19 (soon to be 20) and never had a girlfriend.

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So, i'm 19 years old and ive never had a girlfriend. Girls have liked me in highschool, but I was too shy to do anything about it. Im in college now, and my college has like 1 girl for every 50 guys so you could pretty much call it a all guys school.

Most of my friends have girlfriends, and sometimes it makes me sad I havent found someone yet. There are no girls in my life right now, also because I dont have a job, and I because im not really a outgoing person, I like going to the movies with friends or sitting somewhere with them, but I dont like partys or clubs and stuff like that.

Sometimes I get these thought that I will never find someone. Just wondering if its normal.

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  • (.)(.)boobies
    9 years ago | pl

    Use the search bar and type in "never had a girlfriend." You'll realize how normal you are.

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    • disthing
      9 years ago

      Exactly. Here, I'll help OP out:

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-19-going-on-20-and-never-had-a-love-relationship-135465/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-have-never-had-a-serious-girlfriend-by-my-age-38104/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-19-and-have-never-had-a-girlfriend-71035/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/i-am-18-years-old-and-i-have-never-had-a-girlfriend-30519/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-a-virgin-at-19-and-to-never-had-a-girlfriend-31988/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-im-22-and-have-never-had-a-girlfriend-125121/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/never-had-a-girlfriend-at-almost-20-51843/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-ive-never-had-a-girlfriend-and-im-20-years-old-86599/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/20-years-old-and-never-had-a-girlfriend-58657/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-ive-never-had-a-girlfriend-and-im-22-years-old-142184/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-20-years-old-and-have-never-had-a-girlfriend-67222/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-i-never-had-a-girlfriend-162638/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/never-had-a-girlfriend-38111/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-have-never-had-a-girl-friend-at-18-58492/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-im-20-and-have-never-been-in-love-or-a-girlfriend-62817/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-im-19-and-never-have-had-a-proper-girlfriend-130459/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-never-had-a-girl-friend-at-21-129702/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-i-just-turned-18-and-never-had-a-girlfriend-150222/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/cant-find-a-girlfriend-27889/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-have-never-had-a-girlfriend-by-the-age-of-19-36529/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-18-and-never-been-on-a-date-37640/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-never-have-had-a-relationship-64962/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/iin-that-i-never-had-a-girlfriend-before-115482/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-have-never-hand-a-date-a-girlfriend-or-got-laid-116857/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-im-20-years-old-and-have-never-asked-a-girl-out-114903/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-21-and-have-never-had-a-girlfriend-75973/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-not-ever-have-a-girlfriend-by-18-50300/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/18-and-no-girlfriend-62660/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-not-to-have-a-gf-at-the-age-of-21-96583/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-a-25-years-old-guy-has-never-dated-anybody-169762/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-not-have-a-girlfriend-at-18-63308/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/i-am-19-and-have-never-been-kissedasked-out-is-it-normal-115743/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-ive-never-had-a-girlfriend-and-im-18-119166/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-i-am-19-and-havent-had-a-single-relationship-141310/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-for-a-22-year-old-to-be-a-virgin-with-no-girlfriend-36525/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-i-dont-have-a-girlfriend-82270/

      http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-im-an-eighteen-year-old-male-without-a-girlfriend-96059/

      ...That's not all of them, and I excluded those stories from people under 18 and over 25, and girls asking why they've never had a boyfriend.

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      • (.)(.)boobies
        9 years ago

        You are a sweet man, disthing!

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  • Johnnytherat
    9 years ago

    u must be rew-tarded

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  • mirs
    9 years ago

    Totally normal. I'm a girl in the same position. I don't want to date just anyone, I want to date a guy who respects me and all of that and not just to say I have a boyfriend. But at 19 I get jealous when I see 15 year olds dating and here I am with no dating experience. But I think it's better to wait for true love.

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  • JosephMcGuinness
    9 years ago

    Normal to shy, but ask her out or you will never know what she feels about you.

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  • ilovetoiletrolls
    9 years ago

    NORMAL X 100010010010100101

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