At what time in your life did you loose your virginity?

Sometime after high school, in college, after college 566
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Near first two years of high school 336
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  • ketamine

    I lost mine to my ex when I was 20. She passed away. :(

    Even to this very day, she's the only one I've made love to.

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  • I Play X-BOX 360, so probablly never in my life...only if she's..REALLY drunk. :3

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    • Open24hrs

      Who doesn't love a gamer?

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    • Who knows, I'm a girl an i LOVE the X-Box and Wii And ps3. ;)

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    • trytoforgetthis

      Hahaha, love the honesty here.
      <3 to the virgin gamers xDDD

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    • Gabby:)

      Lol, I love PS3, but I always feel like such a loner unless I have someone with me, or unless I'm playing online!

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  • kanachan

    I haven't lost it and I will probably not lose it until I'm married.

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  • ALMikey

    Never "lost" it. I gave it to my wife on our wedding night and she gave me hers. Maybe old fashioned, but after 20 years of marriage, it's great to know that we are each others' one and only!

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    • iintolovethissite

      she was lyeing i boned her in alleyway >.<

      sorry i just wanted to know what it fealt like to troll
      it doesnt feel goood :(

      im ashamed

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  • I never did and never will. Asexual pride :D

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    • I respect that.

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    • CompletelyAnonymous

      Me too! I believe in true love. Sex just doesn't seem loving. Just pleasing to the two individuals. Even if there is a special connection, I believe the connection exists even without intercourse. Sex may seem fun at the time, but in the end it's shameful and always ends up hurting someone somehow. Think about it in long-term sense. Proud to be asexual. :)

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      • forever_anon

        I respect that. But sex can be a loving act. It's a great way to bring pleasure to someone you care about.

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      • moritsio2

        but if there was no sex you wouldn't be born

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  • liz16

    19 female. Lost mine at 12 with a gf. She found a porno in her brothers room stole it. One day we watched it together decied to do what we saw the Women did in the lesbian sinces. We loved it.

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  • Cookieboy

    I'm still a virgin at 22. I don't feel affection towards others

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  • Sweetiepie21

    I lost my virginity when I was 14. And the guy was 22. And I still regret it. :)

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    • jbj955

      I bet he doesn't

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    • suhaylah

      dnt regret it just try to forget whatever happened is in the past now look forward for the future n live d present eventhough u regret u cnt change a thing...:-)

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  • asdf90091

    I'm 18 and still have mine. As appealing as it is to go out and have one night stands like the rest of my friends do, I'd rather save mine until I meet someone special. It seems like it'd be more fun if there's a connection besides just sex. Hopefully she won't know what she's doing either... :P

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    • BreakTheMold

      i think that you should have sex if you know that the one you are doing it with is the one you love (or at least at the time) and that you should really think about it before doing it. you only lose your virginity once and im happy to say that i dont regret having sex with my girlfriend at all. because i know that i loved her (and still do) at the time that i did do it with her :)

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  • JointKiwi

    I'm 20, haven't lost it yet -

    I thrive to, but sometimes I wonder if it will just become like a drug for me, or if it's better to have this fantasy in my head of what sex really is, than realize what it isn't.

    The majority apparently loves it though, but from an outer perspective on other's obsessions with sex and their relationships, it appears to be little more than a drug.

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  • jessicatruesong2009

    never and proud :)

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  • GGAllin

    I've had it, started High School at 14 and lost it to my sister's friend who was 17 at the time. Not sure about girls but guys, not missing out on much. A mouth will do pretty much anything you need haha.

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  • 4392Moron

    Happily married for 30 years and I lost my virginity at age 27 when my husband and i became pregnant with our triplets.

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    • SOADslave

      Wow. That would've been a handful

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    • Just1question

      You lost your V when you became pregnant? Wow... someone must of shoved them three Peeerrrrettty deep.

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  • jaredfontaine2002

    I am a virgin. I have never done anything...

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  • metalbbydoll

    when i got married

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  • nickeyyy

    I'm a virgin

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    • chaffinghippo

      Hey i am a virgin too, want to do it?

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  • Parsleybro

    I lost my virginity at 14. I'm not proud of what I did, but I sure as hell don't regret it. It doesn't affect me now, nobody was hurt [not even me :3], the boy is happy with another girl, as I'm happy with my boy now.

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  • SomethingReallyEasy

    I have yet to have sex... due to my boyfriend being to shy to try.

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  • lyche_natadecoco

    i haven't lost it anyway and im not planning to lose it any soon

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  • icanhascheezburger

    I was 18 years old and was with the person I thought I'd spend the rest of my life with and am still with, why rush it?

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  • deb

    MIDDLE SCHOOL! WHAT THE FUCK!?

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  • jodyhotwet

    I lost my virginity when i was 12. The guy was a friend of my older brother and it was fantastic and i have loved all forms of sex ever since.

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  • hi my name is megan smith and my virginity is so loose i can fit a fist in it

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  • Toker

    I lost mine at 13. Im a guy. Sex is great you guys are missing out. I lost it to my girlfriend who was also 13 and we had ben dating for a year.

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  • Basketball401

    Last night.

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  • Riggist

    I was an 18 year old male when I lost it to a woman 12 years my senior, thanks to the power of 'Smirnoff'..........Three years later i married her.

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  • Real

    Mine was stolen at 14. I always get kinda sad when people sit around and exchange first time stories... usually excuse myself or just say it's personal. Way to kill an innocent conversation, right.

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  • lamartin

    The problem with sex is that people used to it... after u tried many times, u will ask for more. It will be great to make love, if the act is sex vibritor can do it. I believe when any person fall in love sexual contact will happen...

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  • zorrochick

    When I was 15, I had my first kiss. At the same age (and with the same guy), I got to 3rd base. Which is as far as I've been. I'm still technically a virgin.

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  • supaflyafro

    to me i think its a drug and ppl have to do it or they freak out and feel bad. why is it such a big deal i mean i dont want kids anytime soon anyway

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  • MBakke you see right through me. I am lonely. Wanna cuddle? :3

    lol no seriously I dated some of the most beautiful girls in high school and have had every sexual act you can think of offered to me on a silver platter.

    Sex, relationships, love... all of it has been mine for the taking but I don't want it. There's simply nothing in me that desires it.

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    • Couldnt of said it better myself. I guess some people who are completely ruled over the idea that sex and sexual acts are the best (like MBakke) will never know how boring it all sounds to people like us.

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      • chewy

        we need sex to reproduce

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        • zorrochick

          But we really don't need any more reproduction at the moment.

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          • shag776

            yes we do just less in case you are dumb the growth rate is 1.2% that's pretty low but 0 would be perfect. With the death rate of whatever it is in mind we need that much reproduction to sustain a growth rate of 0.

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          • chewy

            thats also very true

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      • I'm a very strange person

        It's lack of opportunity not respect

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  • 22 on our wedding nite . i dont think i'll say i lost it to him. It was an awesome feeling.
    :)

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  • Malice27

    sex is ok but there's other things I rather be doing.

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    • chaffinghippo

      yeah i know what you mean, i just got the new xbox call of duty and charlie hasnt got any for a month now, i kinda feel bad for him :L

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  • numb-robot

    I was 21, it was the most important thing to me to lose it and I regret losing it to a woman I didn't love at all, now Im 30 and have slept with 7 partners total, 1 being my ex fiancee of 7 years and now I have no desire to try again after being seperated for 2 years, the more I try to meet another girl the more I realise a once in a lifetime relationship is simply that......once in a lifetime, theres not going to be another for me.

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    • Bella4Life

      I am really sorry to hear about that! That is what I am afraid of. regretting it, and feeling all weird and anxious afterwards, even if it is with the right guy! I have a lot of feelings....0:/

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  • fuckevery1

    im still a virgin but not cause i couldn't, just because i didnt feel like i had to but whenever i do lose it ill know if it was right or not.

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  • I am with Valkeer on that one.

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    • MBakke

      Every lonely man's (or woman's) excuse.

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      • I was going to add at the end that I know people will say exactly what you just said but I thought people wouldnt have such a childish view on what I said. Yes I am lonely but only because I choose to be and because I prefer to be that way. I have had countless times that allowed me to loose my virginity but I said no everytime due to it not interesting me.
        So, lonely yes but not an excuse it was honesty im sure you dont need telling there is a difference between the two.

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        • zorrochick

          You may choose to be alone but nobody likes to be lonely. Being lonely is always a sad thing. But being alone doesn't have to be.

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  • I have not yet found a girl who is worthy of me. Not even close.

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  • AliciaMcneal

    Lost mine the night before my ninth b-day, and if I could it all over again, I start doing it at 5 and my dad and stepdad said I was a preteen slut and their fucktoy. I knew I was going to love sex because I had an orgasm the first time I took a man inside me and was afflicted with being multi orgasmic and I was born with vulva alopecia, so all the guys loved my baldie and still do.

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    • FinDuMonde

      Alicia, I think it is cool that you had sex before age 9 IF you enjoyed it and were ok with it. I also think it's ok that you wish you had had it even earlier. That being said, I do NOT advocate forcing a child to have sex before they want it. But we often forget that we are sexual animals just about from birth. If a kid wants to explore, especially with other kids, then it should be perfectly ok. It doesn't sound like you were forced at all, Alicia. So that's cool.

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      • chewy

        you replied almost with the same exact comment

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    • shazzam2010

      I am sorry to hear that you were abused by the ones that you trusted. It is very sad for me to hear that. You should have gone to the police right away.

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  • Bladimir

    When I was nine, by accident! I was playing along bunch of other kids in my block and I was sitting on the floor and everyone yelled at bladimir and they all jump on me. I had the sharpes pain ever I was crying and yelling top of my longs to everyone to get off me cuz I was hurt, at the moment I thought that someone had like a knife and poke me by accident, so I got up but couldn't walk, my older bro and a friend help me into the house and my mo
    got scare she ask what happen, but I was scare and yet didn't want her to check my privates so I ask my dad to go to the bathroom with me and he took a look. I saw he kinda smile and he ask were u with the girl across the street? ( I said no we were playing) then he kick my bro out of the bathroom and he's ask me to take a bath with warm water. After that he came over and said son your penis free! He's out! I was like what? Is that bad?, he said no your just not a virgin anymore! And that's how I lost it. Believe me or not ppl, but I get nothing out of lieying about it.
    In a way I was kinda happy it happen that way cuz my older bro didn't loose it till like few years latter and he was scare that it may hurt him as it did to me.

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    • CompletelyAnonymous

      I'm so sorry for you. I know it must hurt. But I think virginity is something that is lost voluntarily. So in cases of rape or molestation those poor victims are still virgins. And to me, unless you've had sex since that incident, you are a virgin. :)

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  • Justrespect

    I lost it at 19 and i dont regret cause i waited for the right guy

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  • marmar

    when i was 14,i used to masturbate since i was 12 with my mothers porn movies,my mother knew it and i remember one day she told me tonight i will learn you the most enjoyable fun in your life,that night her boy friend came and she taught all about sex

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  • Bella4Life

    I am still a virgin. I am physically attracted to guys, but think that dick and cum are so nasty from stories I have heard...

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    • They are gross, cum is nasty I don't even touch it, but penises sure do bring a lot of pleasure ;)

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    • nutomebutgood

      Just as we shouldn't judge books by their covers, it's equally sensible not to pass judgment on things because of what they are called.

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    • CDmale4fem

      Bella, Please dont take this wrong, but seeing your profile pic makes me wish I was about 20 years younger, You have a very natural beauty, (like I need to tell you something you have known for long time). In other words, Wow You are a Very beautiful young lady.

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    • jbj955

      get help

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      • Rude! I felt the same way at one point

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  • titoriver17

    in second age of primary

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  • Psoriano

    Why assume that has happened at all?

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  • sega31098

    Never did.

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  • Mersaphe

    Virgins 4 Lyfe !!! Yeahh

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  • youngoddess

    I'm 25 and still virgin

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  • coolio75650932

    (other) ten minutes ago.

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  • Veri

    None of the above.
    I'm still a virgin.... is that cheating? ;)

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  • danh34me

    is it really lost if only by masturbation?

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  • Donn09

    I lost mine while i was 18, though i dont regret it but as time goes by i see that sex isnt a big deal after all......now im running from sex while when i was a teen i was willing to fuck any girly that comes my way

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  • I am very embarrassed to say this but I was 12...

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  • I was 16, and I lost it to a boyfriend I was in love with who said he was a virgin but wasn't =( I found out years later.

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  • asianninja

    When i was 4. I got raped. But...i guess that doesnt necessarily mean i lost my virginity right?

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  • Fadina

    18! last year in high school with my very first boyfriend ! =D

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  • ghettomex92

    12 years old with my gf after two weeks of being together :)

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  • HumanMan

    15. I've got to stress high school was terrible; except for the numerous amount of stupid, fit, and able girls.

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  • I lost mine at 12 when a girl gave me a blowjob at a school dance and I enjoyed it and we just started having sex and every weekend for the last year I've been going to my girls house for a little fun ;)

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  • madcow12

    when i was 15 :)

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  • 1942

    I have sex a lot, and I think I lost my virginity at 13. I'm not proud of what I did, but I sure as hell loved it. Orgy at 13. Felt great

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  • rsfeverdom

    I was 18, he was 22. He lured me to his apartment with promises of Dr. Who and coffee. I was so anxious to lose it but I didn't want to look like a who-ore so I made him wait a WHOLE one more day before I would do it. Haha. Simpler times. I hardly new the guy but I have no regrets.

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  • I was 13 at the time and it was with 3 15 year old girls and 2 13 year boys

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  • yesisbui

    I think I was 20 at the time :)

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  • i was 12 and in that time when i was 12 i had it7 times thats how sad i am .

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  • Well i was 7 unwillingly
    i was 13 when i first lost it willingly

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    • shag776

      Who did that to you. I'll kill him.

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  • luckynj

    At the age of 29 when married with my wife and had sex first time for both of us. Now we have passed 26th wedding ceremony.

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  • sk8er37dus

    lost it 2 weks before my 16 birthday

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  • Andyen

    2 days before my 20th birthday. Man it sucked. it was horrible. At first I thought it was me, that I was horrible at sex. But since then with other girls, I found out im compleatly good in bed, my first time girlfriend was the one who was horrible. It was so bad it almost threw me off sex all together.

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    • shag776

      You are a piece of shit maybe it was her first time too. You can't expect anyone to be good their first time. Fuck you.

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      • Andyen

        its wasn't her first time. She had many other sextual partners before me. I know i've talked to them and met them. So my first time, not hers.

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  • I'm 17 (birthday was yesturday)and a virgin. It's not like I had a ton of opportunities. Sometime around 16, I was (and still sometimes) really horny and started masterbating (which helped me from doing something stupid).
    I'm really worried that I'll have sex with some guy that turns out to be a jerk, and I regret it after, or worse, he tells all his friends and I'm humiliated (I have a fear of humiliation).
    I plan to have sex when I lose enough weight to be attractive or atleast adverage. For now, I ordered a vibrator, and am still expecting it in the mail.

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    • lovedrug666

      Please don't ever change for a guy... change for you, if you want to lose weight. But when a guy REALLY loves you.. it won't matter what ya look like! Swear! Confidence is the most beautiful thing a woman can show.. :) Get to know your body, and love it.. It's all you have after all. Treat it good, and it will treat you good!! <3

      Peace & Love.

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      • Of course i'm going to do it for myself. Changing for a guy or being too dependant never ends well. Right now a boyfriend isn't an option for me now, and I'm working on myself. I agree with you about confidence, it makes a bigger difference than people realise.
        Thanks for your concern.

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  • RomeAndJule

    Still have it, and I plan on keeping it for a while yet. I want to wait for the right guy, and for it to be special on the first time.

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  • i wAS 7 and didnt knoe wht i was doing , Haha

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  • Ash2327

    i lost mine when i was 14, i thought that it was one of the best times ive ever had but looking back at it now ive had so much better since then lol...

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  • i lost mine when i was 5

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  • Toker

    ^^sorry i meant she was 12^^

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  • anonymouscrazygirl

    i lost my virginity when I was 17. Theres nothing wrong with losing your virginity as long as you're ready to accept that the first time you may become pregnant, if you're not ready to accept that, then you're not ready to spread your legs..that simple

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  • mez

    11

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  • I am still a virgin, I want to stay that way until i find the right guy.

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  • emmyalise

    When I was in the frist grade I used to let these older boys kiss and suck me and I started getting off maybe year or two after that

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  • 1CrazyKidKing

    Ilost mine in 5th grade(I know that's pretty much absolutely horrible), but in my very slightest defense, I'm a guy, and I had known the girl for 5 years, and we really had no idea what we were doing.

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  • Crayshack

    Currently in college, haven't lost it yet.

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  • GinnyWeasley

    Still virgin

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  • meohhme

    17 and still have mine...girls in my country usually lose their at about 15 ALL of them haha but im not waiting for the prince or a really long relationship or nothing..i just believe that when times right you will be able to feel it..and no matter what may happen after you'll know you did the right thing:)

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  • Queeny

    I lost it when I was 15 in a public place with a FINE boy who was also well endowed. Although my first time was actually pretty good, if I could go back I would have waited. 15 was too young for me to have lost my innocence. I wish I would have lost it to my first love..

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  • Vancouvergirl420

    I was 16... And it was... Well... Meh I was happy just that it was gone lol and I can't even remember his name.... Lol ahh what can ya do

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  • Kukakuko90

    14 but it was foreplay.

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  • when the girl wants it give it too her

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  • chezycheze

    Obviously I have never been offered sex but I plan to wait till I find the right girl for personal reasons that are very significant to me.

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  • Rahvin

    Seventeen

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  • splint

    When I was 7 the girl next door asked if I wanted to play doctor, she was 8. She pulled down my pants and kissed my penis and it got hard and she then showed me what to do with it. It counts if you're still shooting blanks, right?

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  • WiseBeauty

    Im not a virgin but I kinda wish I was. I attract many guys but I wish I can blow their minds even more and tell them I'm a virgin. Guys love a hot virgin.

    But I love sex so.. I dont know, It hard to miss out on that. Unless you can use a vibrator?
    Does using a vibrator make you a virgin?

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    • Veri

      Clinically speaking, yes. It does. Well... in the context of already being one. A vibrator will not magically turn a non virgin into a virgin... just wanna make that clear.
      Clinically speaking you lose your virginity either by way of sex, oral sex, etc,etc.

      Some would disagree though.
      The original concept of "virginity" applied only to women and they tended to judge it by whether or not the hymen was intact.
      Now'adays we know that such a test can be woefully inacurate. Also the meaning of the term has evolved to include both sexes.

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  • CockyCaitlain

    When i was 13 i lost mine! I had my first baby at 15 i have 2 kids now lol read my profile 4 more info x

    =(°°)=

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  • im_insane123

    everyone doesnt care that their a virgin... get some pussy, then see if u care..

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    • Parsleybro

      They may consider getting some pussy if you consider getting an education, dweeb.

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