2-5 minutes late for work and being treated this way
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The quick condense version of my story if you don't want to read below the line below:
Hi is it normal if you are late to work from other job that you commute from with traffic sometimes I'm late 2-5 minutes for the second job but boss says no excuse. I have a disability so don't drive and I take the train because I can't stand up long and constantly feel faint 24/7 and Uber is too expensive. No customers are usually in building in the first 1-2 hours of my shift and there's someone else working the same desk as me but he's always watching movies or playing games she doesn't allow me to use my phone because I'm late and tells me to leave it in locker all day. She also says I can't take a break because I'm late when I'm entitled to 30 mins because I'm there 7 hours. My coworkers take 1 hour when they are only supposed to take 30 mins and they also spend 2-3 hours sometimes 4 hours in the lockeroom kissing, watching movies and talking and smoking outside.
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More info(longer story if you felt like reading but you don't have to):
My job is at a desk in a lobby it starts at 9 am. There are two of us at the lobby desk so when I get there my coworker is there. He's usually watching a tv show with airpods in but I'm not allowed my phone I was told by my boss I can't even have it on me because of my lateness but when I mention other people playing games on it and watching movies she says I don't care they can do what they want you can't so I have to leave my phone in a locker all day. So I just sit and wait for people to come by and answer questions if they have any and because of covid we get maybe 1 person coming in the first 2 hours mostly 0.
My boss doesn't let me take a half hour break either when I work 7 hours because of my 2-5 minutes late. My coworkers there 7 hours get half hour but they take 1 full hour even though they're not supposed to and they also take another 2-3 hour break later on where they watch Netflix movies in the locker room together. I tried telling my boss but she said I'm lying when I'm not they watched the entire fear street first and second movie back there today while I was alone at the desk and people from the other hallway ask where the receptionist is I go to the lockeroom to tell her to go to her desk and she says hold on there's 10 mins left of the second movie they were watching..
I only get to use the bathroom once but it's right next to the desk so I go in there to pee, take my medication, have a few bites of my sandwich quickly and lie down it's embarrassing I know but if I don't lie down I start feeling nauseas so I just stay 2-3 minutes in there I time it.
My boss keeps saying she will fire me if I'm late again but she knows my other job I can't quit and I can't drive so I don't know what to do. She says I'm lazy because I can't get here fast enough but I leave my first job right away which is 7 hours and work 6 days a week and I am at the desk the whole day while many hours go by and the guy is watching movies or talking outside smoking a cigarette and the other workers like the receptionist from the other hall is in the locker room too for ages watching movies and talking to her boyfriend on the phone. Why am I not allowed to take any break or be 2-5 mins late when I'm commuting and I told her the first week I started working there it's been 6 months. My clock ins show this:
Monday 9:03
Tuesday 9:00
Wednesday 9:02
Thursday 9:00
Friday 9:05
Saturday 9:03
My commute I explained to her. It's 15-20 minutes by train. I leave my first job right away I wear my clothes for my second job under my clothes for my first job to save time too. She says I'm lazy and she even called me evil for being so selfish but I don't think I'm selfish I'm trying my very best
Is it normal