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My friend asked me to write this to see what everyone thought.
She doesn't get why SO MANY people like anal sex. Anal sex is nasty! Why would anyone want to do it? And is it true that most guys want to do it?
Is it normal to feel this way?
I'm a guy and I think it's nasty too.
I don't want my sh*t on my d*ck. Simple as that.
Also, there is nothing less romantic than the smell of poo.
Jesus, what happened to sensual, romantic love-making.
Quit the anal sex.
omg. Wow. for once, a guy like you understands how gross it is. thank god a guy finally realizes.
Lame and you don't get shit on your dick and I have never once smelled poo while doing it
'Jesus, what happened to sensual, romantic love-making.'
There's a time and a place for everything. Being a panzie all the time gets old.
You fucking coward. "What happened to romantic love making? " I dunno, maybe your girl needs to lube you up, ya siss
There's nothing wrong with it not being to your fancy. It hurts so I don't like anal either.
My girl tried it before and told me it is nothing nasty but i just cant agree the thought of pushing my dick in there is so disturbing. and now im even afraid f doing anything wid her caw she did it without a condom and i dont know what other freak things she tried but hasnt built the courage to tell me. is it okay for me to feel this way?
anal sex is gross. Why would you want something put in your asshole. SHIT COMES OUT OF THERE! I just dont know if I could suck my bf dick after he did that... even if he washed it off...
I'm a guy too (albeit a sensitive one) and I think anal is disgusting. I agree, with mattjay; lovemaking should be lovemaking. As simple as that. Not some manipulative shit.
I'm a guy and find few things more repulsive. I believe in keeping my dick away from fecal matter. A friend of mine, is obsessed with it. According to him, it is the feeling of power, that the girls is willing to do it. Personally I think it is f***ed up. Call me old fashion, but oral and vaginal sex is good enough for me. At the most odd, I'll toss in some dirty talk.
Nasty. And women shouldn't feel they have to do it if they don't to, because the guy wants to do it. If he won't take it up the butt, then he shouldn't try to power-trip and manipulate his girlfriend into doing so. I think it's repulsive.
Well, you are making a value judgment. If you don't want to have anal sex, fine, don't. But there is no reason to make disparaging remarks. I have been with many women who love anal sex. If done right it can be one of the most intense and pleasurable things you can imagine. With my last girlfriend, I would be giving her oral sex and could feel her vagina contacting, then I would gently slip my finger into her anus and she would immediately have a mind-blowing orgasm. You may call it "nasty" but I think she would disagree.
i know anal is nasty ...i wonder if there was shit...issues?...like the penis goes so far up your ass it touches actual poop.
Anal sex is perfectly normal and I have even discussed it with my Doctor. The things you must remember are to enema first so it is clean and never go from anal to vaginal with what ever you may be using be it a penis or dildo cause of infection. I never thought I would enjoy it either but was willing to try and now I prefer it and it is the most intense orgasm I have ever had. Do not worry about others. They do not know what they are missing. Do not knock it till ya try it you may be suprised.
i am also a girl and love to get fucked in my sss.sure i do sn enema first.the best part is the switching holes
Wow for the ones saying they particulary like switching holes, I sure do hope you get that dick cleaned first because that's extremely dangerous. Ask any docter.
Question-related; I don't like it either. But everyone has their one preferences and that's a good thing :)
because ur bootyhole is
tighter.
some girls even injoy it.
ewww...i think ts gross.
I'm proud to say I'm an anal virgin and intend to stay one. I was once asked during a one night stand if I had ever tried it and my reply was something along the lines of that's disgusting! Not sure if he wanted to try it of if he was just courious about my sexual past, but I've hard that people can have the most amazing orgasms through anal sex,so each to their own but just the idae of it repulses me and I'm no prude oooh belive me x
Also, a womon can do exercises to tighten her vagina. But when your ass is stretched out by anal sex, doesn't it just stay that way??
It's unattractive and you might as well have a fecal fetish. I wonder how many people get constipated.
i think guys who like anal sex are gay.
I love pussy! Give me your pussy!!!!! muhahahahahahhahahahaha :P
i think its nasty and a sin to nature
pussies are meant to get fucked not the anus guys who like anul sex matter as well be gay cuz the female anus is no different then the male anus... ewwwww
Maybe it is unnatural. Then again, so are cars, glasses, and computers. So it really doesn't matter if its unnatural or not.
The only reason why I thought anal sex was nasty is because it seems like you'd get shit on yourself. And also because I hate the idea of wimmin doing it just for their men. Some men just want anal sex because they like the idea of invading a girl and because it can be uncomfortable for her.
My husband decided to try that for the first time when I wasn't ready for it. Needless to say, I nearly jumped over the bed. It also hurt pretty bad, but we had vaginal sex right after and it was the best I ever had. Neither one of us was very impressed with anal. It was messy.
I think most guy's like it because the ass is tighter. Other than that I think it is nasty and uncomfortable for a girl.
i tried it once but it was uncomfortable. it wasnt so much the pain as it was... weird. it just felt odd to have something pummeling in and out of my back door. it didnt feel good or bad. just... odd
Because the a$$ is way tighter
Because it is taboo (ok, so you think it's nasty or whatever, imagine at some point you go for it. Why would you do it? For the guy of course. This means he means so much to you that you are willing to forget about the fact that you think it's something so gross or nasty or whatever. How do you think he'll feel? I'll tell you: he'll feel amazing. And maybe if you love him enough, you'll feel amazing knowing that you are able to make him feel amazing).
Or you can just say no.
I like anal. Each to their own. Still, everyone stop trying g to force your sexual preference on other people. They have sex differently and experience it differently because we're supposed to. Everyone stop fighting and get the fuck over it!
Anal sex is the best. She has to use a enema first so she is clean and start off slowly until she becomes able to handle it. Then in time to come as she loosens up she will love it. Rome wasnt built in a day and she isnt gonna take it with pleasure first time. Just as when she was a virgin in the puss but in time she can go with the flow. Use your fingers and loosen her up great things cum with time and patients
Unfortunately our society has been brainwashed by porn. Also, women need to grow a pair and say, NO!. Don't give in to this crap. Sex has become a game. Why would I want sh!t on my dick? Makes no sense. People are crazy.
Wouldn't it hurt the guy's dick because the butt is really tight and it's impossible to relax it especially when something is being shoved in it. That would not be enjoyable on both parts. Plus there are health concerns like bleeding and diseases and shit is toxic. Why would you want that on your dick. If I was a guy I wouldn't even do it with a condom on.
Anal is NOT for everyone. I agree with some postings that girls do it for their men. Someone brought up that women like it because it's closer to their G-spot. That usually only works when her special 'button' is also being touched. As a woman with a husband who loves anal, I have to say that it can be painful. No amount of desensitizing creams will help. Lube, and lots of it, WILL. That and being completely, crazily turned on helps. Also, YES the man's penis WILL touch the poop and it can be very messy, even after a woman does an enema. Prepare yourselves with a towel or better yet, moist wipes.
Personal I love it. And the reason I love it is B/c its tighter.
Girls love it b/c its closer to the g spot.
I love anal sex :) an I'm a girl. It feels amazing! But I ALWAYS douche my butt out first so that I never have to worry about getting gross poo everywhere and ruining the mood. When I have anal my butt is clean as a whistle :)
Forget about how gross it is. Isn't bad for the anus? Besides I think anal sex on women is just plain stupid
My girlfriend and I have done it a few times and we enjoy it. It was never messy, and, if done right, she really liked it too. Not to be too graphic, but she likes it when I cum in there.
And @: BMXSNEAKERHEAD you said "guys who like anul sex matter as well be gay cuz the female anus is no different then the male anus"
Firstly, learn a book.
Secondly, the female "anus" is no different from a male's? Are you a male? Have you ever seen a female and thought "Nice ass"? Now, have you ever seen a male and thought the same thing?
*nodnod* It is super nasty!
people that likes anal sex likes licking toilets too xD
If it's consensual, it's normal.
It comes down to personal preference. Some people get off when their nipples get tweaked, some get off when someone sucks their toes, others get off when getting rammed up the poop chute. It's all good, and it's all (potentially) messy. But then, isn't the best sex messy? My wife doesn't want anal sex, but she practically comes off the bed when I rub a wet finger on her anus during cunnilingus. But when I want to insert, she puts on the brakes. That's OK, because she knows what she likes.
Done correctly none of nastiness issues apply. First of all, an enema and bath are prerequisites. The anus is one of the erogenous zones and with clitoral stimulation usually brings the most power orgasms.
Rimming is also quite pleasurable.
Also Julius is correct. If anal sex hurts, it's because the guy has no damn clue what he is doing.
what i wanna know is how to have anal without getting shit on the guys dick. like i wanna try it but i just dont want it to get nasty.
Penny, 95% of the time that will not happen. As long as you didn't have a huge dinner and haven't gone or something you should be fine. Use lots of lube and tell him to go slow. If it happens once so what, the guy knows what he's getting into and it won't likely happen again for a long time. Using a condom is a good idea too.
I found when a woman licks your ass she is game to fuck it.
My X licked my ass till I came and we were looking for a strapon. She had me over pillows fuckin my ass enjoying being in charge. Be clean first of course!
Yea its normal but you are missing out, i love it in the butt! Feels amaxing! So far the only way ive ever reached orgasm has includded my butt
to each their own, not everyone likes it, the times Ive done it was very exciting
wife did it 2 times i loved it she hated it i try to get her to do it again she wont
All it makes me think of now is an anal blowout (diarrhoea). This is a horrible image to have in one's head!
Amazing to read so many poeple don't have a clue about the joys of doing anal.
Those who tried to inform the nay sayers are correct about the preperation, for both the bottom and the top. Male or female (witn a strapon). Anal sex is incredible when you are properly prepared.
Many of the writers are totally ignorant of the facts. You seem to think of it as 'unnatural or dirty'. Your thoughts are usually based on misguided education. Probably think that open mouth kissing is obscene.
All assholes are the same, male or female. Very are sensitive and extremely tight.
I was told by a gay friend of mine one way to properly prepare, was to fill a water bottle with warm water, and lube the tip with vaseline. Insert it in your ass and take as much as is comfortable. Remove the tip and move to the toilet and go. Repeat this process until all fluids are clean. You are now ready to take the next step.
Hopefully, you have a dildo or but plug. If not, you will need to have some object to insert into your already lubed ass, preferably 4" to 6" long and at least 1" to 2" thick.
Gently push it in and after compete insertion, try to relaxe and work it in and out for a while. You will discover it is quite pleasurable.
Anal sex is the same as vaginal in that the top needs to be patient and gentle to start. Once the cock has entered, take some time to adjust and continue foreplay, gently inserting more and more, until it is 'balls deep'. By now the ass should be very comfortable and accepting. Most bottoms start to thrust back at the cock by now, wanting more and more, often begging for deeper penetration.
As a BI man, I've found that having sex with some of my female partners can be enjoyable, but, not fullfilling, as most womens vagina's are loose from childbirth. This makes it diffcult to get enough friction to bring about ejaculation.
A little gentle touching on her anus will soon let you know if she is receptive to let you go for it the next time you have sex and she is prepared for it.
My b/f is enormous , over 11 inches and I can't take all of him , he starts by rubbing the backs of my thighs and bum , while I'm trying to read the paper , he's back there for ages , by the time he's finished , fingers , tongue , lube I'm ready for anything ........ he only dips the tip as he calls it , but it feels like more , once that initial first push is over it's fine and the pleasure of his fingers rimming me and then reaches under and finds my clit , by then I'm gone and I could care less what he does to me , you have to be with the right guy I guess ...
MYy friend , who is only around 5ft tall and petite , goes out with a jockey , takes him to the balls and backs up for more , I don't know where she puts it all and I mean all!!!, he wasn't at the back of the line , when they were handed out , she lives in the next apartment and I know when they are doing it , especially that , I'm sure he uses his whip ?
Personally, I don't think that it is a very good idea. I don't think that this is an activity that I would be able to engage in with a significant lover. It is highly unhygienic! I'd be too panicked about the risks. However, for the people who do it, it is their business. I won't demonise them because It simply wouldn't be my place to do so. Neither would it be their place to harass me over my desires.
Guys asks why we don't like it. Well if you are a straight guy, let me shove something up your ass and see how you like it..
there is nothing wrong with a piece of ass I personal don't use a condom because it takes the feeling away and if she sh*t on you so what don't breakup with the girl or even if it's a one night stand with some girl don't get mad it's not that bad happened to me a few times.
I feel like most of the people who are hating on anal are total virgins considering that the overwhelming majority of the people on this site are virgins. If you are a virgin you have no basis to comment on your sexual preferences let alone the preferences of others. Once you do get laid you more than a couple times you will realize your preferences until then keep your unfounded opinions to yourself
well i've wanted to have anal sex with a woman ever since i turned 13 =\ me and my girlfriend have talked about it but we haven't tried it yet and she seems all ready for it :) It may sound gross but depending on what type of sex you're having it might be an emotional thing. The anus is VERY sensative and to feel something hot and soft tickle your anus like your partners tounge and to know that they will put up with the potential taste to make you feel good. I find it emotional because if you just have anal like you have vaginal it's gonna hurt like a son of a bitch.
I've never understood the appeal, same goes with oral. The waste products that come out of them...
A lot of good sex is nasty and when your friend grows up she will understand that.
clean the area and you should get no poop on your dong. i've had a kinky girl stick it in her mouth after. nasty nasty. i like.
Anal sex is amazing. Every girl who has let me do it has ALWAYS ended up loving it (and usually the first time). The problem is there are a lot of guys who don't know wtf they are doing and give it a bad name for the rest of us who KNOW how to do it. It can give girls some amazing orgasms and even if she just wants to do it for the guy bc she knows he loves it then that's really cool to bc you have a girl who cares enough about you to do something she doesn't like just to please you. Though that has been the case with me, it always turns out to be something they like bc I DO IT RIGHT
I tryed it the first time because i was curiouse. It felt like i was going to sh*t the bed. Not good. Since then my bf said he'd never done it before and wanted to see what all the fuss was. I said no. Some time later i got drunk tho and decided to treet him. Luckily for me he wasn't too fussed by it but he was glad he tryed it. My foofoo is tight enough any way. ;) I spose if the guy is small or the girl has a bucket it is a good alternative.