Are you submissive, or dominant in bed?

Just wondering what's more common, subs or doms.

Dominant ( I'm male ) 19
Submissive ( I'm male ) 20
Dominant ( I'm female ) 9
Submissive ( I'm female ) 13
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  • 1WeirdGuy

    Abusive

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  • my_life_my_way

    Asexual or something

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  • megadriver

    I lean towards dominant, tho if my wife is feeling extra frisky, I don't mind her being in charge. Definitely a turn on seeing a delicate, skinny woman get what she wants from a big guy who was in the army and takes no shit from anyone.

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  • DarkMatter

    What about being a switch? But prefer the sub more?

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  • LloydAsher

    I'm dominant but I'm in the weird circumstance of not being dominant enough. I can slap but it's never hard enough. I dont like to bruise but apparently I need to leave a mark that lasts weeks.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    first one then the other

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  • Vvaas

    honestly depends on my partner i could go either way but generally i'd probably want to be more submissive

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  • ChrissySnow

    With men I'm very submissive but with women I'm the opposite and very dominant.

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  • Willybob2

    Definitely submissive.

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  • MonteMetcalfe

    We're all just prisoners of our glands.

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  • chitterchatter444

    I love a man that can take complete and utter control of me and when they need to get a load off they make that apparent. Love assertive men, im a good sub ^O^

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  • Solarith

    Submit

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  • Tommythecaty

    The Marquis last words tattooed on me may be a hint. Not exactly hidden.

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  • 1234tellmethatyoulovememore

    Submissive but playful and like to challenge my dominant partner to make him work for it lol

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet

    Only had it once (didn't enjoy it) but I was on top/pinning so I assume dominant.

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  • Lusty-Argonian

    Severally submissive lol. In life am a little domineering but in bed total sub

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    • SkullsNRoses

      I’ve heard of this, people who are in charge in their day-to-day lives like to switch off and role-play as a submissive. It even happens in the Wolf of Wall Street when he gets a prostitute to shove a candlestick up his bum.

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      • Lusty-Argonian

        Honestly I hare role-playing, throws me out of the moment and into my head making enjoying the moment fully completely impossible for me. But yea it is rather common wich is most interesting. However I have not seen that movie, it sounds interesting though

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  • RoseIsabella

    Neither.

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