Am i an idiot for doing this?
I'm a guy and my best friend is a girl. I have had feelings for her for a long time. I started crushing on her about a year ago. But I was always afraid of telling her and asking her out because I thought it would ruin our friendship. Last week I finally told her I like her in that way and I asked her if she would like to be my girlfriend. She was surprised and shocked and she said she never considered it before. She said she always thought of me as just a friend and she said she felt awkward. I was very upset by this, as I had hoped she would understand. I left it her alone for 4 days and then I thought I had given her enough space and that it would okay for me to call her again so I did. I wanted to talk things through. She won't answer anything, no texts, calls or any messages. I am afraid that I may have ruined our friendship with trying this. Am I an absolute idiot for telling her how I feel?
| Yes | 9 | |
| No | 40 |