A girl sexually assaulted me, i'm a girl.

I'm a girl in a long term & committed relationship. Although I am not lesbian, I love to frequent LGBT bars for the good music and cheap drinks.
I recently just invited a friend to a LGBT friendly bar and she invited a a friend as well who was married to a man. Instantly upon meeting this woman I had the feeling that she had the wrong idea about me (maybe she thought I was bisexual & promiscuous, or in a open relationship). She was very touchy, complimented my looks and attempted to play with my hair. It made me uncomfortable but her behavior wasn't enough for me to comment on until she began grabbing my butt, pulling me, attempting me to get to kiss her several times. I dodged her many times and told her to stop touching me because she was seriously making me uncomfortable, but she persisted and wouldn't take no for an answer. I've never been pursued by a woman like this and it made me extremely uncomfortable. This happened a couple days ago, and to be honest, I'm still pretty disturbed and embarassed. Is this normal?

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48% Normal
Based on 93 votes (45 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella

    Yeah, that stupid chick who attacked you is a piece of shit.

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    • novonome

      Please see my reply below

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  • 7777777e

    Of course. All forms of sexual assault is bad, no matter the sexes/genders.

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  • rayb12

    Voted yes, to your reaction being normal. Her behavior was not normal, really despicable.
    I've never had something like that happen to me where they persisted.

    It's not your fault, she went wrong in so many places. First she should have established a romantic connection with you, then she should have asked, the fact that she did neither of these already put her very much in the wrong. But for you to tell her to stop and her still to keep doing it is so over the top, I wouldn't say it never happens but that is just awful I'm so sorry that happened to you.

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    • UnabashedUser

      Let's not forget the 450 page reply, certified and notarized by the American Lesbian Consortium that probes all aspects of the alleged encounter with photos, video, affidavits, testimony, witnesses, statements to back up your alleged claims.

      After that you may feel free to rebuff the aforementioned incident on your way home in a cab

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  • MR.mr

    No it's not normal

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  • TerriAngel

    Earned the title.
    Cunt of the day.
    Guys aren't the only pushy types.
    That said, you play with fire.

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  • SockUnicorn92

    Fuck that girl. She obviously assumed you were into girls and you were DTF. It happens to people of all genders and ages in clubs and shit. Fuckin' cesspools of sex and deviance.

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  • here2help

    this is a clear case of sexual assault. maybe try to coordinate something with the police to confront her while they are watching. if she tries to assault you again they can just haul her off.

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  • sheilarae1987

    Just because it's two girls, doesn't make it sexy, guys.
    If it isn't consensual, then its no bueno, case closed.
    Your reaction is normal, her behavior is not and she'll do it to the wrong person one of these days.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    It's normal to be uncomfortable but it's not normal what she did. Like a lot of other people said, sexual assault is bad no matter who giving it or receiving it, and if you wanted to, you had every right to punch this bitch in the face for putting her hands on you without your consent.

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  • novonome

    Very true an adult off average strength can rip off a ball sack completely. As for the biting the penis off the jaw muscle is the strongest in the body and could cut it off but one wouldn't actually need to even if it was left hanging on a bit the rapist would be in agony and retreat:) also if it was connected up again , he got to hospital in time, hopefully getting an erection would be difficult if not impossible therefore his raping days would be over. And the world would be a better place.

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    • fluffy1uv

      It was a girl dude

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      • novonome

        It was a girl committing the assault?

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        • novonome

          With the massive dick?

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          • fluffy1uv

            Girls can be predators too you sexist

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            • novonome

              I know that but who was it that was brandishing the "massive dick " in the story ? Was it a girl or a guy?I took it to be a man because of the " Well I look at this guy and he is built like a brick shithouse, but what really catches my attention is 18" dick, he is hung like a horse and ready for action" bit...

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  • Shauno1982

    Definitely not normal

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