Annoyed at people thinking adhd is fake or an excuse.

The other day I was debating with someone who belived that adhd is fake and an excuse. Funny thing is after a while he admited to faking it as a kid to get the pills. I have met several people who think this though.
Now I understand that all psychiactric lables are simply a lable for a group of symptoms, but they make these lables for a reason.
Also I would agree that adhd is overdiagnosed and that kids who grow out of it may not have actually had it. Some people claim adhd was invented in the 1980's, however before then it was labled as Hyperkinetic Disorder which required more symptoms to be diagnosed and they lowered the diagnostic threshold to cause overdiagnosis.

I was first diagnosed at about 6 although it was at first inconclusive because I failed to perform and complete the test. Luckly for me my parents decided not to put me on meds (which I am against for children because their brains are still growing) although I was a D/F student throughout school and graduated high school at 22.
Even today I have difficulty holding a job or even watching tv or reading for a while. Even if I force myself to, I will find that I don't recall much of what I watched of read because my mind was elsewhere. I have difficulty paying attention to things Im intrested in too.
I am also often accused of being high on meth too even though I don't do drugs. I have to constantly be doing something to keep from being incredablly bored.

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  • dodongos

    The only thing that bothers me is when EVERY SINGLE FUCKING PERSON in class uses the excuse "Kid, I'm ADHD. Obviously I'm not gonna do the homework." It's times like that where I must resist screaming in their insignificant little faces.

    Also, when people use disorders as an adjective.
    "I'm sooo OCD."
    "Whoa man, you must me ADHD or something."

    But yes, I understand that ADHD is a real condition and people should respect it, not use it as an excuse or accuse others of not really needing help.

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    • squirrelgirl

      As someone who had an actual, severe case of OCD (we're talking things like fear of swallowing my own saliva for fear that it was contaminated by the air I breathed, sleeping in my underwear because I had to wash all my pajamas because they weren't perfectly pristine, and the classic washing hands till they turn bright red and bleed), it greatly annoys me whenever somebody uses OCD as a casual term for any type of normal cleaning/organizing.

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    • Lynxikat

      This.

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  • angelz098

    It is normal for people to think your faking it... I'm ADHD and my own husband thinks I fake it

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    • Antimacy

      You should try engaging your brain, kinda like putting a vehicle in gear. Good luck!

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    • dodongos

      Oh, you're Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder?
      Nice to meet you, I'm a human.

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    • Thats got to be irritating. I know a guy who actually thinks diabetes is fake.

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  • Scree44s

    I will have to agree. I was diagnosed with adhd at the age of eight when my brother fell off a second story window and they put me on medication. The medication nearly doubled my response time and IQ. At 4th grade, i entered the GATE program, which not-suprisingly requires an IQ of 132 or higher. I got off meds in 8th grade due to medications keeping my body from being hungry or lack of muscle growth. Im 10th grade now, normal height and weight, and i work out and practice martial arts.
    My point is, medications can work but they can have some temporary or permenant consequences.

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  • TheOneAndOnly:)

    It annoys me too. My old teachers say "Oh she just thinks that she has ADHD now the whole world depends on her." No bitch, just no. I don't really bother telling people because I don't really care, meds don't help me, so I don't take any meds for anything.
    I take headache pills and that's about it.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers

    Also people dont seem to realise that ADD and ADHD are linked to depression and emotional unstability

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  • VioletTrees

    Ugh, I hate that too. It's so widespread that it sometimes makes it really hard to get necessary accommodations.

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  • dom180

    ADHD is just a name given to a selection of symptoms, and since those symptoms exist ADHD exists. That's just as simple as it is, really :P

    Whether ADHD is serious enough to be called a disorder, or whether it is over-diagnosed, are other issues entirely. I guess ADHD probably is sometimes diagnosed when it isn't appropriate or helpful to the child to give a diagnosis, but there are other times when it obviously is helpful.

    Anecdotally, there doesn't seem to be the same culture surrounding ADHD over here as there is America. I only know one person in my year who is diagnosed with it - that's less than the number in my year who are dyspraxic, the number who are dyslexic and the number who are autistic. The ADHD lad does all the work and doesn't take it as an excuse for anything; he just gets a bit of extra time in exams.

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    • "ADHD is just a name given to a selection of symptoms, and since those symptoms exist ADHD exists. That's just as simple as it is, really :P"

      I think that is a really good argument for this topic.
      It seems sometimes that some people do not think the symptoms exist as if they think everyones brain works this same.
      To me it seems it would have to take some kind of mental condition to think as narrow mindedly as that.

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  • Avant-Garde

    I hate when people say that neurological conditions/mental illnesses are either fake or the patients fault. I think that it would be for the greater good if more people were properly educated on neurological/mental conditions and how to spot them. On another note, I was diagnosed as having ADHD as a kid. I know believe that I was misdiagnosed on most of the conditions that I have been labeled as having. My mother/grandmother agreed to put me on medications which was a huge mistake. I put on a pharmaceutical stew that consisted of, i think, 3 or 4 different kinds of medicine. The majority of them were in pill form and the one that I hated the most was nasal spray. Unsurprisingly, they had side-effects most of which I thankfully can't remember but I told that it caused a serious decrease in my already small appetite. The side-effect I remember having was in the form of a dream that projected itself in reality.

    The dream was nightmare that seemed to blend in old aspects of nightmares with a newer aspects. The setting was in the parking lot of a grocery store that I used to frequently go to. The main characters, that I can remember, was a African American family. It was an abusive, possibly obese, mother and her two daughters of varying ages. My memory gets more vague at this point, but I know that the mother did a act of sheer cruelty to one of her daughters. She either murdered one of them because the girl was pissing her off or she chopped off some limbs. I don't know! I think the second daughter was very upset so she killed her too. Then, there was me and the mother saw me. I think she chased me and brutally murdered me or at least tried to. It was probably around that part that I finally woke up. I remember going to Catholic school and being paranoid that this woman was still going to try to kill me. I couldn't properly sit in my chair because I believed that if I did, the mother would somehow do something to my legs. I don't think it took my teacher(s) very long to send me to the school psychiatrist. By the way, I was in 1st grade when this happened! O_0

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    • Story I couldn't finish reading this story. I have ADHD

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      • Ace'sthoughts

        no, I have super adhd. That has nothing to do with it.

        but really, tl:dr.

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  • It's not fake.

    They're more or less just slightly annoying people due to a shit concentration span.

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    • I just got thumbed down for telling the truth lol.

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      • ill thumbs you back up on that. i dont see why someone found it offensive. i do realize i can be quite annoying to some people but to me its annoying that they cant keep up.

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        • It's not like I say they're annoying to be mean. Just that a heap of kids in my highschool had it and they can be so disruptive and all over the place.

          Does the ritalin work well? Because I've seen a few of them selling it off to other kids instead of taking it.

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          • I took ritalin before and didn't like it. It made me angry.
            However I was on adderall for years and it worked good except every morning I would be coming down again and felt exhausted until i took another one and it kicked in.
            Now I am taking something called provigil. I like it the best and it is similar to adderall but none of the shitty side effects and it seems to work even better too.
            I also tryed strattera and didnt notice if it did anything.

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            • Jee-whizzle, I didn't know they had so many different meds for it.

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          • I've heard it works well. I'm trying to get hold of some.

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      • A prophet once said that honesty is a lonely word.

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        • I like unvarnished truth, it sucks that most don't because I don't know how to conform to a "talking bullshit vomiteer" in order to please.

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    • Antimacy

      They should just try to engage their brains once in a while, stop being lazy. Focus knows nothing about excuses.

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      • kingofcarrotflowers

        Yeah thats it it's nothing to do with neurotransmiters

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        • Antimacy

          Are you a medical student?

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          • Are you a medical student?

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          • kingofcarrotflowers

            No I have just studied this

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  • For a person with adhd/add i do hate it when people say its not real yes i do think it is also over diagnosed most of the time

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  • hairyfairy

    Nine times out of ten, kids with ADHD are just the result of lousy parenting.

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  • WhiteCrow

    I can do lots of things mosts ADHD people can't. When I was diagnosed at age 5 they said it was “minor”. Now after many years it seems to have gotten worse.

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  • hairyfairy

    There`s no such thing as a naughty child anymore. I think parents want a diagnosis of adhd, because then they can`t be told that it`s their fault for not disciplining their brat.

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  • Is your focus affected even when doing something you really want to do?

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    • Usually. I seem to be able to focus for a bit but then my mind gets on other things and I get off task. for example it almost feels like i keep forgetting what im doing while im doing it. most the things i want to do end up unfinished.

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      • Yeah I'm like that.

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        • Ace'sthoughts

          Truth be told, I'm what you might call a genius. Or a prophet, or just that I have a lot of book and street smarts and common sense.

          ADHD affect everyone differently, I have a lot of ADHD, but with the past stated, I can control it most of the time.

          If you have procrastination problems than you know that ADHD is real, people diagnosed have a lot of same stuff, because people are normal on average.

          Pills help. Mine did when I was a kid. Didn't affect me much. The only two bad things are that they make you eat like an anorexic person and keep you awake.

          When my pills wear off, I eat way to much. ADHD pills also make your metabolism go up or something, because you don't really get fat on them pillz.

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          • I would take those 'smarts' and focus on something worthwhile. Do something big! Fulfill your destiny!

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  • EccentricWeird

    It's sometimes fake, sometimes real.

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  • Kiddles9

    What annoys me is people who 1. Have never been tested but say they have ADHD becuase they get distracted or 2.People who-when they do have ADHD- using is as an excuse to not try at all. I have ADHD, I was diagnosed when I was 8 and have been diagnosed 2 times after that. My parents never put me on meds, which I'm so thankful for. They worked with me, so did the school, I worked extremely hard and I ended up going out of high school with around an 85% average (would've been higher if it wasn't for the damn Math class). A lot of people didn't even know I had it because I was so quiet, I had more of the racing/hyper thoughts. Or you could say that it's always a party in my barin!

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  • patriot071592

    I'm the same way. I have ADD (inattentive type) and some people believe in only the hyperactivity type and there are some who believe neither exists. The science behind this disorder is 100% legit. I don't see why anyone would deny it.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers

    The head of year at my high school used to think A.D.D was fake

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  • Kathleen_Brown

    Why aren't there educational laws that support ADHD?

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  • Darkoil

    I'm researching ADHD at the minute. I'm looking at the link between serotonin deficiency and trytophan levels, folic acid levels and omega-3 levels in the diet.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    It's normal.
    One must understand, though, that even for people who know about this kind of stuff that we want to attribute things like poor attention span, depression etc. To being a natural part of someone's personality rather than a mental disorder. It's human nature.

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  • Moonbow

    ADHD IS FAKE!

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  • SuperBenzid

    I'd get annoyed if people didn't buy my excuses too. Maybe you should take acting classes so it would be more convincing?

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    • so do you really think that there isnt anyone in the world who doesnt have attention and impulse problems and that anyone who does is just faking it?
      not everyones brain works the same. obviously if it did we would live in a boring world where everyone was like identical drones.

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