19 and still single

is there any other 19 year olds out there that has never been in a relationship??

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  • Duck_________

    I'm 19 and still single. I've never met a woman who was worth the effort.

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    • piercebrosnan

      Sure, that's it.

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    • kaylinspence

      As egotistical as it is, I feel the same way- I think I have trust issues. I hope in the last 8 years that you found someone, because I'm 19 and in your boat now!

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  • tssdavsoft

    Totally. 20 and have never done anything romantic in my life.

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  • FlowerChick

    Dear 19-year-old, you have a long life ahead of you. It could be that you are feeling pressured by your peers? I was considered a "late bloomer" for a young woman, and I am certain my era in maturing is all together different from today's teens. However, as healthy, normal humans we are one and the same, having the urge to have a mate, to love, and have companionship.

    I have always found that when I am not looking for something, the most wonderful interesting things happen in your life. I believe in fate, and/or things happen for a reason, meaning, that the timing may not be right for you, for whatever reason, not necessarily any negative reason, it's just that something is telling you, the one has not appeared.

    I am in my 40's, and have recently separated, and even my mother in her 60's was going through a divorce after 35 years of marriage. You'll discover through your relationships in life that every person brings with them something special, that you'll be able to hold onto, and perhaps at somepoint, you'll cross paths with one who captures your heart like no other.

    Don't rush things, you have a long life ahead of you. Work on your "friendships", with others, girls, guys, etc., as these are the friends you will know and nurture for many years. Isn't it wonderful when you hear an elderly person, I still talk to my childhood sweetheart, or we have been friends for 50 years? Have a great life, you're not abnormal at all, just a bit young and perhaps feeling a bit pressured by others, society's customs, etc.

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  • HickorySticks

    19 and never kissed a girl

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  • andrian007

    I'm a 30 year-old male virgin and I've never had a girlfriend before. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you, you're still young and you still have a long way to go. Look, whenever you feel bad about yourself, just think of me OK, and you'll be fine.

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  • LMAO. WOA whatever! I'm 23 and still single!!! Don't worry, You've still got some livin' to do there, kid.

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    • lemon

      Seconding violent10dency!

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  • Proudfear

    hell im almost 20 never even dated, nothing wrong with it

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  • Flabbergasm

    I am nineteen and I'm still single also, and I have never been in a relationship either, it's perfectly normal, just don't stress about it too much saying "Ohhh I want a boyfriendgirlfriend right now! We'll be best of partrners and we will have sex in a castle made of bacon!" It's not going to be as jolly as you imagine it.

    When it happens, it happens, just don't expect it to be perfect, no one's perfect!

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  • liloprado

    i hate relationships!, there is no reason to attach to somebody just because you need a boyfriend.

    i have had very few ''relationships'' with men i really really liked.

    and a lot of casual sex! hahaha

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  • blech

    YES! Wow, I was actually going to make a post here but you've done it for me :).

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  • Obsessed

    Most people that are single are just too self concious, people that do have partners are more outgoing...or lucky.

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  • adam69

    no. and for the people who say they havent met someone good enough, bullshit, nobody good enough has liked u.

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  • AllGeminisToTheRaspberryHats

    I'm 18 and never been in any serious relationships (as in intimate) i do have an interest but just cant seem to get the girl i want

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  • nobody94

    serious question? if so i do not think it is normal because i have had a girlfriend since i was in grade 6, i remember because she was in my class and we clicked. i had to move and i lost touch but a long distance relationship wouldnt have worked out either.

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  • mullberry3388221

    My sister has never had a boyfriend and she is 21 and the same with me
    you have absolutely nothing to worry about, you've still got the rest of uni if your there, even if you not at uni your young which makes it so much easier to find people.
    If students go to certain universities e.g. Oxbridge, LSE, Durham, UCL, etc then there less likely to find people, because they work so much. There's probably a fair amount of people there who have never had a relationships.

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    • fizzbitchandgun

      I'm 19 and I've been on one relationship that lasted 11 days so... I'm not counting it. And you know, I know a few of my mates who haven't been in a relationship either, one of them is like the hottest chick I've ever met and she just didn't think any guy was up to her standard. I can't say the same thing, really, but... if you hold out you won't regret it.

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  • piercebrosnan

    It's not normal to have never dated someone at your age, but it's not completely unheard of. If you WANT a relationship I assure you it's easier then you think. Go to a place of interest you have and just try talking to people. It's not as scary as it seems.

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  • Modesto

    I am almost 19 and have never been in one. :)

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  • jack126

    Hi mate, don't rush it, there is no need for it. Wait as many years as you need, take your time. You will DEFINETLY find the right girl in the right moment.

    I know how you feel, and yes it sucks. But experience has told me that it just ok to be that way. There is nothing wrong in being single at your age.

    ¡Cheer up!

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  • kristin

    i think this is completely normal. so you havent found your special someone yet. it's really understandable. i've been in a real relationship either. dont worry, you'll find that someone.:)

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    • kristin

      oops, i mean i havent been in one either. blah, i hate it when i typo

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  • BayonetKnifeFighter

    I'm 19 and the closest I've ever gotten in a relationship was I asked this girl out in highschool and she said no. Never asked again.

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  • dude get out there and start livin ur life seriously hang out wit ur friends nd stuff and maybe den a girl will think ur cute and then flirt wit u and den u just gota ask her out and bam ur not single anymore

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    • Is it really that simple? I guess I really do need to get out more.

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    • Username7

      Actually it isn't that easy.

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    • FunkyFatMan

      bullcrap

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  • Artanis22

    No.

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