Afraid of sex

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So I have a slight fear of sex (still of virgin), I had to breakup with my previous boyfriend bcoz I got scared (still regret that, I miss him).I now have a new boyfriend, I'm just afraid of losing him if I don't sleep with him, he hasn't pressured me into anything but I feel bad (he has cheated on me before tho but gave him a 2 chance). Would do I do? I'm not ready for it, I don't think ever will be,but don't want to lose him. What do I do?

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  • Ahhereleaveitout
    6 years ago

    If he cheated on you twice already he will do it again. Don't give up your virginity for him please. You will save yourself alot of heartache if you end the relationship now.
    Don't be so hard on yourself, there's no shame in waiting for the right one, have patience because you will know when you meet him, trust me. I know it's hard but listen to your gut. It's never wrong. Good luck.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Stick to your guns, girly. If you're scared and not ready that's okay. Now in the meantime try to be smart, and concentrate on your English and spelling.

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  • red81nwck
    6 years ago

    give up that ass

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  • Sanara
    3 years ago

    You may be asexual and if so you may not ever want sex, but can still have romantic feelings. Not sure as it can be many things. Maybe try to find a partner who also does not want sex (and be open from start) they do exist although being rarer

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  • Slowlymovingfast
    5 years ago

    If you're not ready that's your call.

    If he can't (or won't) respect that he's not the one who deserves it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    What are you afraid of? It's just sex, for crying out loud! Give it up and have some fun...and some peace of mind!

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  • DingusKhan
    6 years ago

    i can help you to overcome just send me your address!!

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    • lordofopinions
      5 years ago

      You're no help at all sicko.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    you know you are not ready so dont. if you were ready you would be on the pill looking for the biggest dick boy

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