Are you satisfied with your gender?

I'm a female, and I wish I was born male. How do you feel about your own gender?

Yes. -Female 127
No. -Female 67
Yes. -Male 219
No. -Male 141
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  • taciturn

    I love being a guy. It just seems a lot simpler.

    Though I do think I'd make an awesome lesbian.

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    • Mparr

      I wouldnt mind having a girls orgasm. 20 seconds or more with so many more endorphins and chemicals. A man has 8 secs at most and about 2/5 of the chemicals and endorphin spike.
      The ability to completly change back and forth at will like in misfits.

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    • seabird_71

      I don't know why anyone thumbs-downed that. I thought it was funny, and I'm a girl. Although I'm pretty happy with it, sometimes I think I'd make for an awesome gay guy. No shame in admitting it.

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      • Sillygoose

        You're both badass people.

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    • EndlessSuffering

      Omg...Can guys stop thinking about lesbians? -.-'

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      • Zonfire80

        Lesbians are hott as fuck. There boobs rubbing together. I'm a transman and I love to see that.

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  • Avant-Garde

    I'm a female.

    I once went through a period, that lasted many years, where I thought that I was male. I blamed all of my problems on me being female. I actually thought that being male would solve my problems! Then some years later, I thought that I was a Transexual. Finally and thankfully, I realized at some point that I'm female and that I only like to dress like a male.

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    • Mparr

      Lol i read first couple of words and thought you meant period as in the tampon type not space of time. Lol.

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      • Avant-Garde

        Lol. I really should of put "phase" instead. Oh well, it's stuck like that now:)

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    • geek_god_101

      I'm male and I like to dress as female occasionally. Female clothes and shoes seem to make me feel calm and relaxed but I still enjoy being male. I don't have a desire to be female even though it would have good intentions.

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      • Avant-Garde

        Thanks for understanding:)

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        • DiscoDuck

          You two are meant for each other.

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  • Sophie5472

    girls have it so much easier imo its social norm for US to be asked it and for us to be proposed to imo thats alot of stress of our plate. also we dont have to worry about "finishing" too quickly in bed.

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  • mizeka

    I'm a male and I am not satisfied with my gender. Not that being male is horrible or anything, in some ways it's great. But I still would like to be a female if possible.

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  • LethalBurger

    Yes, i love my sausage... just wish i had my own melons to play with D:

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    • Zonfire80

      Be a transvestite

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  • Having balls rocks my world

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    • Zonfire80

      Just make sure they don't get kicked.

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    • Mparr

      Lol. Having rocks rocks my world mor like.

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  • lufa

    One time for Halloween I cross-dressed for the lulz but realized I'd actually make a pretty hot looking girl. Truth be told, I'm also bi and have x-dressed with my partner to be kinky.

    I've had guys look at me and I know they mistook me for a girl because they gave me the same look I give to girls I find sexy. This was before I realized I was bi, so it kind of weirded me out and I grew a goatee and cut my hair shorter. Once I was more comfortable with my sexuality it didn't really bother me that hot guys checked me out, actually I liked it.

    But thinking about it, if I could live my life again I'd like to try it as a girl, generally I find most guys to be unattractive and unappealing so I'd only hook up with who I'd consider hot/sexy.

    I love girls so I think I could love being one too as strange as it might sound.

    Do I feel I was born in the wrong body? I did go through a period where I seriously considered being a transsexual but felt it was way more trouble than its worth.

    I think both sexes have advantages and disadvantages and it depends on priorities. If success and strength matter, then you'd want to be a guy. If having a sensuous life matters then girls have it better. Of course good looks is key-otherwise you don't get the full enjoyment out of life. k enuf of my rambling.

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  • theabider

    I love being a girl. Not because I get to be the boss and run people around, but because I don't have to. I love being quiet, sweet, and lady-like, and having people dote on me because of it. And I love not having to do great and scary things to prove my value, but instead being treasured and admired for my natural beauty. I think guys are great, but they have it hard, they get a lot of pressure, and have a lot of strife throughout life. They have to chase down girls, propose, get a great job, etc. While we women can just relax, if that's what we want to do. These days too many women throw away their femininity. If we aren't going to act like women, why be one? No wonder there are more dissatisfied women on this poll than men.

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    • charli.m

      I cannot imagine any of that making me happy.

      Not knocking you for it, glad it works for you and anyone else who agrees.

      I'm happy with my gender (female). I'm not 'ladylike' because the thought of me behaving like that makes me feel ick and fake. I've never been a real girly girl, and I don't completely understand it in others, though I don't see it as a bad thing. I'm not masculine, in my opinion, either. I don't think you have to be overly feminine in order to be womanly. I don't particularly like the way either gender is 'meant' to be re stereotypes. As concepts (and occassionally, as realities) "macho-ness" and "damsel-ness" piss me off to the extreme.

      Maybe I'm just weird, but I can live with that :)

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      • theabider

        Well, don't get me wrong either. I'm not your typical girly girl. I never played with barbies, grew up chasing my brother and his friends around, climbing trees and shooting pistols. Now, I will try and do anything, and I don't always wear frilly pink. I guess I just like to think about the feminine aspect of girls, and how sweet it is, especially when relating to sex, guys, etc. But unlike you, I do like macho guys, and while I don't like prissy, giggly girls, I despise bossy arrogant girls. So yeah, for me, there is a definite distinction.

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        • shade_ilmaendu

          Sounds like you found that perfect balance between being a lady and not giving a fuck. :P

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        • Zonfire80

          Masculine guys are the best. They really know how to make a woman feel helpless. So they protect them.

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  • abitofailute

    Being a female sucks major fucks.

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    • Zonfire80

      Especially if you are transgender

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  • I like being a guy but my reasons would cause a thread of inequality insults and such.

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    • Zonfire80

      Because you have the ability to make hundreds of women pregnant even when you're old. Don't have to go through child birth. Can get high paying jobs better. Physically stronger. Have the ability to pee standing up. Don't have drama in your life. Can fuck as many as women as you like without being called a slut like girls do. Instead get called a player. Can rough house with guys and not get criticized with it. Have a nice cock to play with while seeing a hott chick in a magazine, pornhub or in real life and can shoot loads. Girls can't do that because they don't have a dick or have the ability to shoot cum like that. Squirting can happen but it's rare and it's not as good as having a nice load to shoot. Now I'm a transman so I don't know what any of this feels like, I'm just guessing on what you were going to say about why you feel like it's better being a guy. If this is the case. This doesn't offend me at all. I actually admire it.

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  • Wolfhelm

    I'm a male who doesn't necessarily feel uncomfortable being masculine. But I sure do hate the fact that I will never be able to be pregnant and grow a live baby inside of me. Seems almost like a cheat that all Ill be able to do is be an observer of the beauty and miracle of pregnancy. It almost seems like all the benefits of being male is kinda just slightly satisfying.

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  • MalTownsend

    I wish I could be both

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  • Glass

    If given the option to switch which I was at birth, I may consider it.

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    • Avant-Garde

      Clownfish can switch their sex at will.

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      • Zonfire80

        So Marlin from Finding Nemo is intersex? Or transgender? Wait so he's a she? I guess Nemo had 2 dads or 2 moms? Or all together.

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      • Glass

        I'd rather not be a fish though.

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  • Lynxikat

    I like being a girl, although sometimes I wish I was like Ranma from Ranma 1/2 and have the ability to switch back and forth between genders. You know, so I can manage to avoid that time of the month :)

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    • jwedal

      I heard of this Ranma before,then i felt envious of his ability to switch sexes.I would love to do that.I could be a guy by day do my job,and at weekends be a lesbian slut.
      How epic would that be!

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  • 343Boy

    I don't know if satisfied is the right word, I've never been a woman but I'm ok with what I am now.

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  • DiscoDuck

    Both genders have their good and bad points.

    Males bad point is their weakness to sex and relationships, this leads him into the obvious trap of marriage where he has nothing to gain and everything to loose.

    Females bad point is their hormones. Because their have wild hormone swings every month they are in a constant state of mood swings and live on the edge of sanity half their lives.

    The good points of each depends on what society has granted them.

    All said, I'd rather be a male.

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    • Zonfire80

      It's worse when you're bipolar

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    • Riddler

      How is marriage a trap?

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  • Aleks85

    Well I don't have to bleed out of my crotch every month, nor do I have to worry about getting pregnant so I think I'm good where I am.

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    • shade_ilmaendu

      Youve gotta worry about getting her pregnant either way. ;P Whether its marriage or child support, youve still gotta pay for where you stick it. Lol

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      • Aleks85

        Don't worry I'm responsible for where and how I "stick it." For some reason women don't seem as responsible when they have 3+ baby daddys.

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        • shade_ilmaendu

          Haha, I really dont know what goes through peoples heads to find themselves in situations like that. Anyone can have an "accident" but some people just should not be allowed to copulate until theyve proven they know how to keep a baby from happening.

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  • diecolsd

    if i was a girl i would be a lesbian and be able to play with myself easier cause u can shove stuff up urself

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    • Zonfire80

      Plus women are sexy and it would be hott if I had a biological dick to fuck with them with. Just a thought. Plus lots of BJ for me. I'm a dom so this would be perfect.

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  • KathJ

    I hate being male.

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  • SoccerStud88

    love being a guy because i can crank one out in a matter of minutes if needed. And i can do it about once per day :)

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    • Runaway

      I'm a chick and sometimes I get up 3 times a day(;

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      • SoccerStud88

        you horny bastard :P

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    • Zonfire80

      I do it every day mornings, afternoons, evenings and nights especially. One time my girlfriend was watching Court House and I was masterbating in the kichen. She found out and we end of having sex. It was great. Being a transman has its ups and downs.

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  • dom180

    I'm satisfied with being a guy. I choose to look fairly effeminate, and I sometimes feel more like a girl than a guy, but I'm still totally happy being male, all things considered.

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    • UnrecognizableMan

      i thot u were a girl...

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      • dom180

        Close enough. I am wearing nail varnish as I type, but I also have a penis. Take from that what you will.

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        • UnrecognizableMan

          I'll take the penis

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          • dom180

            I'm looking for a commitment first :/

            I kid, I kid. Good choice though, btw.

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          • Zonfire80

            Same

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          • ricmarsh

            me too

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    • bananaface

      Why do you feel more like a girl sometimes:S?

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      • dom180

        Well, I have more female friends than I do guy friends. I'm not quite sure why I feel like that, tbh, it's just a feeling I get.

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        • Zonfire80

          You have more female friends? Dude you're a player. I bet guys envy you.

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  • Sanara

    Satisfied enough but don't feel like I have some sort of "belonging" to my gender over the other one. Not sure if things would be better, worse or equal if I was the opposite sex

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  • Rusty-Rider

    We Martians don't have genders.
    We just screw whoever we want, as long as they are in agreement, of course.
    Kinda like the government on your planet, but they don't use any lube.

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    • Zonfire80

      For second there I thought it said Marines Like the marines corps lol

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  • lostInWonderland

    I wish I was not any gender, I feel like I am not anything.

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  • Riddler

    If only we were like lizards. We could than just switch gender whenever we wanted.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I want to be a hot guy so I can have fun with myself ;)

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    • Zonfire80

      So you can get a sexy lady to blow you.

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  • Pandahpop

    i wish i was a girl and i'm a guy. girls have much more clothing to choice from, i think they can have more fun in their gender, and it really ticks me off how all the good sales in clothing stores are more geared towards women. it's like they forget that guys like to shop too. those are pretty much the reason. and i would love to have boobs. i like to show off my assets. mainly my ass and legs. so i can be a little girly, but the guy i like seems to like that about me. i have thought about a sex change, but i dont know if i would want to go through that kind of change. but if reincarnation is real, i hope i come back as a pretty female.

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    • Zonfire80

      If you become a sexy female I would love that. I'm a transman and love looking at females.

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  • ?Tiemeup?

    I would'nt mind becoming a girl for a week

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  • blackcat97

    im a girl, i just sometimes wish i was a guy so i could be gay and have all the hot gay guys :) <3

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  • Rachelle_InHighHeels

    With being a crossdresser as I am, need I say anymore... Femme apparel is so superior to male ca-ca junk, it's not even funny..
    I am married to a very understanding, accepting. supportive, knowledgeable, and helpful wife who has taught me all the traits to emulate women, from presentation, to walking, standing, sitting, mannerisms, make up, hair, nails etc, and I've a very extensive wardrobe, including 42 pair of HIGH HEELS (and I do mean HIGH) and all this for me is a lifestyle, and not a hobby, nor a passing fancy / whim.
    So with all of this, I would have NO problem being a woman for as many years as it took to fully transform.
    Rachelle In High Heels

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    • Avant-Garde

      Do you cross dress 24/7?

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  • zchristian

    There are the times where i wonder how it is to be a female still i dont have a feeling like im in the wrong body...

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  • Gena45

    I'm pretty happy with being a girl.

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    • Zonfire80

      Women are so pretty and so inicent. It's so sensual and shit. If I was a biological guy I would love to spread my seed into the pretty lady. Mabey even so more ladies if they wanted more. Just a fantasy.

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  • Runaway

    I love being a lady:)

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  • ricmarsh

    i like being a guy but like cock and pussy mmm cock

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    • Zonfire80

      Mmm pussy and boobs. If I was a biological guy I would love to cum in my girl. I'm transgender though...

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