Am i disloyal to my mom?

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After my mom passed, rather quickly, from cancer, her husband---my "step dad" (call him "Thomas") said he thought our side of the family should have the home because it had been my mom's, so he got another place.

A long time later, almost 6 months, I was shopping and we ran into each other.

Well, one thing led to another, and, to make a long story short, we had sex.

I'd like to have a regular relationship.
Am I being disloyal to my mom?
Be honest with what you think

You should have left him alone.	28
You should enjoy him all you can.	3
It's OK so long as it is true love.	5

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RoseIsabella

1 year ago | pl

Yeah, that's pretty gross, and unnatural. I can't respect people who act like this.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  1 year ago
  
  He and my mom were married when I was 12. He was a completely faithful husband. I k new him and grew to love him for his fine qualities long before looked at him in any other way. Doesn't it make sense when you love a man for who he really is?
  
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  - iEatZombies_
    
    1 year ago
    
    Curious, how old are you now?
    
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    - RoseIsabella
      
      1 year ago
      
      Yes!
      
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    - LloydAsher
      
      1 year ago
      
      That's disrespectful to a lady to ask for age, especially RoseIsabella.
      
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Iambillythemenacetosociety

1 year ago | pl

Ew.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  1 year ago
  
  A ewe is a female sheep.
  
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  - Cliche1234
    
    1 year ago | pl
    
    He only said ew though...that doesn't make sense.
    
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    - Iambillythemenacetosociety
      
      1 year ago
      
      Exactly.
      
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    1 year ago
    
    Looks like someone can't read.
    
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kelili

1 year ago

In my opinion it is most inappropriate.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  1 year ago
  
  You can't always help who you are attracted to.
  
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  - BLAh81
    
    1 year ago
    
    True, but you CAN help who you fuck.
    
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  - kelili
    
    1 year ago
    
    And sometimes you have to be brave enough to admit that your actions were wrong. If you came here to ask the question it's most certainly because you know that this is not right.
    
    You're doing yourself no good not looking at the situation as it is.
    
    It's true that you do not decide who you are attracted too. Neither do I but I don't act upon every attraction.
    
    You'll regret doing this. It's not a curse, I'm not wishing you bad but this is what will certainly happens.
    
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BleedingPain

1 year ago

Blood or not, it’s family. And you don’t fuck with your family

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AngelLoc

1 year ago

I think you were groomed. That or he was already attracted to you when you were little but didn’t act on it because he was married to your mom. Imagine a grown man having lust for a 12 year old little girl

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Vvaas

1 year ago

sick!

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Ummitsstillme

1 year ago

Liquidate the estate and donate to charity to make up for both your grossness

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BLAh81

1 year ago

You probably have already done this, but you should ask yourself what you would think if you had a daughter who did this after your death.

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idkyourmom27

1 year ago

wen can I fuq? u can cal meh daddy 2 ;) dawg :3

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Anonymous Post Author

1 year ago

In the Bible men would married their dead brother's wife.
In real life people who are together might have known their partner when that one's spouse was alive.

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Anonymous Post Author

1 year ago

I was asked if Thomas messed with me when I was under age,
I said no.
I also said mom married him when I was 12.
Also true.

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LloydAsher

1 year ago

It can always be a troll. That's iin

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Anonymous Post Author

1 year ago

Thank you.
He met and married my mom when I was 12, and he was a faithful husband to her in all ways.

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- LloydAsher
  
  1 year ago
  
  And you a crappy person because you had sex with someone who loved your mom.
  
  It's all the levels of fucked up.
  
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OSCARUK

1 year ago

I'm not sure disloyal actually covers it, it doesn't seem right or proper for you to be tooting on the same pipe as your mum.

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  1 year ago
  
  Few pipes are a well endowed.
  
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olderdude-xx

1 year ago

Possibly, but not necessarily.

It really depends on the relationship and understanding you had with your mom; and of your mom's relationship with your dad (and what understandings they had about many things).

Think it through... You may want to talk to your step father as well on this issue. Then decide what is right based on that. None of us really know your family and social history.

Morally, I see no issue with a step "relative" and you.

I'm comfortable with whatever you decide.

I wish you the best with this.

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Anonymous Post Author

1 year ago

No. "Thomas" is not that sort of man. Don't concern yourself with that.
He is very masculine and attractive. It was NOT just some idea of his. I am past 18 and I made my own decision.

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