Am i just being played

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I have been talking to this guy for almost a year. We hook up and have occasional sex. I went away for a week, while I was gone it was mutual we both really missed each other. I could not wait to get back home to see him. However the week I was away, I heard from him way more. Now that I’m home, I can message him and he won’t reply or it takes a very long time for a response. I told him, I was falling for him, and he told me when I got back he would tell me how he felt. I’ve been back now almost two weeks and have not heard and have been scared to ask what his thoughts are. Both are coming out of an extensive relationship. I don’t want to push him away I just wanna know where I stand. Is he just using me for sex? Does he really have no intention of being with me?

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  • SkullsNRoses
    2 years ago

    Yes, he has no interest in being your boyfriend. If he actually liked you he wouldn’t be ignoring you. I’m confused as to why you’re scared of “pushing away” someone who hasn’t spoken to you in two weeks? You can’t push away someone who’s not present. You gave him the golden opportunity to tell you he wants to be with you and he says “I’ll get back to you” - that means he doesn’t want a relationship but doesn’t want to deal with the fallout of telling you that.

    You can read the writing on the wall and walk away or you can simp for him and let him string you along, it’s your choice.

    Also I would bet you £5 that if you messaged him he would reply “I’m just not ready for a relationship right now, but I want to keep seeing you because maybe I might be in time” which means “I want to bang you for as long as you will let me until I find a girl I consider girlfriend material”.

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  • Hotnbothered24-7
    2 years ago

    Update- I asked him last night if he was ever going to tell me how he felt and he chose to never answer it. So I found my answer I guess.

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    • SkullsNRoses
      2 years ago

      Block him and move on.

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  • jrbsportz
    2 years ago

    First thing is you can do better, second i a man and when i was dating a women that was all I wanted is be with her.so I'm saying he might just be with for sex!!! Just saying

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