Are attractive women picky about men due to their own experience?

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The unique issue beautiful women face is that they get more attention from guys, much of it being unwanted flirting/harassment. Ugly guys tend to harass women more because they compensate for their looks by being sexually aggressive towards random women.

People like to feel comfortable with the date they’re with. So if they had an average/chubby friend for 5 years who’s an outstanding loyal person without ulterior motives, they could have feelings for that person. But a random ugly dude like those ones who harass her commonly? Hard shot.

I took time to realize that I’ve got to improve my looks and work out so I can stand out in dating. It’s not shallow. Would you buy a TV from BestBuy if you had a salesperson from the company harass you about “why you should buy from us?” Same thing in dating.

P.S. Yes, women are people so they can be visual as men are. The reason why it seems that women watch less p0rn is because they can log in under their male relatives’ accounts instead of creating their own.

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litelander8

3 years ago | pl

I think your opinion of women is why they’re not attracted to you.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Got to say, you’re only partially correct. I’ve been working out the past month and noticed a change in how others perceive me. When I was slimmer, there were girls I never met who smiled at me and one was inviting me to a dance hall with her people.
  
  In the end, attitude/personality make the cut, but you don’t know people till you start talking so their physical impression of me before I said a word convinced me to write this.
  
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  - Wooliumthethird
    
    3 years ago
    
    The thing that doesn't add up with your logic is this. Who cares how many more people you can lure in with your 'improved' looks if you can't hold on to them? The way you've worded your question and your responses makes it seem like you improved your physical appearence so you would lure more women in in the hopes of finding at least one who would tolerate you.
    
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SmokeEverything

3 years ago

Who actually makes accounts on porn sites?

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- RoseIsabella
  
  3 years ago
  
  Creepy, disgusting losers are the types who have accounts on porn sites... people with disordered minds.
  
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  - SmokeEverything
    
    3 years ago
    
    I just mean like you can watch porn without making an account. There's tons of free porn out there.
    
    I hang with a girl who does onlyfans stuff, not judging the hustle just don't really understand the point of paying for stuff like that.
    
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    - SwickDinging
      
      3 years ago
      
      I have always wondered this too but... it's a big industry. For some reason there are loads of people who think it is worth paying for.
      
      It's a head scratcher.
      
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      - SmokeEverything
        
        3 years ago
        
        Yeah, tons of free porn but people will pay to watch a girl play video games in her underwear. I don't understand this world anymore.
        
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ellnell

3 years ago

It's normal to be pickier if you know you can be. In my opionion it's not that positive of a thing because you quickly adapt "the grass is always greener"-mindset when you're picky.

For your information far from only ugly guys are desperate and harasses women. Attractive people can have a hard time finding potential partners due to being shitty people and being difficult to stand for too long at a time.

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a-curious-bunny

3 years ago

That very last part is hilarious. Tall about conspiracy

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Either that or they don’t make accounts for those sites. Nobody likes to be caught with an exposed profile like that. But I think girls can have a strong visual sense, sometimes in better ways like arts or textures.
  
  At a tile store, I was surprised that there are so many colors for wood or floor coverings and I couldn’t tell the difference: Like magenta or pink lemonade.
  
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  - Wooliumthethird
    
    3 years ago
    
    That last part just makes it seem you're a blind man just regaining their sight lol. Yeah there are lots of different decorating options for tileing and I'm not even a woman and I can see that. You seem to like making assumptions about women which you know what they say about assume.
    
    Also if woman are so dang 'visual minded' why are romance novels so popular with them? They don't tend to have pictures inside you know lol
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      Even romance novels give images of guys in their plots. 50 Shades of Grey featured a handsome multi millionaire as the plot guy.
      
      The tileing example was to explain a meme I found about a guy only seeing 8 colors and a girl seeing 64 colors in between. The discernment between the shades is more clear.
      
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  - a-curious-bunny
    
    3 years ago
    
    You are a special type of stupid man. You need to forget this conspiracy of yours about women for your own good
    
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Mini69

3 years ago

How nice of you to recognise us as people. Is this a new revelation for you or is it something you have suspected for a while now!

It is of course true to say we like a good looking man. After all, leaving aside the visually impaired, who doesn’t like good eye candy! What you might want to understand however is that we do tend to go for a certain type. That type does of course vary from one woman to another. Some of us like Mr Macho, all six pack and rippling muscles. Some prefer the perfect gentleman who puts our desires ahead of his own without question, some of us like the cheeky chappy Jack the lad type and so on.

My point is that while good looks are a bonus, being a good man is the key concern.

From your comment at the end of your post, you sound like a condescending little shit, so my advice to you is before you worry about working out at the gym, you might want to concentrate first on your attitude to women.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  It’s not new for me. I’m reminding other men of these facts before they buy a Pick up manual from a dating “guru” They think it’s all game and nothing else.
  
  I agree that being a good person is more important in the end, the only issue is that physical attraction comes first and people don’t like to talk about it. It’s protective psychology: “If you’re not willing to tell a stranger who you’re voting for, don’t expect girls to reveal their physical preference”
  
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  - SmokeEverything
    
    3 years ago
    
    "Game" doesn't even exist. Being good at holding a conversation helps but those dating guru dudes are scam artists. If you're going under the assumption that there's a certain set of tasks you have to complete to trick women into sleeping with you I'd say thats your problem.
    
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Anonymous Post Author

3 years ago

Just a heads up, I think a better word to describe people they don’t like is “annoy”.

If you see yourself as repulsive, that’s a sign of low self esteem and I don’t encourage self-hatred. The word annoying is used to describe offers from those who are respectful but still unappealing. It’s MILES away from creepy.

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Bazinga

3 years ago

"This makes it harder for a 1 to get a chance".

Women rate men's appearance far differently than men rate other men. Any facial asymmetry, facial scars, or asymmetric teeth is a deal killer. You have to score a 4.0/10 rating by at least one girl to get your chance to show your charming personality. Ugly guys, provided they have facial symmetry, occasionally score a 4 with some girl.

Unfortunately, I never have.

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S0UNDS_WEIRD

3 years ago

They're picky because they're attractive.

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SwickDinging

3 years ago

Maybe you need to take a step back and focus on something else.

This post comes across like you're very obsessive and creepy when it comes to women. It must be very off putting for the women you meet.

Maybe focus on work and hobbies and try and chill out a bit, and then you may find that you meet someone naturally and it doesn't feel so forced and intense.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  I’ve never been told that I was creepy by anyone so your argument is invalid.
  
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  - SwickDinging
    
    3 years ago
    
    That doesn't mean much.
    
    I don't think I've ever told a man that I find him creepy, but plenty of them have been towards me.
    
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RoseIsabella

3 years ago

Birds of a feather flock together! Young, attractive people naturally tend to want to date other young, attractive people!

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my_life_my_way

3 years ago

Isn’t it like an evolutionary thing that women are more picky about their partners because they can only get pregnant once every nine months so have to pick a guy with the best genetics, where as guys can get 100s of girls pregnant each week so it doesn’t really matter for them.

I view myself as an attractive woman, I’d say I’m about an 8/10 with no makeup on and I’d only ever go for a guy who works out and has a fit body but I’m not too picky about the face. I’d pick a guy more based off the behaviour I see from him.

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- Bazinga
  
  3 years ago
  
  Many women say that. But in reality, bad looks are a decisive deal breaker. If you met a guy who was 1/10, you would never bother to observe his behavior. You would leave as quickly as possible.
  
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  - my_life_my_way
    
    3 years ago
    
    Not many guys would give a 1/10 girl a chance either though. My minimum standards to have sex with a guy (not a relationship) are just that he has be relatively close to my age, not be fat and not look like a complete twink. Anything else is fair game. And that’s really low standards for a 10/10 like myself
    
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    - nopurpose
      
      3 years ago
      
      If you are to be raped and abused, you're not in position to set any standarts.
      10/10? haha I doubt you're even a girl. Pics or you know the value of unproven claims. If you are indeed in law school as you claim.. Bitch
      
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      - my_life_my_way
        
        3 years ago
        
        Why would I have any reason to lie about being a girl? You must’ve left 4 pathetic little replies to my comments in the last 10 minutes, what exactly is it you hope to gain?
        
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        Gain? I don't see anything to gain here
        
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[Old Memory]

3 years ago

That second paragraph makes me have a mixture of laughter and sadness. My poor, naïve friend...

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