Asking bf for affection

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is it bad to ask for affection from your boyfriend? my boyfriend of 7 months once showed so much affection 24/7 and now he does it sometimes, but not as much. he says it’s stress and stuff and i ask him what’s wrong what’s stressing him out a lot and he gets mad. he gets annoyed and doesn’t understand why i ask for affection because he says he does.. is it annoying to do what i’m doing? i’m going to therapy soon to help with my anxiety about stuff like this but i’m just wondering if it’s normal to ask and wonder. even if it doesn’t really exist or it’s all in my head

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Based on 9 votes (5 yes)
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  • fatok
    3 years ago

    did you try giving him a blowjob?

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    If he ceases to give you affection then you should probably forget about him.

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  • CockSuckerRacheal69
    2 years ago

    Suck His Dick more often

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD
    3 years ago

    Is what you basically mean attention or are you getting attention just with no affection?

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  • whatisthisthing
    3 years ago

    If you have to ask for affection then he has serious problems.

    Don't hesitate to talk about it with your therapist.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      yeah i just contacted my therapist that i haven’t talked to in a year to talk about this problem. but, i’ve noticed when i act unphased and that i don’t need affection he comes to me more

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    Why wouldn't it be normal? Of course its normal, there's a real meaning it just means he's there for you when you need it so in favor you give him some affection, give him much affection as he needs. Affection is healthy and a good aspect of a relationship.

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