anna' can you see what a slut your comment makes you? You think your dear 'asian guys' think any more of you than an easy piece of pork? A racist slut too as it happens. Racism is racism, favourable or otherwise, go figure slut..