Insightful? You seemed to have based your entire knowledge of love off of sitcoms, far from insightful. I don't ask permission to go out, sorry to disappoint you.
See you didnt understand my point at all, you just think you did. My point is too many people today base their idea of love on those silly shows and movies, when real life is nothing like that at all. Mostly women FYI.
I dont really care whether you ask permission or not to go out, my whole point is that if you do, and many men do, OR dont even bother going out once they are "committed" then there is something wrong with that.
That their justification for working, and really being alive is being married, with kids. Sure they may not even get along with their wife and their kids are a mess, but hey at least they got em both.
You did not imply that at all, you implied that love doesn't exist simply because it doesn't exist like it does in sitcoms, that's not love. Real love is a much stronger connection, that involves compromise and altruism, a concept that you might not totally grasp?
Again, you're assuming a comical stereotype is standard to most relationships. And even if some men ask permission, I'm sure they've a good excuse for it. Maybe they had other plans for that night, maybe they accustomed to staying home?
And what you saying doesn't make sense. Staying with your wife even if you don't get along with her? You think that happens a lot, even with the divorce rate so high? You're logic is refutable and based on assumptions, you're trying to apply one scenario to every relationship on earth.
I think love is romanticized by those same sit coms and rom coms, and because of that society thinks real life should be the same thing, and when it isnt people give up right away. Hence its bullshit.
There is no good excuse for asking permission unless both parties in the relationship do it, if they dont, which is very rarely the case then its bullshit. And dont refute that, its ridiculous if you really sit there and try to tell me that women ask for permission from men anywhere near the amount that men do from women.
I'm saying many people get into relationships and then ultimately stay in them even if they are sort of unhappy just to keep up appearances, and then the other half of them just end in divorce, which is clearly a result of being unhappy.
I dont know why you seem to take it personally here, all I am doing is telling the truth. If you are happy in a relationship with being told what to do more often then you need to be, and accept it as just a "part of married life" then more power to you. I just think its bullshit.
I'm sorry, you've obviously never been in love so I don't know why I'm arguing. I'm in love, we have a fair relationship, and it's awesome. I'm sorry you can't experience it.
Is it normal to question this about relationships?
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Insightful? You seemed to have based your entire knowledge of love off of sitcoms, far from insightful. I don't ask permission to go out, sorry to disappoint you.
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See you didnt understand my point at all, you just think you did. My point is too many people today base their idea of love on those silly shows and movies, when real life is nothing like that at all. Mostly women FYI.
I dont really care whether you ask permission or not to go out, my whole point is that if you do, and many men do, OR dont even bother going out once they are "committed" then there is something wrong with that.
That their justification for working, and really being alive is being married, with kids. Sure they may not even get along with their wife and their kids are a mess, but hey at least they got em both.
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You did not imply that at all, you implied that love doesn't exist simply because it doesn't exist like it does in sitcoms, that's not love. Real love is a much stronger connection, that involves compromise and altruism, a concept that you might not totally grasp?
Again, you're assuming a comical stereotype is standard to most relationships. And even if some men ask permission, I'm sure they've a good excuse for it. Maybe they had other plans for that night, maybe they accustomed to staying home?
And what you saying doesn't make sense. Staying with your wife even if you don't get along with her? You think that happens a lot, even with the divorce rate so high? You're logic is refutable and based on assumptions, you're trying to apply one scenario to every relationship on earth.
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I think love is romanticized by those same sit coms and rom coms, and because of that society thinks real life should be the same thing, and when it isnt people give up right away. Hence its bullshit.
There is no good excuse for asking permission unless both parties in the relationship do it, if they dont, which is very rarely the case then its bullshit. And dont refute that, its ridiculous if you really sit there and try to tell me that women ask for permission from men anywhere near the amount that men do from women.
I'm saying many people get into relationships and then ultimately stay in them even if they are sort of unhappy just to keep up appearances, and then the other half of them just end in divorce, which is clearly a result of being unhappy.
I dont know why you seem to take it personally here, all I am doing is telling the truth. If you are happy in a relationship with being told what to do more often then you need to be, and accept it as just a "part of married life" then more power to you. I just think its bullshit.
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I'm sorry, you've obviously never been in love so I don't know why I'm arguing. I'm in love, we have a fair relationship, and it's awesome. I'm sorry you can't experience it.
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Its your fault I cant either. If I ever meet you I am gonna kick your ass. Kick it good.