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Im a very handsome man... Very 3-dimensional, good belly...Also kind and caring... How come no girl wants me?
Females are unattracted to people-pleasers.
Females are unattracted to males who they never see talking to women.
Females are unattracted to males who have nervous laughter.
Females are unattracted to males who look for approval.
Females are unattracted to males who pretend they don't notice the woman physically.
How's that for a start?
31 years old and you have not yet understood that looks are not all that matter. You have to be able to hold a conversation.
Don't give a shit what Women want, don't even give them the time of day and only care for/work on yourself (like working out, getting a good job/house/car, etc.) ironically that will make you more attractive for some reason. If you want to know why that is I don't know but from what I've seen & (rarely/unfortunately) experienced it apparently works.
Maybe don’t go around describing oneself as a handsome man for a start 🤣
Yes, you are probably trying too hard unless you're one of those assholes whom thinks they're entitled to romance and sex just because they have decent manners and act polite which is literally the bare minimum.
Or you might need to lower your expectations or just put yourself out there if you haven't yet.
I'm a lot older than you and have never had a partner. But that's because I don't want one.
There are many reasons why someone may have not found a partner by a certain age, not limited to their physical qualities.
People reach different milestones at different ages too, so there's no shame in being single by a certain age. Some of the happiest and healthiest relationships I know involve couples that didn't meet until their 30's or later. I know a woman who hardly dated before she met her husband in her early 30's, and they've been happily married for over 30 years now.
There could be many reasons why you are still single, and it's impossible to know exactly why without personally knowing you. It could be that you don't put yourself out there enough, or simply that you haven't found the right person for you yet.
I ask myself this everyday but im 28f and also most women are over men so I'm stupmed why I cant find a gf by now