Am i ever actually gonna find love? :(

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hi! ♡ okay so, to cut to the chase, i’ve had about 4 relationships and they’ve all not lasted very long. i’m a christian? granted. i clearly know i’m the most pure christian girl but, i want to share my religion with someone who also shares the same mindset so i can feel comfortable. i’ve always been fond of the cute soft boys that really know how to dress :’) however, when i begin to list my morals it’s quickly overshadowed or im even blocked! a few times i’ve been bluntly told yeah good luck finding love because i don’t wanna have sex every other day or smoke, but, i really do wanna find a guy i can bond with, i often doubt it’ll ever come, most guys now a days only want sex and to smoke all day everyday and i just want a genuine relationship with someone ;-; someone i can actually be with that won’t make me feel forced all the time to step outside side of my spiritual/comfort zone to make them stay :(( will i ever find the right actually fit guy for me? where do i even start. help meee </3

yes! don’t give up! 5
yeah. good luck lmao 1
maybe? 0
no 1
probably not 1
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  • Fussmann
    3 years ago

    Very curious about this "list of morals" you claim keeps chasing people away

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    • BABIBLADE
      3 years ago

      honestly for a guy to:
      understand that i’m christian and either
      A: be one as well or
      B: at least be open minded to becoming or looking into it
      someone who doesn’t do drugs and smokes every single day
      and just doesn’t need sex everyone other minute without me having to literally force myself to do something of the sorts or step outside of my comfort zone out of pity :/

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      • Fussmann
        3 years ago

        So, by requiring them to look into becoming a christian does that mean you're then ok with them not converting if they so choose?

        Does no drugs every day mean drugs are ok some days?

        How often is sex ok? What isn't in your comfort zone?

        Honestly I think its your wording/approach that is giving you issues. It's very ambiguous and just sounds far worse/limiting than it probably is.

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        • BABIBLADE
          3 years ago

          well how should you suggest i go about it i keep falling into this hole wondering if my time will ever come to actually feel kinda nice in a relationship :(

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    • Mammal-lover
      3 years ago

      Yes. That's the main interesting point here

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  • TerriAngel
    3 years ago

    Why are you even condidering a smoker?
    The body is a temple.
    Why are you considering someone who is'nt a christian?
    Don't be unequally yoked.
    You're job is to be there sexually for your husband.
    Lest he look elsewhere.
    You are in the wrong place, dating the wrong men.
    Will you ever find love?
    No, you'll find a trailer park.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    Find a devout Christian guy with a low sex drive. Is that not the obvious solution?

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    • BABIBLADE
      3 years ago

      PFFFT-
      WHERE?

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      • SkullsNRoses
        3 years ago

        Christian mingle?

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    3 years ago

    I don't smoke and I will listen attentively while you read me the bible, as long as you do it naked while sitting on my cock.

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