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is it normal to hate girls who get abortions??
there is so many people out there who thinks its okay to kill babys and i think ITS JUST SICK AND WRONG ... CAN I GET SOME COMMENTS ON THIS PLEASE I FEEL LIKE IM THE ONLY ONE WHO CARES BOUT LITTLE CHILDREN BEING MURDERED IS WRONG
hmm, i had an abortion 3 weeks ago.
when i went in for the abortion, there were protesters outside -- yelling how it was murder and god was going to judge me..
well, maybe god will judge them for judging me?
It was the best decision for myself, and i in no way regret it.
IF YOU DON'T AGREE WITH ABORTION, I SUGGEST YOU DON'T HAVE ONE =)
Abortion is right and necessary for women's rights.
TC is obviously a fascist pig who hates her rights and freedom.
After the revolution we will send fascist pigs and religious fundamentalist like you to the Gulags where you belong.
MANSE!!!
I feel it depends on the situation. As child birth can have many complications i wouldn't want to see a 13 year old rape victim go through pregnancy and be reminded everyday by the growing life inside her the horror she went through.
yea, well most of the irresponsible bitches who have abortions werent raped. studies show that only 10% out of the 120,000+ abortions performed each day were actually rape victims or children. most of them irresponsible women get multiple abortions cause they are to fucking selfish to get on birth control. its disgusting.
We just have too many hypocrites in this world.
The same people who are against teaching about birth control and only want abstinence taught in our schools, are the ones who want abortion banned. They also want it to be illegal for gays to get married and/or adopt. This is despite the fact that gay marriages have a tendency to last much longer than "traditional" straight marriages. Gay parents can love and provide for a child just as well as straight ones. Those are also the same people who don't believe in welfare because no one should get a "free meal". So the women who were raped and now must support a life because they didn't get an abortion and cannot find a job in this shitty economy also may not get assistance for their healthcare and that of their child...just cause Joe the plumber doesn't wanna share his hard earned money.
Also a lot of the people who are against abortion are war supporters. So its not ok to kill a fetus because you claim it has a "soul" even though it cannot physically survive on its own. But it is ok to go bomb a city of innocent women and children because their fathers/husband w/e have done something to upset you.
So if a completely undeveloped fetus has a soul does that mean a sperm and an egg have a soul. Do embryos have souls?
I think I disagree with you on that. whilst I can't imagine advising any of my friends to do it, I don't feel I have the right to force people to go through a nine month pregnancy for a baby they don't want. and also, i don't think women who have an abortion should be stigamtised the way they frequently are, often they'll already feel bad so there's no sense in compounding it. I don't think a foetus is the same as a baby, so I wouldn't count it as murder.
however, yours is a very common point of view, particularly where i live (it's illegal here unless a woman's life is threatened, as far as i know). if you want to make contact with peple who share the same perspective, you could probably just google pro-life and something should come up.
Yea I have to agree with you, it isn't a baby until five months, so people who say it's a baby for like the first month or so are stupid ignorant asshole's. They need to find facts before they spew shit out of their mouth's (MOSTLY CHRISTIAN INTOLERANT IDIOTS)And anyway's who do they think they are telling someone they can't have an abortion- I could see if they were sleeping around, but people who get rapped, and stuff are emotionally F&*cked up and you don't know what's going through their mind's.
My friend is the product of rape and her life is horrible; her mother verbully abuses her and hit's her sometimes, and she's tried to kill herself. So save the trouble of putting one of those "babie's" through a life of shit and misery. Thats all I have to say to the people that think their beliefs are the right one's and feel they have the right to force their will's on other's. That's called fascism!!! I'm just stating the fact's. So in the end it's completely up to you to do it or not. Like it should be.
These "pro-lifers" kill me. Most of them never seriously talked to a woman who's had an abortion. If they did, they wouldn't be filled with so much hate. Most of them protest outside of abortion clinics, but have never been inside of them. If they did, they would see women, crying their eyes out over the choice that they made. Most (not all) women who made that choice don't see abortion as some easy solution. It's a serious desicion and they know that. There's a guilt that comes with abortion that "pro-lifers" will never understand, so instead making these women feel more shitty than they already do, just ease off and mind your own business. I should know, I had an abortion two years ago and I STILL weep for my unborn child. Ever since I made that descision, I've made sure that I would never put myself in a position to even consider making that kind of choice again. Fortunately I have friends who give me shoulder to cry on and has never judged me (and they're also Christian so don't use your religion as a mask for hate). Just keep in mind that women may have abortions, but not all of them are heartless and worthy of hate. Peace...
honesty i think its wrong to try and have them banned. like if you know you cant care for the child or it will be broughtup wrong you should have the choice. they dont know the difference anyway noone has memories of being in the womb so they dont know there alive so they wont know if there dead
Here's a brain teaser for you Christians who believe abortion is wrong and you need to run everyone's life:
A woman wants to have an abortion, but wait! The conservative vote made it illegal! So she gives birth to a baby she didn't want and hated the child for it. She beat the child every day until he was 14 and old enough to run away. He was taken into the foster system, and the family he was placed with was only a little better. He grew up in that home killing animals he caught just for the sheer joy of it for 4 years. When he was 18, he moved out. In New York City, he kidnapped women who reminded him of his mother and he killed them in his home. He killed 10 people in 3 months before he was caught and sentenced to death by lethal injection. In 18 years, he took 10 lives and shattered countless others by leaving children to grow up motherless.
Would it have been better if he had been aborted, so none of his would've happened? Or do you still believe abortion is wrong in every single scenario?
I find its wrong to expose children to pictures of mutilated babies in order to condition them into believing in all of the teachings of a church, that jesus loves everyone except for people that aren't the same as you, and that you should always blindly follow everyone and everything you're told. I find its really annoying to have preachy brainwashed zealot bitches all over the internet and media. I mean we know you're annoying and clearly brainwashed but do you have to be a bunch of attention-whores about it. can't you just take your own lives or be homeless like normal crazy people.
Ok, so if I live in a rundown area, with criminals around every corner, and had no income or security, you think I should raise a child in those conditions? Yeah getting an abortion should be a last choice, with birth control & condoms & pulling out, But people living in these conditions cant provide their child with a good environment to grow up in. These are the cases in which the child will die AFTER BIRTH, or could become a drug dealer, or worse.
I don't understand how people call abortion doctors murderers, and then attack and kill them. The whole pro-life movement is a bunch of b.s. Yeah a fetus is a living cell, but by that logic so is a genital wart. This whole topic is so skewed and backwards. I'm sure Americans have agreed that the youth of America is ruined but then we are promoting more of these so called "stealing, drug-doing, loud rap music, irresponsible, and bad influence children to be born?
Sure it is easy to say that you believe that life is a God given right. But you are not the one to take care of the kid, or to give birth to it, and lose all your hopes and dreams, & not to mention physical attractiveness.
"is it normal to hate girls who get abortions??
there is so many people out there who thinks its okay to kill babys and i think ITS JUST SICK AND WRONG ... CAN I GET SOME COMMENTS ON THIS PLEASE I FEEL LIKE IM THE ONLY ONE WHO CARES BOUT LITTLE CHILDREN BEING MURDERED IS WRONG"
I think it's perfectly excusable to hate a girl for 'murdering' their child, if life was a Walt Disney picture book where these evil, selfish bad guys, the moms-who-don't-want-to-be-moms, kill their children.
If you hate a woman who had an abortion, you have missed the point. I am not even going to explain to you why. If you can't think that up yourself, you're not worth having a conversation with. Sorry.
And if you think I have an attitude about me, may I remind you of the fact at least 67%% (2 in 3 people) thought your post was not normal.
Abortion is a RIGHT. Women have a RIGHT to protect their bodies and their lifes from unwanted pregnancies. Every civilized country in the world has abortion laws protecting women AND unborn children.
This is a moral issue, and depending on your religious beliefs equals your opinion on abortion. It could also be that you are not religious but believe that man is the most important, hence a humanistic point of view. Either way you shouldn't hate anybody for the choices wrong or right they make in my opinion.
I think abortion is murder. The surgical process of abortion is really gross and very sad, and I couldn't imagine ever going through that. I have had a friend explain it to me, and she basically told me that It was the worst thing she has ever done in her life, and that the process is very painful, emotionally and physically.
I think it is legal to take the abortion pill which when taken almost seems like you are just having a natural miscarriage, but even they can be very painful.
You shouldn't judge girls who get pregnant at a very young age. The teenage mind is not fully developed yet and parents and the school system do not take the necessary time to adequately prepare teens to have "safe sex" Parents don't even want to think of their children having sex, and schools just pass out condoms for the most part, if even that.
I got pregnant at 19 and it was very hard and very scary. My mom died when I was 15 and I had nobody really, except for an overly religious dad who didn't really want anything to do with it. I was scared and I was alone, but I believed abortion or adoption would not be an option for me because I felt I wouldn't be able to live with myself. I have a son and at 22 years old I get told by people that I am too young to have a child. I don't get that because they don't even know how old my son is. What is he was just born? 22 seems like a ideal age to become a parent to me, but I guess women have to go out and get a career or something, and have a baby at 35. Well I say not I!
I'm glad I'm a mom, and I think instead of judging those who are pregnant or a young mother that may be you should try to help them and encourage them. You never know unless you are abstinate it may very well happen to you, because I never thought it would happen to me, or that I would be be like "them"
I agree that abortion is murder, the way I see it really is there isn't much difference in having an abortion and having the child then shooting it in the head.
My school doesn't hand out condoms,I guess they think that it won't send a strong abstinence message, but neither does saying "18th birthday, she's finally legal!!!" which my school does doesn't send an abstinence message either so... I don't know, I guess they just don't want to give us them, the over religious parents would get all pissy and get the god squad on the schools ass.
I don't judge people who get pregnant as a teenager, my mum got pregnant when she was 16, then her boyfriend left her straight after, my bro never wanted to learn who his real father was, when he was younger my mum said to him "I still have his contact info, I can call him up and you can meet your real dad if you want" and he said "NO my dad is the same as my brothers, maybe not biologically, but my real dad left when I wasn't even born then dad started to raise me when you two weren't even married, I don't care about meeting someone who never wanted to be part of my life to begin with"
I do not judge teens who get pregnant, but I do judge them if they get an abortion UNLESS there is a special reason for it.
I am not necessarily against stem cell research though, if you are going to have an abortion then I think you should put the fetus towards stem cell research.
There is nothing wrong with abortion its just like stomping on a chickens egg
Abort because the earth can only sustain a certain amount of people, there is a limitation on the carrying capacity plus more people equals depleting resources which we will eventually run out of. Plus we don't want to deal with more fucked up
Junkies!!!
This is just plain arrogant. What about rape victims and incest? Here's a question for you: do you remember pre-birth while being in the womb? No, you don't, no one does. The developing fetus is not going to to be able to comprehend what is happening, and then it will die. Case closed. Pro-Choice is for people who can think logically and put the whole religious/moral thing to the side.
Okay inscest and rape I can sorta see your point. But at the same time what about adoption...why not put the baby up for adoption if you don't want it? As you call it the 'fetus' is a LIVING being, it is growing and moving and developing inside you. If you have it long enough you can feel it kick and move around. It's a living beinging. Why is it that people thing because it's inside you that you should be able to make the choice to kill it. Your taking a soon to be childs life, and if you did it once it was out of you, people would kill YOU! So why is it different because you can't see it, because you can't feel it yet? It has a heart beat, it is a human growing in there!!
It's just as wrong as using a condom or any other kind of child-preventing methods - because the result is the same as abortion: A potential living being has been denied life.
Either you're in for abortion and child control, or you're only in for unprotected sex and against abortion.
Laws should NOT govern a womans uterus. Remember a woman doesn't want an abortion the way she wants ice cream... she wants an abortion the way a fox wants to chew its leg out of a trap. Either way... your body should belong to you and only you no matter what others approve of or not.
Seriously, STOP CALLING PEOPLE WHORES.
A woman has the right to sleepw ith who she wants.
PERIOD.
A woman has the right to have a child when she wants. She can choose whether she wants to keep a shild or not.
PERIOD.
BASIC FUCKING HUMAN RIGHTS, YEAH?
You chat some shit seriously.
THERE ARE A LOT OF REASONS WHY A WOMAN WOULD HAVE AN ABORTION.
Rape, Age, Financial situation, If she is in an abusive relationship, If she is mentally ill anf therefore unable to care for a child..
PLENT OF REASONS.
NOT CAUSE THEYRE WHORES.
STOP STEREOTYPING PEOPLE YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT, YEAH?
There is only one solution to abortions: NO DUMBASS SL*TS IN HIGH SCHOOLS WHO DO NOT USE CONDOMS AND GET PREGNANT BECAUSE THEY ARE TO STUPID AND NAIVE TO TELL THEIR BOYFRIEND TO PUT ON A RUBBER THING OVER HIS PENIS. If you fix that, then abortion will not be needed. They should arrest people for having sex underage. They should make condoms the law for people under 24. I personally think abortion is neither right nor wrong. A mother has the choice to not have the child. But frankly, she should put it up for adoption. But then again, we are talking about uneducated WH*ORES! they do not know anything!
Abortion in the first trimester is fine. Second is pushing it, and by the third, absolutely not - THAT is murder. But anyone who says that an embryo has feelings and a soul needs to put down their bibles and embrace SCIENCE. When you scramble an egg, do you think you just whipped up some chicken? Think that little ball of goo felt any pain? Yeahhhh, it's kind of unfortunate that not everyone can have perfect lives and not everything goes according to plan. But that's life. There's too many unwanted children and too many people anyways.
I personally believe it is not up to you to judge OR YOU OR YOU OR YOU..or ME! I think its up to god and each individual girl/child/ball of cells. However you look at it. I'm personally pro-choice but I don't judge others that disagree with how I feel. And I don't feel that you should hate people. God will judge them one day and it isn't up to you to judge them. Especially if you don't know them or their situation.
You're either a christian conservative, or anti-woman (which are pretty much the same).
What a woman does with her body is her own damn business, I bet your views would turn around in the blink of an eye if your father/preacher/stepfather or brother raped you when you were 12-14 and you knew you could provide for it.
How do you feel about a a middle aged woman who already has 4 kids, a husband who barely makes ends meat for his family and she finds out she's pregnant because one night they made love and the condom broke/the pill didn't work properly, just think about a few scenarios before you start judging, I mean, if a 19 yr old college girl gets banged 6 ways from sunday in a frathouse while drunk (with the booze she willingly embibed) ends up knocked up, even in that scenario, It's a toss-up, because if she keeps the kid, she learns a lesson, but just leaves the kid with a babysitter while she makes siblings for the little bastard, and if she gets an unholy ABORITION than the child in question would've never known what a weelfare christmas was, had to watch mommy use
WIC coupons in order to pay for their food or get harassed for having a slut/drunk crack whore for a mother...think..just think!!
I don't want to comment on the morality of abortion (even though i am in favour) as it is an unwinnable argument. I would however like to point out that it is not always as "cut and dried" as irrisponsible unpotected sex.
I live in South Africa where 1 in 5 people are HIV positive (old statistics) and due to a crumbling health system antiretrovirals are not easily a available to everyone. Are you really so arrogant as to think that you are right to condemn a woman, who is most likely traditionally married for having an abortion if the risk is very high -and it is- that her child will have HIV. Most HIV positive children die before the age of 15, slowly and agonizingly.
Wake up. Life is not fair and sometimes we have to make diffycult choices.
Your ignorant fanaticism is contemptable.
It is ridiculous to hate people who have abortions whether you believe in them or not. Hatred is always wrong.
i agree. abortionis wrong. but put yourself in the girls situation. if your young and u come out pregnant, you really don't want to mess up your life by having a baby at this age.
people say if u can't be responssible for a baby then don't have sex. but let's be serious, we have sex. u can u se a condom but mistakes happen. and sometimes is better to have an abortion then have a baby struggle once it's born. women have the choice to do whatever they want with their body. so abortion shouldnt be illegal because it gives women a choice. smetimes is wrong, but sometimes u have no other option
when it comes to adoption, it is something girls should consider before they have an abortion. but society is harsh on young girls who have babies. this is a hard and complicated situation. there are many ways to look at it. but no matter what, women should have options.
A FETUS, not an infant, has no more consciousness than a small animal. I see it as being sad to kill things in general but at the same time, it's a part of life and death is going to happen, so suck it up and get over your human race. We aren't more important than any other living thing, and we sure as hell better pay for thinking otherwise by killing ourselves. Haha, wow @ Me. >_>
That last comment is fantastic. I used to live in Bend!
This is all religion speaking. Its like my ex boyfriend dumping me when I told him how I was raped at 16 by 4 men and had an abortion. He said I was a murderer and Jesus died for us and blah blah. So I said GOOD RIDDANCE!
Yes, to the original post...
It is HARMFUL for you to HATE. This is why we cannot all live in peace, this is why bad things happen, this is why religion is bad, this is why you SHOULD BE A VIRGIN FOREVER and keep your stupid sacred fruit.
You lack compassion. You lack intelligence. I pray that all of you are children and that is the answer for all this ignorance.
If I had the compacity, I'd hate you for saying you hate me.
You liked my comment, thank you. I think you were refering to me as I live in Salem, Oregon and admitted it and you talked about Bend, Oregon.
It was a very hard piece to write but I am glad I did. Honestly only will bring acceptance in the end and I needed to be honest for my self-enlightenment.
Thank you so much for appreciating and commenting on it.
Paul
Budthewise
I need to be completely honest here.
I wish I had my autistic son aborted.
With that being said, I feel bad for saying that but he cannot even function as a child now and he sure in hell will be a dependant his whole life. I feel bad every time I look at him and realise if I did something wrong.
Sure, he does bring some joy to my day but often its sorrow and doubt upon his life. He will never understand love or hard work, he will always not know basic stuff and I feel truly bad for him.
I do love him but I often wonder if it would have been better to just not have him. Sure, he wouldn't exist and I would feel bad for that, however at least maybe he would get a fresh start if your religious or to simply not exist if your not. I often wonder if that would have been better.
Your son is here for a reason and your job is to help him to have the best life he can have. I'm very sorry to hear about his condition but its GREAT you didn't abort him.
I think even though you think he can't love you, he does.
He has a heart and a soul and i think in there he loves you even though he may not be able to show it...
Definition of a Parasite:
An animal or plant that lives in or on a host (another animal or plant); it obtains nourishment from the host without benefiting or killing the host.
I am not opposed to the destruction of a parasite that later becomes a virus destroying the earth.
But your not abnormal for thinking that killing babies is wrong, I totally understand where your comming from. After all you were once a little parasite too. =)
What's WRONG is people like YOU telling other people how to live THEIR lives.
Abortion is not "right" or "wrong".
It is a decision made by humans and doesn't need to be judged by people who don't understand that their opinions aren't more valuable than the opinion of any other human.
Briefly explain your biased attack on abortion. Why is it "wrong"? Morality is in the eye of the beholder and has no true answer. Morality's truth changes depending on what culture you follow.
One "wrong" can be a "right" for another person. Who are you to judge? You're just another oxygen breathing organism just like everyone else. Get off of your high horse and come back to reality.
isnt saying abortion is wrong like saying using a condom is wrong?
think about it, when a guy cums and instead of the sperm going in you and becoming a fetus and the sperm dies doesnt that mean youve killed millions of future babies? like fetuses
dont get all crazy *cough*(pooky)*cough*
just think about it
I take precautions against pregnancy, but if an accident ever were to happen, I would be rushing off to the abortion clinic the very next day.
If you dont like abortions, dont get one. It may be better not to get involved with those who are pro choice either if you have such a strong opinion of it.
Another thing to keep in mind, the less babies that are brought into this world, the less stupid people there are to put up with.
Several posters above have suggested putting kids into adoption, you know what thats great. but noones going to adopt them, whenever someone wants to adopt a baby they always get one from china or africa, yeah those kids have it bad but what about kids who sit in orphanages here their whole life until theyre old enough to be emancipated youths? I love america but thats the one problem here, we never help our own we always look outward and thats great and all that we want to help everyone but what has that gotten us? Everyone in the world hates us for god only knows what even though we have helped every country out there substantially. But back to abortion, i love to live in a country where i have the freedom to choose and abortion should be a choice for women because what if someone gets their girlfriend pregnant and they arent financially stable enough to support a child are they going to bring it into poverty and have it be starved all its life? Please antiabortionists i know you have a lot of drive but redirect it to helping children in our orphanages, theyre the ones who need the most help, theyre just children who have never had or known a family...
I don't believe Poopy intended to ask a question -- she only sought to have her opinion validated. I find her to be a judgmental hate-monger. I'm proud to live in a country that supports individual decisions in many ways. Like one poster above, I have to agree that those who are against abortion don't seem to get riled up about the death penalty or the millions killed each day around the world -- let alone the thousands of Americans killed in Iraq which had nothing to do with the war on terrorism.
I believe abortion is murder but I can't judge what a person's motive was. Honestly I think its better that the woman abort the child than kill it later like a lot of young mothers have started to do. Just like that nasty Anthony lady in Florida.
I don't think theres an answer to this question, I agree with what most people are saying... while I don't agree with it it shouldn't be illegal either. That would solve nothing and make stuff worse. That being said, theres also the opposite problem of people having too many children and over population of the planet ... look at octomom, that bi`tch disgusts me i swear. so i dunno, just some food for thought i guess.
Abortions have been going on ever since ancient greece (as far as we know) and probably before, by either physical trauma to the uterus to cause a miscarriage or using herbs to cause the fetus to die, so if youre saying youre against abortions, youre saying youre against a family member basically because if theyve been going on that long, someone in your chain of family members dating back to ancient greece has certainly had one, people need to wake up and realize theres nothing they can do about abortions, its someones personal choice, you care so much about them getting an abortion but yet you dont do anything about the thousands upon thousands of kids sitting in american orphanages... why not redirect your cause to help them? Just as much as you cant stop someone from getting plastic surgery because its their choice, you cant stop someone from getting an abortion because like it or not its their choice. Many times people choose an abortion for the right reasons and if you "political activists" want abortions to be illegal, then people are still going to get them, they will just get them in mexico or in an alley the old fashioned way with a hanger i mean honestly wouldnt you rather them get it safely done so when theyre ready to reproduce they can? And again touching on the point of orphanages, so many people are ready to look outward to adopt like china and africa, yeah the kids have it bad there but the kids here have it just as bad and noone seems to care about them, maybe thats the problem with the united states we're always so eager to help other countries that we forget about our own, so take my message to heart, your cause is noble but is going unheard, redirect it to helping children in the united states who are in need
I've already comented but I think that women should have a choice. I though that abortion was evil but you cannot judge until you are in the situation.
I came to an almost pregnant situation and the first thing on my mind was ABORTION. Reasons being:
I cannot cope with a child
I am not in a stable relationship
I have no money
I havent finished my education
Too young
Still living off my mum
Still selfish as a young person
No job or proper qualifications for a well paid job
Why bring up a child in an environment that will make it wish it was never born? Mummy is out ALL day trying to get money and daddy's gone. Is that really what you want for a child? or would you rather wait till you are physically, emotionally and mentally able to have a child.
i think it is both wrong and right, if you have been raped and falling pregnant from it then yes post natal depression depression is a killer and if the woman is already hating the baby it mite carry on after it is born, also young girl getting pregnant if they dnt want it because they feel they can not give it a good life then yes. its not just about the unborn baby its about the mother to if she cant handle it at all then that babys gonna have a bad life like so many babys that a born unwanted.
FOR ALL THE DUMB CHINKS HERE WHO THINK THAT FETUS' FEEL PAIN - THEY DONT.
AT THE STAGES OF PREGANANCY YOU CAN RECIEVE AN ABORTION THE BABY WILL NOT HAVE DEVELOPED A SPINAL CHORD OR A FULL NERVOUS SYSTEM.
AS ANOTHER USER STATED BEFORE ME - ITS LIKE STOMPING ON A CHICKEN EGG.
I THINK WOMEN SHOULD BE ABLE TO CHOOSE WITHOUT QUESTION.
I ALSO FIND IT SAD TO SEE WHAT A REPRESSIVE WORLD WE LIVE IN.
Well, you can hate the action, but you should probably know the circumstances behind it first before actually hating the person...
My great great aunt was whored out by my great great granpda, and he forced her to have an abortion when she was seven months pregnant. She was gonna keep the kid. Situations are different. Learn the facts first.
I knew someone who hated girls who got abortions until she had to make the decision to get one. Abortion is a very difficult decision to make. It's life changing and will affect you forever. I think abortion is an absolute last option, and is definitely NOT a method of birth control.
I had one, do you hate me? True, I was unmarried and having sex. I was in my early 20s. I was not in a good relationship. My boyfriend was suicidal, unbeknownst to all of us and paranoid. He poked holes in our condoms. I was impregnated against my will. When I told him I was pregnant, and asked how this could have happened, that's when the truth came out. He said he did it because he thought if I had a child I'd never leave him. I told him I didn't want it, and I was going to get it taken care of. So I did. And I left him, and got an IUD. No more pregnancies for me. I don't think it's immoral to have sex before marriage. I'm not particularly religious, and so I don't feel like I should be subjected to others' morality laws. Not a day passes that I regret my decision.
Maybe if we stopped idolizing men who are sexually irresponsibility we would have less unwanted babies. %%u201CUnwanted babies%%u201D should be an oxymoron. Men who are sexually irresponsibility are morons.
Do you have any vivid memories of being a fetus? Would you really want to grow up with a mother that doesn't want you? That can't take care of you or finance your needs? I think of it as condemning the future child to a horrible life. Do you have a child? Do you know what it's like to care for an infant? I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess you are religious. Like the late George Carlin said, if you care so much about the sanctity of life, why do you believe in a religion that has been killing millions with it's "holy crusades"? If you are not religious, excuse my rant I apologize. But a lot of people have your beliefs and are fanatical about it so don't feel left out.
What if a famale got rapped at the age of 15, 16, 17 etc...? do you think its is fair for her to give up her education and the rest of her life...?
I gotta say that you shouldn't hate anyone. I don't like the idea of abortion, but it's every woman's choice. We all have our reasons. I found out that my little sisters best friend has had at least 3. That truly pisses me off to know that someone uses it as a birth control method, especially when me, myself and I possibly can't have kids. Don't hate them. Hopefully they already feel bad enough about the choice they have made.
I got pregnant at age 16 from a loser boyfriend. Thankfully, as soon I told my mother, she made an appt for me to get an abortion. I'm sure it was the hardest thing she ever had to deal with in her entire life but it was the best thing she could've ever done for me! I am now 38, a college graduate, I have 2 beautiful children and the best husband in the world. I never regretted it!
So, they are doing something that is intensely private, something they have thought about for a long time, something that may be necessary to their health or the health of the baby--and you hate them for it. You know nothing of their situation. Your opinion is ignorant.
I hate people who rape babies, mutilate young girls' genitalia (as they do in some parts of Africa), and sexually torture people. I DO NOT hate women who are forced to the heartbreaking decision of getting an abortion.
Do you realize how many things can go wrong during a pregnancy? Do you realize that so many of the more devestating birth defects (like Potter syndrome) are only visible via ultrasound later in the pregancy?
Did you know there is no such thing as post abortion syndrome--but that post adoption syndrome is a common problem?
Besides, the God of the Bible was the biggest abortionist this world has ever seen: he ordered genocides of entire nations, pregnant women to be split open, and infants dashed upon rocks. During the Flood, how many babies or pregnant women do you think he killed then?
I hate those same women who had abortions who attack my mother because she chose to keep all of her children. I've seen these same women literally want to physically fight her because of this gruesome choice they made for themselves. No one is forced to have an abortion. Post abortion syndrome does exist, hence there wouldn't be sites dedicated to women looking for refuge from their own conscience. Women are now using it as a form of birth control and will use any excuse to justify their wrongdoings. If a woman gets a botched abortion do you think many people will feel sorry for her? God has the right to do what he please as it it his land whether you believe it or not.
I think its ironic that most people who are against abortion are for the death penalty. Its a fact, look it up so what? Supposed murder is only best with a fine aged victim? Have any of you ever heard of a word called hypocrisy? What if adolf hitlers mother had an abortion? Osama bin ladins mom had an abortion? What do you pro life people have to say about that? Would yall go back in time and stop their mothers from doing it? 100 percent of mothers who have abortions don't have kids who suffer from poverty, or children who grow up to be murders and rapist
I would have liked to have had stem cell research go through, some people don't want to have children. They can have them when they want them, but people who are born in a wheelchair and to have every day be like that since the day he/she was born. If your worried about potential lives, don't worry. You've killed thousands the day you were born.
What I don't understand, is the fact that people get so worked up over a baby's death, but not the hundreds murders and bombings and killings going on in our world today.
You're fine with killing a baby, but you're willing to let innocent people (mothers, children) in Iraq, not to mention your own soldiers, die?
That's just my standpoint. Everyone is distracted by a pregnant teen and forget the fact that people who are already born and living are being cut from their lives because of ignorant, selfish assholes. And no one gives a shit.
Personally, if you were raped, you have every right to have an abortion. If there's medical complications, and you're DYING or going to die if you don't rid yourself of the baby, you have every right to have an abortion. Too young? Yes, you still have the right. Even if it was a poor decision. Not enough money? Of course.
BUT if you're just a woman sleeping around without contraception of any kind, you are a fucking moron. I still think it's their choice, but immorally it's wrong. Especially if your supposed "hubby" or boyfriend deserts you.
And the whole sex after marriage thing? People get divorced. Suddenly getting married doesn't magically mean you stay that way. Things happen.
For fuck sake, use a condom. Don't get pregnant in the first place. Don't be an idiot.
I think you are being really really extreme. I doubt any seeking an abortion feel it is OK. They feel it is necessary. And that is their choice about their bodies.
You could be a lot more compassionate about other people. What if you ever find yourself with an unplanned/unwanted pregnancy?
of course its wrong to hate women that get abortions. Abortions are a beautifal thing and should always be legal. Pro abortion
Picture this a young women with her whole entire life ahad of her. She gets raped buy her ex, or some rndom guy in the street. She sure enough, gets pregnant. Would YOU want to keep your attacker's little offspring?? I thin not. And btw, before the "fetus" is 3 months old, old he/she/it is is just some potential tissue, GENIOUS!
well i think your wrong a bit because you dont know everybodys situation,i dont agree with abortion but i wouldnt hate the person or be horrible to them!its there choice and there baby there not taking your baby away so dont be so horrible to them!
abortions are really sad, and i don't think a woman should ever feel like she HAS to get one, but they are a fact of life. if you hate abortions you should support sex-ed in school. if women use protection they won't need abortions later.
there is a reason for a woman to get her baby terminated.
she doesn't just think, "oh fuck this i'll kill it".
is it wrong for a woman to terminate a baby when she has been raped and as a result, got pregnant?
is it wrong for a woman to terminate her pregnancy if she can't physically or mentally look after the baby?
this also sparks the debate about when a life is considered a life, when it's a foetus? when it's born? when the sperm and egg first meet?
If you cannot cope with a baby, then why bring it into the world where they are likely to suffer psychologically or emotionally? That is just as bad as 'murdering' a baby.
I think abortion is wrong when the baby starts developing human like features, but when it's just a bunch of cells, or at the really early stages then abortion is OK, as long as it is not done for selfish reason's like career although you are already at a stage where you can finacially bring up a child.
I agree with HowardMoon. you are a hypocrite.
and my opinion, Abortion is a woman's choice. don't judge cause you don't know what its like till your put in the situation.
i hate people like you.
I don't necessarily like abortion, but I think it is cruel to force a 11 or 12 year old rape victim go through a 9 month pregnancy and then the pain of childbirth. She didn't even mean to have sex. Honestly, how would you feel if you were carrying a little person in your womb and you didn't even do anything to deserve it? You gotta worry about the kid inside you, give birth...it's insane.
i absolutely disagree, i mean let's say you were raped or something at 15! you got pregnant and you know that your not ready to have a child, i say keep your nose out of everyon'e buisness
Abortion is a choice, and always will be, you cannot change it, you will not change it.
The reason we legalize abortion is so that small mommy's don't leave babies in trash cans or go fiddling around in their cervix at home with wire hangars. These mommy's are desperate and history must always be taken into accord, they will find a way without a doctor.
So Wakey Wakey to the new world, this century we are smarter, so you are either on the boat or you are not, and for the person that is not capable of unconditional love, u will pay for it by living in your own corpuscle and forever tortured by other peoples choices.
I say if you haven't been through the situation you can't judge it. You don't know what that person feels and Im sure most of you who are judging this topic has never been through it. And hate is a really strong word. Hating someone is just like wishing someone was dead. And you are talking about murder? hmm. Lets think a little about this.
I just came back from a pro-life rally... it's so fun fucking with those people... they get so easily worked up.
To be honest, I don't think making abortion illegal will change much... except make the conditions in which women have abortions even worse. That being said, making abortions illegal would only cause more damage to women their unborn children. Look at it this way - in a hospital, things are sanitized, the woman is under anesthesia, and there is a SURGEON. When abortion is illegal, women still need to have them! Instead of going to hospitals, they go to clinics where the people there are barely educated in surgery, the tools are not clean, and the woman is awake and aware for the whole procedure! This would endanger not ONLY the child, but the mother as well...
While I don't like abortions, making them illegal is not the solution to ending them.
Honestly, abortion is a woman's right. Your disgusting to hate people who recieve abortions, you don't know their story. Stop being ignorant and out yourself into the shoes of a woman who might have been raped. Even if it was a mistake, no one should be forced to go through labor. Being pregnant is a big step and a life changing experience, don't hate people who are not ready. If abortion was illegal, think about how many more helpless children would be put into foster care or raised in an unloving family. There are already thousands of unwanted children as well. Making abortion illegal would add to that. Yes, the process is immoral, but what else can you do?
Everyone have their opinion but maybe you should be less ignorant and do some research why people get abortions or how hard it is giving life.
Shut your trap.
Not really worth saying much here.
This is one of the biggest arguments of this day and age.
I'm in favour of woman having the choice. But what I object to is people not giving two hoots about it. It should be a taboo.
see i think its the situation the woman is in.... for instance what if a girl was raped and she got pregnant and if she kept it every time she looks at the kid she remebers what happens.... there i think its ok but if a girl is just being stupid and sleeping around unprotected then she should keep the kid since she has no good reason to have a abortion
I believe in people being able to make their own choices. If someone is not able to take care of a baby then they should'nt be forced to. Not only that but the foster care system is way overcrowded.
your wrong to hate them. plain and simple, here it is, from a person you may know: Love the sinner, hate the sin.
YES, IT IS WRONG. GOOD FOR YOU, IT TAKES A GOOD PERSON TO BE SO OPEN ABOUT THAT! I COMPLETELY AGREE!
People have had adortions since the dawn of man it is just another population control device like homosexuality and war.
It seems you cant get you head around the fact that people die, its completely normal.
There are just to many people in the world and many need not be born.
ok im against abortions cause even if its rape the baby didnt ask for them to do it it just came in the picture because theres alot of women tht want kids and cant have them so i day let the baby live and give it up for adoption to someone who cant get pregnant and have one of there own cause all kids have the right to be born and be loved an women who can get pregnant could give thm the love they need an i no this from fact because my cousin cant ave kids an she would do anyting to get a newborn to raise an love like her own even pay the birth mother to let her have it so please just give the babies life and if u cant love thm because of reasons give someone else the chance
Personally I think its better to abort than to bring a baby into the world and end up treating it badly because you resent what your life could have been without it.
i will say i do not agree with abortions, but you sometimes have to see it from another persons point of veiw.
if the pregnant person simply couldnt afford to bring up the baby then maybe its for the best,
or maybe they were a victim of rape and got pregnant?
or maybe too young?
personally i wouldnt have an abortion but i take other peoples reasons into account before judging their choice.
too young? the only ages that that excuse shuld work is 13 and under.
Too little money could work, if they are struggling as it is to get the necessities, if they weer struggling to get that $1000 dollar dress that just looks oh so cute then it's not a good reason.
Rape victim would be acceptable.
Your right, sometimes, in extreme circumstances, it is best to have an abortion, but there will always be those that do it for one reason "I don't want a baby". And that reason is just sick, I don't really see much of a difference between and abortion and having the baby then immediately grabbing a shotgun and shooting it's head off. except the first one is acceptable in some extreme cases.
*applaud*
if abortions were illegal, then how many women would tell their boyfriends to push them down the stairs, or stick a metal coat hanger up them like the "good ol' days"? Which would....result in the DEATHS of people who where ALREADY ALIVEEE
Like you need to get a life and stop trying to think like you are funny.
I think ull do the baby a favor by putting it out of it's misery if being born means having parents that are dope heads that might either sell u for a hit or stare u to death? Seems fair don't u think?
It's worse to have undesired children.I wonder if women against abortion would have a baby produced out of a rape?
It is murder!!!!!! If you don't want to carry a baby for nine months then don't take your fucking pants off! Get your head outta your ass and think of someone other than yourself. I will tell any woman abortion is murder. Pro choice is a fucked up ideology
I don't have much problem with although it does feel a bit like murder. I'm atheist so I don t believe in "hells" but I dont really know enough on the subject to have a firm opinion about the morality of the issue
Abortion is a choice. Anyone who thinks its so horrible is a idiot.I had one for persnal reasons...
First 3 weeks doesn't count. Isn't really considered life at that point. Let them go to "hell" if you don't like it. It's called freedom of choice.
You're entitled to your own opinion. As am I. I think abortion is cruel but sometimes there's more to the story. Maybe the girl was raped. Birth control isn't full-proof. Protection is 100%. And maybe she wants to have a future. Though I support the idea of giving the baby up for adoption, I believe that some girls have their reasons for abortion.
I don't think you have the 'right' to hate girls who have abortions. What if they have a medical problem? or rape? Some girls still get pregnant whilst using protection, it's not all 100%. You do however have the right to your opinion, if thats how you feel. But you need to look at different perspectives, sometimes abortion is the best option, like if you got pregnant by accident, had no money, and no house, what would you prefer? Them to have an abortion so they don't have to bring a child up with nothing, what life would that child have? Or would you agree with them going on benefits? Taking all the money that us tax payers work hard for? Thats something I really don't agree with. Obviously, I don't agree with girls who will allow themselves to get pregnant and have numerous of abortions, I don't believe thats right.
I think there Is nothing wrong with abortions. What if you have been raped or the baby has a birth defect. It wouldnt be fair on bringing up the child especially having down sydrome not having no friends no life depending on you for the rest of there life. Dont take it out on people Its there choice
well what if her life was indangered and she could die by the end of the pregnany or sometimes the baby will die anyway than would'ent her life be just as important the womens life is also important
i dont agree with it if a woman uses it as birth control, but i think in certain situations it is needed. so yeah, pretty much, its fucked up of you to hate another person for a decision they made in their life. you have nothing to do with this and people like you drive me nuts. let people do what they do, you dont have to like it, but its not your business.
No one agrees with you abortion can be very helpful in certain situations
I do not understand how people agree that it is okay to abort the fetus that is conceived via rape or to extremely young mothers. Are these lives not as valuable as the life of a fetus conceived by a couple who are considered "ready" (have ability to take care of kids) to have children?
I am pro-choice & while abortion is not acceptable to myself as an individual, I do not believe it is upon anyone other than the woman/couple expecting a child to decide whether abortion is right or wrong for their situation.
To OP, while I don't agree with your viewpoint, I do think your argument is "normal" and not at all unheard of.
The federal government begs to differ....and they are smarter and more powerful than you.
in my opinon its only the right thing too do if youre been raped. If its you who forgets to whare a condome you sould have the childe
The controversy in abortion is whether death is okay or not. Also, i love these comments that say "gooly gee, here's a true statement, so im right" although it IS a controversy
at some point in time, i wonder if every notable factor in a controversy are even original anymore :/
Also, i saw a picture that said "i've seen many stupid things on the internet, but there is nothing more stupid than comments on [sites]" sites, was youtube just to note, but these comments look the same. Plus, people always have had that "I'm right, you're wrong" logic built into their heads. Causes conflict and all that.
I'm going to start making comments on stuff like this. i always wonder, what fuels a controversy? It's probably one's living environment and what they think is right and wrong. To achieve nautrality would allow people to rationalize things. Golly gosh, what shall we do about the people dying? Oh no, dying sucks D:
Ooh, i just thought of something nifty. I don't know all that much about christianity, but i heard adopted fetus' souls go back to heaven to be born somewhere else. Wouldn't that mean their soul gets to live in a happy home, instead of the one that couldn't handle a baby and the baby would have a crummy life? that'd be kinda cool. Then again, murder is bad D:, we all hate murder, it has soooo many consequences. Oh hay look, some people in this world have no morals! We should loathe them. Oh crud, i just typed a useless hunk of comment that nobody is going to read all the way down here. Better than researching potato chips :D. Smily faces are awesome
All right, it is quite obvious that something drastic will have to happen to us as humankind before we ever come to a consensus on such a moral issue.
People keep saying 'if you're old enough to have sex you're old enough to have a baby. Here is the thing though: when I was 15 I felt mature and stable. I felt profound and I felt I knew what love was like an adult. It wasn't until a good 7 years later that I realized it was all puberty and hormones. But try tellin my 15 year old self that I'm actually still immature and don't understand real consequences yet...I would have scoffed in my very own face!
This issue has been so overdebated that we have almost forgotten that if we took it seriously, we really could raise teens that make better choices for their life. And no, I don't mean all the drama between abstinence and throwin out condoms. It needs to be real and it needs to come with the respect and perspective that, at the very least, they FEEL like genuine and thoughtful adults...even if it is just puberty.
FETUSES ARE NOT ALIVE!!!!
They are not self-aware, they DO NOT feel pain.
And one more thing, nobody can tell me or anyone else what they can and can't do with their own body. You people start messing with free will and we will end up like North Korea or China. Those people have no freedom, so if you try to tell me or anyone else that i cant do something to, with my own body than you can kiss my ass.
you dont have to like it, and you dont have to do it, but i dont think we have the right to judge others, as we have never walked in there shoes. is there any reason why you bother fixating on this issue that obviously has no relevance to your life? Are you trying to distract yourself from thinking about your own problems?
I think abortion is wrong
Just imagine if when your mom was pregnant and she aborted you? You wouldn't be alive and you wouldn't even be read my comment
Please people love the miricle of life
it's kinda like clubbing baby seals...
so innocent and they didn't do anything to you
Just google image "abortion"
see how you like
point.is.proven
Abortion is a no-win issue. People on both sides feel passionately about it, and there is never any winner. But really, death is a part of life. Every time you eat, you are killing something, even if it's only cells.
About half of all pregnancies end naturally within the first few weeks, before the woman ever knows she is pregnant. But no one ever refers to them as "babies" or mourns them.
People who are against abortion and believe it's murder usually can't answer this: If abortion is wrong, what if an abortion were performed on a cat or a dog or other animal? If the fetus has feelings, the feelings would be the same in any other species as in a human. But most people who say abortion is murder don't have a problem with millions of animals being killed in shelters or animals being slaughtered as food, even though being killed feels just as painful to an animal as it is to a human.
My grandma was the 16th of 17 children. If her parents had spermicide, they most likely would have decided that 15 children was enough, and I wouldn't be here. So spermicide is murder too, right? And anyone who uses spermicide should spend their life in jail for murder. You can really go overboard with your thinking if you are inclined to do so. Because life doesn't begin with conception, life is a continuum and it starts with a healthy female producing an egg and a healthy male producing a sperm, it doesn't start at conception at all.
The bottom line is, everyone should be allowed to have their opinion and live by it, but should not force their opinion on others. If you don't feel OK about abortion, don't have one. But understand that others will have their viewpoint and they will live by it.
The world is increasing in population at a rate that will continue, and God is not about to blow up the Earth to the size of Jupiter. So at some point in time, other countries will need to pass laws like the one in China that restrict the size of families. The less abortions we have now, the sooner we will get to the point when abortions will be forced upon us in order to control the population. That is, unless some other disaster comes along that wipes out a few billion of us at once. There is no way around it- death is part of life, and we should all prepare to accept death as part of life's- or God's- process.
I honestly don't think it is anybody's business unless you are the mother and the father. Forcing women to give birth is a violation of human rights, I believe. Having a child is so incredibly hard on a woman's body not to mention her mental health. Additionally, you would be forcing this woman to care for this child for the next 18 years at risk of prosecution. This all sounds like we are imprisoning our women into a life they did not choose. And don't give me that tired excuse that "if you choose to have sex, then you should suffer the consequences." Every person has the right to have a healthy sexual life. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to have sex. It is completely natural. Why do we insist on punishing women for having a healthy, sexual appetite by chastising them the instant they become pregnant when they are not prepared to be mother's? It is sooo difficult to support a family nowadays, but do we help them when they are in need? NO! We just call them whores for making one of the most difficult decisions they will probably make their entire lives. We should all be ashamed.
I am not going to enter the debate or anything but consider:
I have a friend who's biological father was a rapist
she was 16 and forever altered
she considered abortion
I mean, you might too, like some people say, having to live with it for at least 9 months, the pain and the memory.
But she decided to keep the baby.
Then she considered raising the child herself.
After all, it was a part of her,
But she didn't. She thought that child, as "disgusting as it is" being the product of rape, deserved a life.
Now, years later I am talking to that child who was considered worthless by her mother's friends.
Who was urged to be eliminated.
and I realize, who my friend is: talented, a reader, plays guitar, super creative, supportive beyond belief, kind, generous, lovable, humorous and much more.
I know that some of those traits she got from her father, and some her victim mother.
but if she was eliminated the way some of you say a rape child should be (not could be. I really am not trying to take sides) Then I would not know a truly amazing person that changed my life. I could have been her too. What does it matter if your parents were married, single, committed, or not, boyfriend-girlfriend, one night stand, or anything. She, like you and me, was once a fetus that like us deserves a chance at life.
It depends on the situation. Say if a there was a girl who was pretty young and still had a whole lot ahead of her. If she got raped and turned out to be pregnant abortion is probley her best option. Think about it if shes to young to really be responsible or may not even have enough money to care for herself and the child.
Well, I hate people who hate abortions, and you are not murdering a child, you are murdering a fetus, duh. Learn your terms. And anyway, its not like the fetus will be upset or anything and ahold a grudge against its mother for killing it. Rofl.
I don't hate them but I strongly dislike them and don't respect them.
The very instant a girl finds out shes pregnant, the baby is alive, girls these days only care about what people will think of them, murder is wrong and abortion is murder, either use protection or put the baby up for adoption
So you would stick through with getting a baby and not get Step One and pay 80 dollars?
I honestly don't think the world needs any more people, especially ones that their parents don't want. Overpopulation is a serious (and I mean SERIOUS) problem with today's world. More pollution, less food, less resources. Children in care of the government sit in orphanages waiting to be adopted, sometimes abused in foster homes. Teenage mothers drop out of school to live on welfare after the baby's father left.
I might come off as a heartless person, but I prefer that if people are going to raise children, they might as well do it right; and I'm not going to mourn the loss of an unwanted mass of embryonic tissue that would one day become a burden to its parents and society.
But really, the logical solution for this is better education of contraceptives, which has been effective in other countries at minimizing unwanted pregnancies. I have to admit, refusing to protect oneself during sex or use emergency contraception, and then having an abortion is kind of an asshole move since it was totally unnecessary. Although when a person is that irresponsible, I wouldn't trust them with a baby to be honest.
You may think it is wrong, and you may practice safe sex, or pro-life lifestyles because that's your Kharma. But you cannot judge others for their decisions. And definitely do not hate anyone for decisions that you yourself were not confronted with. I would tell you you have much to learn but I do not want to sound resentful. That is all
Most abortions are done within an appropriate time span - meaning that the fetus is not technically anything but a ball of cells. Those that are done later are usually reserved for detrimental situations -either to the mother or the fetus. I think that before you pass judgement, you should learn more about it. Perhaps trying to put yourself in their shoes. Thanks to abortion, and the physicians who do it, we have a lot more women doctors, nurses, lawyers and teachers. Women who will one day make a difference in the world. If you would rather have it the other way around, please tell me your plan on taking financial responsibility for all of the unwanted children out there. I see them every day as a student doctor. Children who have gone days with out eating, children with out tooth brushes or even those that are battered so badly that they die. Come up with a solution and stop hating in the mean time.
i think we should consider what the fetus would have to say. it is the beginning of a human life. life is born the second the egg and sperm meet. even minutes after that if this process was stopped by a doctor's intervention it would be murder. it is a life that has the right to live. even if rape was the cause putting it up for adoption is better than living with the guilt of having taken the most innocent of all human lives that can't speak for itself or defend itself. there are many well adjusted successful people who were orphans. when you abort you're robbing a person not only of life but all the joys that come with it. give the child the chance to be happy. get what financial help you can, tough it out for the nine months and just deal with the problems for that time, but for God's sake don't kill your baby.
i dont know my view on abortion but i want those that have abortions to feel guilt. i want the baby to live if the parent is given a choice in the matter.
i agree it is killing a little baby, BUT there are women who get raped EVERYDAY and they dont want the seed of their rapist too live inside of them. i bet if you were raped, you would feel the same way.
On the whole I am totally anti abortion, but I do think you would have to be that situation to know what you do if heaven forbid you were raped. One thing I know though is that the baby would have no say it its conception. I also think personally and a lot of people will not appriaciate me for saying this but here goes "Aren't mothers supposed to love their children uncondionally" reguardless of how they are concieved? and perhaps a baby concieved out rape could be viewed as something wonderful out of something horrific. x
Abortion is surely the biggest moral question we face - along with war. Yet we have two loud-mouthed opposing parties shrieking furiously at each other from deep-dug positions that they don't intend to abandon. They produce more heat than light.
The worry for me is the unscientific view of the pros - stamping on a chicken's egg? Have you never seen the film of the child in the womb? It's alive and just like us. Much of what you are and will be all your life is already determined from the money the sperm meets the egg. Yet, like the man who bombs from the air, kills children and says he did it to protect his country, you will kill a child and then say it was only a few cells?
I'm not pro and I'm not anti. It's too big for any of us to decide quickly. But at least, know what you're doing - you are ending a child's life. And you don't need to have any religion at all to know the child is not the property of its mother. Quote Gibran "Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself". Poetry and sound science too.
Its clearly murder. But it benefits society in most cases and just as long as we all agree not to call it murder we will be just fine.
It is SO WRONG! My aunt has a special needs little boy and I'm so happy she was glad to have any child that just warms my heart! :) Some people might have not wanted that sort of gender so they choose abortion and not adoption I MEAN COME ON SAVE A LIFE! Babies are not made to kill they are made to have a life and be loved! STOP KILLING CUTE LITTLE WARM NEW BORN HEARTS JUST ACCEPT WHAT YOU HAVE IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE PERFECT NO ONE IS PERFECT BUT GOD/JESUS PRAY PLEASE FOR THE PEOPLE WHO CARE! L, Isit123 I DO DISAGREE WITH CLUELESS ABORTION!
i dont like abortion either. what happened if you didnt kill it. it might have become the best president ever and save us from all this shit thats going on.
There is no justification in this world for getting an abortion. A foetus is a baby while it is growing in the womb. A foetus is a baby. A baby is a person. A person has a soul. A soul is born without sin.
ur right! its rong 2 say "im gonna kill my baby 2day!" put it up 4 adopton many ppl want that baby if U don't
I consider a baby being in the womb from the momonet it was concieved! If the girls/women that had an abortion didn't they would have had a baby, therefore they killed their baby! Its murder and MURDER IS ALWAYS WRONG!
Abortion is murder! There are tons of people who want to have babies but can't, and there's tons of women who make stupid choices and end up becoming pregnant. Now, if they were raped or could possibly die if the woman didn't terminate the pregnancy that's another story. But if some skank doesn't want to have a baby, maybe they should use protection considering it's much cheaper than getting an abortion.
And I bet most of you pro abortion think it's super wrong to kill animals...there's no difference! Many of those in PETA hold animals up higher on a scale than babies.....makes me sick!
what if your mom would have aborted you ,!?
why does the baby have no say !? its mean, i agree you do have to look at from other peoples perspective but okay you were rapped ; im sorry that happened to you , : but dont take a innocent life because of it , but if not you had sex so take care of your responsibilites you knew what was gooing to happen, really its sick , its not normal && people who do that need help theres no excuse dont care what anuone says .
okei...seeing an aborted abortion is gross...just google it...anyway get over yourself....srlsy
I'm really against people who have abortions too. They've not took the pre-cautions to avoid making a life so they should deal with the consequences. Either get used to the fact they're gonna be a parent, or make a couple's world by putting the baby up for adoption. I mean, so many women, and men for that matter, can't have children and spend months of time and thousands of pounds on IVF or adoption processes only to get their dreams crushed at the last minute so they try again and again and again.. then you have these teens or whatever just getting rid of what these families long for, as they don't want a baby "right now" as they don't want to waste their life away or whatever excuses they give.
They should have thought about then when having unprotected sex!
I'm not an anti-abortionist myself (though I'm not pro, either), but I can understand how people feel about it. I can see how you'd view it as murder, and if it's murder then these girls are murderers, and hating them would be something of a natural reaction. However, I'd suggest trying not to hate anyone, particularly if it's over personal beliefs. Take ashleychan94 here, being totally self-righteous, declaring that you and she are GOOD PEOPLE TO BE SO OPEN ABOUT THAT! Condemning other human beings and making a habit out of hating makes you a good person? People who get abortions are people, too, and it's a difficult decision and process. It's not necessarily that they go out and act like sluts, then casually murder their own offspring. While you might fight against abortion, you should still show respect and behave like a decent human being, not a psychopathic hate-monger. Also consider that if you get abortion outlawed, it will still happen. Anti-abortionists sometimes talk about how horrible the process is - well, if it's relevant how we abort (probably mentioned more for shock factor, but if it is relevant), then outlawing it would likely make it more dangerous and disgusting. On the other hand, if we give some kind of support, we might find a better way. Another issue is whether it should be illegal for every situation. What if the pregnant woman was raped, or if she's not a woman at all but a child herself? What if you're risking her health and happiness to deliver a severely handicapped child that will almost certainly die within hours of its birth? Maybe you'll put your foot down and say no matter what, the child's life must be preserved. Well, I'd just like you to think about it and ask yourself if God would want you to hate anyone.
I find it unfair, abortion, taking a life away but...
I can't stop people from getting abortions. I would make exceptions if they were too young, or were ill in some way. If they had too many children already or were young, scared and alone.
I, myself, wouldn't do it. But some people have different opinions on these things
If a guy and a girl had sex with no protection, its their own fault, so anything bad that happens to them is deserved for a life lesson. Of course, if it was a rape or whatever, then yeah, its okay. I certainly would not want to keep a rape baby. And as mean as it sounds, I dont really give a crap if people have abortions. Because, its not going to stop, and if its not abortion, its some other way that a person is dying. Theres many things in this world that lead to "death" and that are wrong. But they aren't going to go away, so deal with it. This is how life is so, get over it. if you dont like it, i understand but realize that its NOT going to change. EVER.
You are not the only one who hates abortion. You shouldn't hate the girls who get abortions, but you can hate their actions.
Abortion is wrong. Instead of killing a child, you can send the kid to an adoption center and hope the child will be raised by loving foster parents. I also despise those who abort future generations because they ( as in the baby) could have been a future Einstein. I wish every human being can experience happiness for once.
Like it or not, abortion is essentially murder. My brother got his girlfriend pregnant and my parents were really upset. They asked that the girl got an abortion. When my dad asked me about it, I said we should never have an abortion. I could never live with recommending to my dad that we kill my niece. My niece is now 4 years old and we all love her to death.
But on the other hand, who are we to dictate what a mother should and should not do? It is her body and her child in that womb and ultimately she has to take accountability for it. Abortion may be murder, but so is the death sentence! And don't come and tell me all that he's-a-bad-man-so-he-must-die nonsense, sancity of life means sanctity of life, there can be no double standards.
Yeah abortion is pretty messed up. A baby is something to celebrate about. This isn't fucking China.
It is normal. I'm pretty sure there's a bunch of people who agree.
I find it okay IF it's an accident or the chick got raped.
But, if it's because you weren't careful or just plain dumb enough to not use a condom then, it is wrong.
Obviously it's not baby's fault.
don't think you r the only one hate abortions but there loads of people around the world who hate this
killing of baby is very punishable offence
It's your opinion, but I don't agree at all.
In some ways, it's best. If the girl/woman isn't ready to be a mother, I think she should have an abortion, or at least have it adopted. Because if she attempts to raise this baby when she's not capable of it, this child will probably have a miserable life.
It's the same as animals being put to sleep it's stopping them suffering.
The only cases where it's wrong is if the woman just can't be bothered, or she's forced in to it.
I agree with the poster entirely. A baby should not have to pay for it's mother's irresponsibility. If they waited until marriage as they should, there wouldn't be a problem.
hey i totally agree i think that abortions are wrong i mean how would you like it if someone (1)chopped your head off (2)poison you to you suffercate or (3) just kill you i peroonally believe that if you are grown enough to have sex you should be grown enough to take care of a baby
I pretty much agree. Not just because I'm a Catholic but because in reality, you are murdering someone. I mean, I can understand the emotional and mental distress having a baby you just don't want can cause, but do you think killing it to benefit you is the best idea? I myself would say go tell your parents you did it and you got pregnant and then deliever the baby, then perhaps give it up for adoption so it can be a normal child and have a life (and life isn't always the greatest I admit) instead of dying. I think teen parents (and yes I'm a teen myself but not a parent) don't really have any idea what exactly to do with a baby. Other than the fact they think it'll keep the couple together, which it doesn't. Just shoot for the adoption plan and maybe wait awhile for sex until your married or if you MUST, try safer sex.
You have to understand that women who get abortions do so because they have not learned that it is wrong. They are victims of modern ideology. You should pity, not hate, them.
abortion is wrong and everyone knowz it! every one deserves the choice to live. seriously, if u wer asked to live, u wud choose(obviously) to live. so its the same with unborn babies! go google abortion pics and mabie that will change ur mind! go piss on urself!
I agree with the author of this post, abortions are wrong.
It is killing something that is innocent and helpless. Every living thing should have rights, and I believe that the mother should take responsibility for her actions.
We all know contraceptives aren't 100%% so if you want to have sex you should accept that pregnancy is a potential outcome and accept the consequences if you do become pregnant.
Also I don't think everyone knows exactly how it works or the types of things that go on, as the baby often comes out alive, even looking like a baby with little arms and legs, and is killed in a shocking and inhumane way.
Many women do go through with having abortions but they never recover from it psychologically and regret it for the rest of their lives.
i understand where yur comin from, i've cut off friends and girl friends for gettin abortions.
it jsut depends if yur a caring person. im like a very selfish person not gonna lie but that's one thing where i would put something (the baby) before myself.
if yur gonna go around fukin without condoms yu should be ready to have kids.
point.blank.period.