A guy to frequent the same places i do on purpose?

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I really need help. I was dating this guy but i told him in a nice way to stop seeing each other cause truly i didn't feel the chemistry between us. The thing is that he keeps talking to me e v e r y fucking day and yesterday he told me that he wanted to start working out in the same gym (I go to some dance classes) which i didn't understand because he attends a better gym and all of the sudden he wants to start in this one. And oh he surprinsingly is going the same fucking days i go and at the same hour what a coincidence. Should I be scared? He actually knew I felt uncomfortable with ranning into each other that but he still chose to go the same days that i chose.
I know i sound a little bit paranoic and over the top but its not surprise coming from a guy that is so childish in some ways and it really frustrates me.

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  • flamer180
    8 years ago

    Obviously he wants to try and be with you. So obvious lol
    It's not concidence

    I mean, I understand if you're scared of him then you dont want to be around him.

    But honestly if he isnt hurting you in any way, then I dont see a problem.

    Just ignore him if you want.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    His behaviour is verging on stalking or maybe already is. Don't respond when he talks to you and ignore him at the gym: if you're lucky he'll get tired of hanging around and getting no response from you. If he ups the ante past a certain point and threatens you in any way it would be time to go to the police and take out an order against him.

    Do you have a large family member who could warn him off?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Thank you so much, I already told my mom and friends. Hope he doesn't go that far.

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Keep yourself safe!

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  • Milkncookies
    8 years ago

    Sorry i wrote a lot i needed to tell someone

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