is it normal for me to have this dream?

Basically, I was playing as a 15-year-old teenage girl in high school and I was part of the "Threshold to Adulthood" club. What happened is that eventually, they wanted to kick me out by any means necessary because "I didn't meet the standards of: complete maturity, independence, calm-minded regardless of the situation and assertiveness". I also dreamt that because of this, my parents wanted nothing more to do with me and abandoned me to fend for myself. But when I became more stoic, mature, level-headed and assertive, I finally had friends. What do you think? I think it's a realistic metaphor for how you're expected to grow up and conform or everyone will ostracize you.