how to overcome my shyness with girls ??

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I don't know why i'm extremely shy when i'm talking to any girl, i just get very nervous and i cant handle the conversation very well, i talk in a weird way end up embarrassing myself in front of her, i just wanna have a nice conversation with a female friend that's all i don't want anything else, right now its important for me to solve this problem so i can be confident, any advices how to get rid of my shyness ???? thanks in advance

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  • deepdankstickygoo
    8 years ago

    Just stare at a girls chest while talking to her..that way you avoid the awkwardness of eye contact.

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    I'm no expert either but I know I get shy when I put them on a pedestal. If the women isn't that attractive I'm much less nervous. Try to remember that they're just like you except without dicks. They're just other people.

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    Work on improving yourself and becoming a person of substance, value, and character, then you will naturally develop confidence to approach women.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    8 years ago

    This has been happening to people all over the world for years and years and years and years.

    There is no one solution for everyone but it definitely is a confidence issue. Look at what is making you insecure and try not to let it bother you.

    Easier said than done and takes a lot of practice.

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  • flamer180
    8 years ago

    First off, your shy because you find girls special :) And thats good

    You could try to gain confidence with guys first. Then once you have alot of confidence with guys, you could try to move on to girls

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    I need to talk with my management company as setting me up as a "Help this guy learn how to get laid" consultant. Such easy money.

    I would do it different with a real client but heres a sample of my ebook...

    Chapter 1
    Go talk to girls.

    So first you need to find a place where girls are bars or clubs are sometimes good. Then... talk to girls.

    Doesn't matter what. What time is it? Do you know where the restroom is? I bet you can't guess my favorite color? Do 100 Reps.

    After you get good at these 1 question 1 answer encounters then move on to 2 questions 2 answers. What time is it? Do you know if such and such bank is open this late? Obviously a little situational the actual ebook will have better examples. Do 100 Reps.

    Start freestyling. Come up with your own 3 or more question combos and work in your own natural ad libs. This is where more hands on showing would work better than a written explanation. The best way is to notice something about her and better her than her clothes unless you really really know if she's wearing $1000 pumps. Do 100 reps.

    At this point assuming you haven't done this 300 times to your mom or sister or secretary you should be getting more comfortable talking to girls. If not you know the drill back to the start.

    Chapter 2
    Scoring the digits

    ...oh thats right you just want to get comfortable talking to them your not trying to get laid.

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