the reason there isnt a strong word for being single is because being single isnt strong like being married . people may INTEND on being with someone for the rest of their lives, but ive never met one couple who are single but together in my 41 years whove been single together all their lives...or even for 10 yrs, have you? all this its just as good is just denial, single guys over 40 are hiding their issues, i would be really cautious of a guy whos lived that much of his life who is still not married. why do you think its always so much more intense dating/sneaking around with MARRIED guys? id much rather do that cuz i know hes got his shit together, the creep still living with his mother at 45 obviously DOESN'T.
Why are you calling people in relationships single just because they're not married? That's weird and just plain incorrect, if they're in a relationship then they're by definition not single.
An unmarried relationship that's lasted the same amount of time as a married couple is just as strong. Yes I have met a couple who have been together over 10 years without getting married. My uncle has been with his partner for about 30 years and they've never bothered getting married because they don't see the point in it, and they're the happiest couple I've ever known (they did actually get engaged a few years after they met but never bothered getting married). They fully intend to be together the rest of their lives and I have no doubt they will.
It sounds more serious cheating with a married man because you know if he's married then his relationship is definitely at least a few years old. There's no way of telling how old an unmarried man's relationship is, other than by asking him. So you'd assume the married man's relationship is older, therefore it's more serious for him to cheat. But if the unmarried man's relationship is older, then it is more serious for him to cheat.
which is better being single or married?
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the reason there isnt a strong word for being single is because being single isnt strong like being married . people may INTEND on being with someone for the rest of their lives, but ive never met one couple who are single but together in my 41 years whove been single together all their lives...or even for 10 yrs, have you? all this its just as good is just denial, single guys over 40 are hiding their issues, i would be really cautious of a guy whos lived that much of his life who is still not married. why do you think its always so much more intense dating/sneaking around with MARRIED guys? id much rather do that cuz i know hes got his shit together, the creep still living with his mother at 45 obviously DOESN'T.
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Why are you calling people in relationships single just because they're not married? That's weird and just plain incorrect, if they're in a relationship then they're by definition not single.
An unmarried relationship that's lasted the same amount of time as a married couple is just as strong. Yes I have met a couple who have been together over 10 years without getting married. My uncle has been with his partner for about 30 years and they've never bothered getting married because they don't see the point in it, and they're the happiest couple I've ever known (they did actually get engaged a few years after they met but never bothered getting married). They fully intend to be together the rest of their lives and I have no doubt they will.
It sounds more serious cheating with a married man because you know if he's married then his relationship is definitely at least a few years old. There's no way of telling how old an unmarried man's relationship is, other than by asking him. So you'd assume the married man's relationship is older, therefore it's more serious for him to cheat. But if the unmarried man's relationship is older, then it is more serious for him to cheat.
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thats amazing and im happy for your uncle..30yrs is incrfible! i personally have not seen unmarried couples last more than a year