Addicted to deliberately being imperfect and wanting it to stay that way

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I'm addicted to and will never stop my imperfect life. My face has a complex look on it as if I was the typical 27-year old guy who never pursued perfection. Oh yes you would want to scream at a perfect, white, seedless, round smooth bun, wouldn't you? Women tend to scream at perfect round things with no rough spots whatsoever. In the ideal world we wouldn't sicken ourselves over what's perfect, instead we would not keep working on ourselves and be a mistake every nanosecond all day and all night every day, every night, people would get along completely and everything will be without strange horror and evil and we'll be uncomfortable and live as Christians. That's ideal but not perfect, I'm deliberately clinging to this imperfection because if it's imperfect it shouldn't be perfect, ever, it should be a total mistake, and totally flawed, without changing. Is that normal? Mind you it's an anti-perfectionist's paradise.

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  • CDmale4fem
    2 years ago

    FYI: Theres no such thing as a person that is perfect. Maybe perfect for somebody else. But then everybody will have their idea of "perfect". And sadly one person's perfect is another person's "OMG , run for the hills". But if one person is happy with someone else as they are- then great. More power to them.

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    • Hansberger
      2 years ago

      Actually there is such a thing as a person that's perfect, what do you think posh people are? They're excellent, that means they're perfect. To do something perfect is to disbelieve you and stand up for the belief in perfectionism. I've been perfect a long time ago, I had standards, people weren't treating me so great because they were jealous, plus you're doing a tu quoque attack, to be rational is to realise you're so good yourself, if you don't believe this you're irrational.

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      • CDmale4fem
        2 years ago

        What I believe is we are all human and that makes us ever so slightly flawed, and you are simply an arrogant egotistical legend in your own mind. If we were as you say perfect, then there would be no wars, no global warming, no Russia invading their border countries, and we would all be living in harmony and peaceful bliss. We wouldnt have millions of homeless, we wouldnt have to be dealing with people that have attitudes like yours. You put your pants on the same way, you wipe your ass the same, and you probably masturbate somewhat the same. So again I say you are simply a legend in your own mind. Get the fuck over yourself. You are NOT perfect in the eyes of those around you. They probly see you as a stuck up, stick up your ass, pain in the ass.

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        • Hansberger
          2 years ago

          I don't think so, I didn't say I was perfect, I just said there are perfect people, and as an anti-perfectionist it's true, people don't see me as stuck up, stick in the ass but instead see me as an error, a mistake that needs correcting, yet this is my identity, none of my mistakes and imperfections are ever going to change. You know perfectionism's a lie, anti-perfectionism should be used instead, which is the opposite, it's amazing what you can do to educate yourself into not trying to be perfect.

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    How do the Amish feel about perfection?

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    • Hansberger
      2 years ago

      That's a ridiculous thing to haunt you, I'm not an Amish therefore I stopped wanting to be one so long ago it's unbelievable. I can sneak in some new knowledge of the Amish, they're perfectionists by having strict rules but they're not moral people, all those weird rules are an idyllic life in a pastoral setting (yes they do tend to be bucolic). I studied Arcadia a long time ago and the Amish are one of them.

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      • RoseIsabella
        2 years ago

        I heard that the Amish have busted for running puppy mills quite a bit. There's a band that is a side project of three members of Duran Duran called Arcadia.

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        • Hansberger
          2 years ago

          Yes, that's good, but a negative good, associated with war rather than love. Love is also a wonderful thing and I wanna retch at the majestic bearing of a difficult simple man who only knows how to cook simple food and is terrible at ever knowing when enough is enough, I love these simple people who give you a hard time, but I wouldn't like it if they start kicking my arse like it's 19th century because I malpainted their wagon.

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