Is it normal for a girl to like anal more than vaginal?

That's a really interesting question regarding sex and I'll try to be as helpful and objective as I can.

First of all, I think that the notion that something is or isn't normal is meaningless. There is no normal behaviour, just expected behaviour (which changes as we evolve as a species) and deviations from it. As long as sex is concerned I consider "normal" anything that someone enjoys, as long as it doesn't hurt anybody.

Secondly, do NOT be ashamed of yourself under any circumstances no matter what other people say (as long as you're clean of course). And certainly DON'T wish or try to like vaginal more than anal. You have to accept your identity. It's like being gay and feeling sorry for yourself and trying to be straight. I mean, come on, we live in the 21st century...

Thirdly, it may indeed have no evolutionary purpose, but your anus has other purposes that need to be pleasurable in order to be encouraged (you know, going to the toilet). In fact, the anus has much more nerve endings than a vagina, thus making it more sensitive. That's why anal sex can be much more painful or pleasurable then vaginal sex. Of course, the majority find it less pleasurable than vaginal sex, but that doesn't mean it isn't "normal". After all, birth control serves no evolutionary purpose and is still considered "normal".

Lastly, all of the above stand for men too, and I'm not talking about gay men only. I myself am a straight guy and still like it when my girlfriend licks my ass or sticks a finger or two up there during sex. Of course, she loves anal sex as well, and finds it equally pleasurable to vaginal sex.

To sum it up:
1) No, you're not a freak. You're just different.
2) You like it so much because it's pleasurable.
3) You don't have to change anything. Just wait till you find the right guy. And believe me, there are tons of men who like anal as much or even more than vaginal sex for many reasons (one being that the anal sphincter is much tighter than a vagina). Actually, it's kind of ironic, cause usually (in my experience) it's men that like anal who have a hard time finding a girlfriend, not the other way around.

That's it. Hope I helped.

Probably not normal but there is nothing wrong with it. That's something that I would really be into. You just have to find a person that is accepting of that and isn't afraid of doing something a little "taboo."

I let my neighbor put his dick in my butt sometimes when we are horny he is 3 years younger than me. In my vagina it feels ok but in my butt it feels so good. I laying on my side with my legs folded and I love the to get the hard dick up my butt like that I also like being on all fours on the bed with my head and face down and my butt in the air and I spread my butt open and he fucks me like that in my butthole.

me too , i love girl anus taste smell ,i dont love pussy anymore.bcz girl anus is so delicious than pussy.

im a guy and i only get enjoyment from fucking a girls ass

this is awesome and yo should never feel ashamed of this

As a practicing family medicine doctor, I want to provide another opinion and to commend you for your willingness to bring up and discuss an interesting topic that affects a lot more people than you might think. In regards to most issues involving some type of sexual experience, it is common for people to feel a variety of emotions including being embarrassed, shy, afraid, and even ashamed. As a result, such topics often are not discussed and remain unresolved, sometimes causing tremendous emotional and psychological turmoil that manifests itself in a variety of ways (including some signs or symptoms that may otherwise seem unrelated and go unnoticed). I would also like to commend many of the other contributors above such as "analisnormal" and "Audrina" whom have provided important and accurate comments in informative and reassuring manners.

As alluded to above, our bodies have a fascinating amount of complexity involved with them. Although most people generally have the same organs and tissues as found in others, there are many slight to not-so-slight variances amongst how our bodies have developed. Often, we live with these normal variations in the exact design of our bodies our entire lives without being aware that anything might be different between our body and the body of someone else. In other cases, such variations may have dramatically life-altering effects.

I'd like to provide some objective information to add to the discussion thus far. Multiple nerves are involved with innervating (creating/transmitting nerve "signals" from a region of the body to the brain by way of our nervous system) the male and female pelvic regions. Specifically, many of the sensations involving the anus come from branches of what is known as the Pudendal Nerve. As mentioned above, the quantity and distribution of nerve endings is what is responsible for the subtle differences in each of us and how certain stimuli are received and later interpreted by our brains. Also as noted above, there are great areas of overlap both when it comes to the innervations of various body regions as well as to which parts of the brain are affected. For many structures located within the abdomen and pelvis, different branches from a single nerve might "supply" the sensory portion of multiple areas. As a result, nerve stimulation in one location might lead to the perception that those signals came from a different region altogether. This is what is known as "referred pain" since the exact location associated with the origin of a nerve signal may be "felt" as if it were occurring in a different location.

For example, for those whom have had the unfortunate experience of the excruciating pain involved with a "kidney stone," the locations of the pain and discomfort felt can vary significantly! As a stone first leaves the kidney to go into the ureter (a tube, located on both sides, that connects the kidneys to the bladder to allow for the passage of urine), one might feel pain in his or her mid to lower back or sides ("flank pain") since nerve branches innervating that part of the ureter come from the same nerve that gives off other branches to those locations you feel in your back/sides. Further, as the stone continues down the ureter, one might experience pain seeming to now be coming from the abdomen, and finally, as the stone approaches the lower portion of the ureter prior to reaching the bladder, the nerve branches to that part of the ureter go to the same nerve that gives off branches to the pelvic region and may feel as if the pain is coming from the testicles (for a man) or from the Labia Majora (for a female). With that concept covered, it's important to look at how the brain interprets pleasure.

Just as mentioned by another member, certain regions of the brain (such as the "Nucleus accumbens") are associated with a pleasurable sensation when stimulated. However, many stimuli (sneezing, urinating, defecating, sex, etc.) can elicit a response in this region of the brain. The branches of the Pudendal nerve that innervate the anus are able to stimulate the pleasure centers in our brain. Stimulation of the anus can produce intensely pleasurable sensations in both men and women.

Thus, as wisely stated above (and not speaking as a physician), I would suggest that you find a partner that shares your same interests (or is willing to accommodate your interests) rather than try to change your life, how you feel, what you like, or other aspects about you. If you have further questions, please feel free to ask.

Well, I just want to say that you're not a freak. I'm a guy and I absolutely love anal, even more than vaginal. I love licking there too, and even if you only wanted anal I would still be 100% happy sexually. And I'm not gay, I have absolutely zero interest on men.

So don't lose hope; there are people like us out there. I just wished *I* could find somebody like you. ;-)

I wouldn't have a problem if the girl I was dating/ in love with wanted anal all the time. Saves on birth control, and is just nice feeling. As long as she'd do it back to me. But I'd be perfectly fine if she only wanted me anally, as long as I'd get to occasionally finger her normally while doing anal.

As for your evolutionary question, the area in general is flooded with nerve endings. I know some people that prefer anal over normal intercourse because of that. It just feels better to them. Nerves in that area are second in density only to our brains, so it makes sense that having a penis/vagina would cause some nerves to grow around the anus, and even feel good.

You ask is it normal, yes it is. Just not generally spoken of. If the guys you are dating don't like it, seriously find another guy. And always, always remember, enemas will do wonders. And make for great foreplay.

This is normal, it is just not typical. A lot of guys are ok with giving anal, ATM is probably what your partner is balking at. Maybe try and get a sense if they are open to it before you begin an intimate relationship with that person, like bringing it up casually during a sex related conversation. Sex is supposed to be fun, not a stressful event. You should not have to feel this way. Just keep looking, I think you will find someone that you are compatible with :)

Normal to the extent. You just need to come out in the relationship about it. Some guys like it once and awhile but all the time isnt a big turn on. I would be ok with it if it wasnt a all the time deal like once or twice a week thing.

No not normal.
Generally girls would prefer some vaginal pleasure as well.

I would like and make love to your ass all day! I love it and love it back too :P

Yeah I'm a freak :P

As a guy I wouldnt mind as long as your ass is very clean

Hot...I'd date you - you sound loads of of fun! ;)

That is quite hot. Although I never feel anal is as good as vaginal, always a bit tight. But when im just fucking away i always tease with a few fingers and it goes down well most of the time.