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So I’m 26 and not to toot my own horn but I think I’m fairly attractive but I’m still a virgin. Heck I’ve never even seen a dude nude irl. I’ve started to wonder if maybe guys aren’t attracted to me? We’ve all had those guys asking to show bobs and vegena but I’ve never actually had any guy try to start a relationship with me. Am I headed down the path to dying a virgin?
I didn't fuck or kiss a guy until I was 26. I was always scared to socialize with strangers, but I realized I had to do it in order to find someone. I went out and talked to guys. I also joined a dating site and messaged guys with similar interests, similar incomes, pretty much similar everything. I did have a lot of embarrassing encounters, and met a few crazy people, but I eventually found someone. I'm still with him now. I guess what I'm saying is you shouldn't be waiting until a guy starts a relationship with you. You should approach them instead.
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Not the OP but I'm also 26 and never (intentionally) seen a dude naked IRL. Never really felt that close with anyone before. Anyway, is it weird once you finally do, so late in life? I will be 27 in a few months and feel like I might as well give relationships a try, pretty worried about it though
By society's standards today, it's not really considered normal, but dont let it bother you. My lack of experience wasn't a problem when I was talking to guys. They didn't seem to care I lacked experience. While there are guys out there that do think experience matters, there are many who don't care, and would be happy to know you.
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Yeah, most guys I've talked to don't really care, some even prefer it or think it's cute. There has only been 1 guy in my life that I've ever really felt close enough with to be attracted to, so if I ever do it will probably be with him first. Just don't know what to expect when the time comes
Yes, it's not like 100 years ago when most people saved sex til marriage.
Back in the day I would put up a profile on a dating site and just wait. I tried messaging some women until I realized they were getting messages like crazy. I stopped doing that and let them find me. It worked a lot better.
You are not heading down the wrong path. When I was 33, I met a woman who was 34 and she was still a virgin. I wasn't attracted much to her, and she didn't seem to like me much. Eleven years later, we are the happiest couple you will ever see.
Find the right guy for you, and be the right woman for him. Everything will turn out right for the both of you.
Yeah it's normal. idk why people make a big deal out of it,hell i was virgin till 18.
your body you can do whatever you want & whenever you want.
You're chaste, nothing wrong with that. Thou are not a slut and are quite a catch in this day and age. If you're hot you'll get hit on, just put yourself in a situation where you can get hit on and then be positive and flirt back. Also plz show bobs and vagene
You're fine. Don't judge yourself too harshly, and don't get too caught up comparing yourself to others.
What the fuck is wrong with you dude? Do you not see that something is wrong with the way you think? What if this girl was your daughter? Would you want someone talking to her the way you are talking to this young lady? Dude, take a look at yourself and make a change before you wind up an old man watching children play on the playground or in prison for molestation. Check yourself, loser.
Or maybe you should commit suicide. I wouldn't normally recommend it, but in your case, I dunno...
none of this is a man's problem , you did all this to yourself . you didnt just wake up a virgin , you told men in your special way you wouldn't fuck them. your pussy has been totally useless for men for at least 13 years and in 13 more years guys will want younger better smelling pussy because nature makes an infertile pussy stink so men wont waste seed in it , trying to pump you up with a baby. thats nature not mans doing so what are you going to do about this woman problem you have? Will you be fucking a man tonight or not? Pick a guy about ten years older tell him you are a virgin so he can spend all night pentrating you slowly and carefully so you can at least enjoy it somewhat the first time. i would do it , i have done it.
Good lord dude, you sound like women owe it to guys to have sex with them or else they're useless
I first had sex and got into a relationship when I was young (15). I then didn't get into another relationship till I was 19 cause I just wasn't interested (It didn't last long). I had sex multiple times in-between but not anything serious. I have 2 best friends, one is 23 and is still waiting but she's happy and wants to wait till she finds someone she truely loves and is ready. The other one lost it to her first boyfriend at 18 who she unfortunately thought he was the one she was going to spend the rest of her life with and lost it to him but things didn't work out between them. I think its really good that you haven't just done it with a random cause you want to lose it to some random like I know some people have done when they were younger which is a bit stupid. Guys will respect you so much on the fact that you are waiting for a decent relationship to have sex or do anything sexually. Try not to think about it to much and just own the fact that you respect your own body.
wanna do it RN
nah just kidding but all joke aside it lowkey kinda hot but also kinda sad