At what time in your life did you loose your virginity?
Sometime after high school, in college, after college | 566 | |
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Near first two years of high school | 336 | |
Near last two years of high school | 387 | |
Middle school | 360 |
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Sometime after high school, in college, after college | 566 | |
Other (Add a comment) | 269 | |
Near first two years of high school | 336 | |
Near last two years of high school | 387 | |
Middle school | 360 |
I lost mine to my ex when I was 20. She passed away. :(
Even to this very day, she's the only one I've made love to.
I Play X-BOX 360, so probablly never in my life...only if she's..REALLY drunk. :3
Never "lost" it. I gave it to my wife on our wedding night and she gave me hers. Maybe old fashioned, but after 20 years of marriage, it's great to know that we are each others' one and only!
Me too! I believe in true love. Sex just doesn't seem loving. Just pleasing to the two individuals. Even if there is a special connection, I believe the connection exists even without intercourse. Sex may seem fun at the time, but in the end it's shameful and always ends up hurting someone somehow. Think about it in long-term sense. Proud to be asexual. :)
19 female. Lost mine at 12 with a gf. She found a porno in her brothers room stole it. One day we watched it together decied to do what we saw the Women did in the lesbian sinces. We loved it.
I lost my virginity when I was 14. And the guy was 22. And I still regret it. :)
I'm 18 and still have mine. As appealing as it is to go out and have one night stands like the rest of my friends do, I'd rather save mine until I meet someone special. It seems like it'd be more fun if there's a connection besides just sex. Hopefully she won't know what she's doing either... :P
i think that you should have sex if you know that the one you are doing it with is the one you love (or at least at the time) and that you should really think about it before doing it. you only lose your virginity once and im happy to say that i dont regret having sex with my girlfriend at all. because i know that i loved her (and still do) at the time that i did do it with her :)
I'm 20, haven't lost it yet -
I thrive to, but sometimes I wonder if it will just become like a drug for me, or if it's better to have this fantasy in my head of what sex really is, than realize what it isn't.
The majority apparently loves it though, but from an outer perspective on other's obsessions with sex and their relationships, it appears to be little more than a drug.
I've had it, started High School at 14 and lost it to my sister's friend who was 17 at the time. Not sure about girls but guys, not missing out on much. A mouth will do pretty much anything you need haha.
Happily married for 30 years and I lost my virginity at age 27 when my husband and i became pregnant with our triplets.
I lost my virginity at 14. I'm not proud of what I did, but I sure as hell don't regret it. It doesn't affect me now, nobody was hurt [not even me :3], the boy is happy with another girl, as I'm happy with my boy now.
I was 18 years old and was with the person I thought I'd spend the rest of my life with and am still with, why rush it?
I lost my virginity when i was 12. The guy was a friend of my older brother and it was fantastic and i have loved all forms of sex ever since.
hi my name is megan smith and my virginity is so loose i can fit a fist in it
I lost mine at 13. Im a guy. Sex is great you guys are missing out. I lost it to my girlfriend who was also 13 and we had ben dating for a year.
I was an 18 year old male when I lost it to a woman 12 years my senior, thanks to the power of 'Smirnoff'..........Three years later i married her.
Mine was stolen at 14. I always get kinda sad when people sit around and exchange first time stories... usually excuse myself or just say it's personal. Way to kill an innocent conversation, right.
The problem with sex is that people used to it... after u tried many times, u will ask for more. It will be great to make love, if the act is sex vibritor can do it. I believe when any person fall in love sexual contact will happen...
When I was 15, I had my first kiss. At the same age (and with the same guy), I got to 3rd base. Which is as far as I've been. I'm still technically a virgin.
to me i think its a drug and ppl have to do it or they freak out and feel bad. why is it such a big deal i mean i dont want kids anytime soon anyway
MBakke you see right through me. I am lonely. Wanna cuddle? :3
lol no seriously I dated some of the most beautiful girls in high school and have had every sexual act you can think of offered to me on a silver platter.
Sex, relationships, love... all of it has been mine for the taking but I don't want it. There's simply nothing in me that desires it.
22 on our wedding nite . i dont think i'll say i lost it to him. It was an awesome feeling.
:)
I was 21, it was the most important thing to me to lose it and I regret losing it to a woman I didn't love at all, now Im 30 and have slept with 7 partners total, 1 being my ex fiancee of 7 years and now I have no desire to try again after being seperated for 2 years, the more I try to meet another girl the more I realise a once in a lifetime relationship is simply that......once in a lifetime, theres not going to be another for me.
im still a virgin but not cause i couldn't, just because i didnt feel like i had to but whenever i do lose it ill know if it was right or not.
I was going to add at the end that I know people will say exactly what you just said but I thought people wouldnt have such a childish view on what I said. Yes I am lonely but only because I choose to be and because I prefer to be that way. I have had countless times that allowed me to loose my virginity but I said no everytime due to it not interesting me.
So, lonely yes but not an excuse it was honesty im sure you dont need telling there is a difference between the two.
Lost mine the night before my ninth b-day, and if I could it all over again, I start doing it at 5 and my dad and stepdad said I was a preteen slut and their fucktoy. I knew I was going to love sex because I had an orgasm the first time I took a man inside me and was afflicted with being multi orgasmic and I was born with vulva alopecia, so all the guys loved my baldie and still do.
Alicia, I think it is cool that you had sex before age 9 IF you enjoyed it and were ok with it. I also think it's ok that you wish you had had it even earlier. That being said, I do NOT advocate forcing a child to have sex before they want it. But we often forget that we are sexual animals just about from birth. If a kid wants to explore, especially with other kids, then it should be perfectly ok. It doesn't sound like you were forced at all, Alicia. So that's cool.
I am sorry to hear that you were abused by the ones that you trusted. It is very sad for me to hear that. You should have gone to the police right away.
When I was nine, by accident! I was playing along bunch of other kids in my block and I was sitting on the floor and everyone yelled at bladimir and they all jump on me. I had the sharpes pain ever I was crying and yelling top of my longs to everyone to get off me cuz I was hurt, at the moment I thought that someone had like a knife and poke me by accident, so I got up but couldn't walk, my older bro and a friend help me into the house and my mo
got scare she ask what happen, but I was scare and yet didn't want her to check my privates so I ask my dad to go to the bathroom with me and he took a look. I saw he kinda smile and he ask were u with the girl across the street? ( I said no we were playing) then he kick my bro out of the bathroom and he's ask me to take a bath with warm water. After that he came over and said son your penis free! He's out! I was like what? Is that bad?, he said no your just not a virgin anymore! And that's how I lost it. Believe me or not ppl, but I get nothing out of lieying about it.
In a way I was kinda happy it happen that way cuz my older bro didn't loose it till like few years latter and he was scare that it may hurt him as it did to me.
when i was 14,i used to masturbate since i was 12 with my mothers porn movies,my mother knew it and i remember one day she told me tonight i will learn you the most enjoyable fun in your life,that night her boy friend came and she taught all about sex
I am still a virgin. I am physically attracted to guys, but think that dick and cum are so nasty from stories I have heard...
They are gross, cum is nasty I don't even touch it, but penises sure do bring a lot of pleasure ;)
Just as we shouldn't judge books by their covers, it's equally sensible not to pass judgment on things because of what they are called.
Bella, Please dont take this wrong, but seeing your profile pic makes me wish I was about 20 years younger, You have a very natural beauty, (like I need to tell you something you have known for long time). In other words, Wow You are a Very beautiful young lady.
I lost mine while i was 18, though i dont regret it but as time goes by i see that sex isnt a big deal after all......now im running from sex while when i was a teen i was willing to fuck any girly that comes my way
I was 16, and I lost it to a boyfriend I was in love with who said he was a virgin but wasn't =( I found out years later.
When i was 4. I got raped. But...i guess that doesnt necessarily mean i lost my virginity right?
15. I've got to stress high school was terrible; except for the numerous amount of stupid, fit, and able girls.
I lost mine at 12 when a girl gave me a blowjob at a school dance and I enjoyed it and we just started having sex and every weekend for the last year I've been going to my girls house for a little fun ;)
I have sex a lot, and I think I lost my virginity at 13. I'm not proud of what I did, but I sure as hell loved it. Orgy at 13. Felt great
I was 18, he was 22. He lured me to his apartment with promises of Dr. Who and coffee. I was so anxious to lose it but I didn't want to look like a who-ore so I made him wait a WHOLE one more day before I would do it. Haha. Simpler times. I hardly new the guy but I have no regrets.
I was 13 at the time and it was with 3 15 year old girls and 2 13 year boys
i was 12 and in that time when i was 12 i had it7 times thats how sad i am .
At the age of 29 when married with my wife and had sex first time for both of us. Now we have passed 26th wedding ceremony.
2 days before my 20th birthday. Man it sucked. it was horrible. At first I thought it was me, that I was horrible at sex. But since then with other girls, I found out im compleatly good in bed, my first time girlfriend was the one who was horrible. It was so bad it almost threw me off sex all together.
I'm 17 (birthday was yesturday)and a virgin. It's not like I had a ton of opportunities. Sometime around 16, I was (and still sometimes) really horny and started masterbating (which helped me from doing something stupid).
I'm really worried that I'll have sex with some guy that turns out to be a jerk, and I regret it after, or worse, he tells all his friends and I'm humiliated (I have a fear of humiliation).
I plan to have sex when I lose enough weight to be attractive or atleast adverage. For now, I ordered a vibrator, and am still expecting it in the mail.
Please don't ever change for a guy... change for you, if you want to lose weight. But when a guy REALLY loves you.. it won't matter what ya look like! Swear! Confidence is the most beautiful thing a woman can show.. :) Get to know your body, and love it.. It's all you have after all. Treat it good, and it will treat you good!! <3
Peace & Love.
Of course i'm going to do it for myself. Changing for a guy or being too dependant never ends well. Right now a boyfriend isn't an option for me now, and I'm working on myself. I agree with you about confidence, it makes a bigger difference than people realise.
Thanks for your concern.
Still have it, and I plan on keeping it for a while yet. I want to wait for the right guy, and for it to be special on the first time.
i lost mine when i was 14, i thought that it was one of the best times ive ever had but looking back at it now ive had so much better since then lol...
i lost my virginity when I was 17. Theres nothing wrong with losing your virginity as long as you're ready to accept that the first time you may become pregnant, if you're not ready to accept that, then you're not ready to spread your legs..that simple
I am still a virgin, I want to stay that way until i find the right guy.
When I was in the frist grade I used to let these older boys kiss and suck me and I started getting off maybe year or two after that
Ilost mine in 5th grade(I know that's pretty much absolutely horrible), but in my very slightest defense, I'm a guy, and I had known the girl for 5 years, and we really had no idea what we were doing.
17 and still have mine...girls in my country usually lose their at about 15 ALL of them haha but im not waiting for the prince or a really long relationship or nothing..i just believe that when times right you will be able to feel it..and no matter what may happen after you'll know you did the right thing:)
I lost it when I was 15 in a public place with a FINE boy who was also well endowed. Although my first time was actually pretty good, if I could go back I would have waited. 15 was too young for me to have lost my innocence. I wish I would have lost it to my first love..
I was 16... And it was... Well... Meh I was happy just that it was gone lol and I can't even remember his name.... Lol ahh what can ya do
Obviously I have never been offered sex but I plan to wait till I find the right girl for personal reasons that are very significant to me.
When I was 7 the girl next door asked if I wanted to play doctor, she was 8. She pulled down my pants and kissed my penis and it got hard and she then showed me what to do with it. It counts if you're still shooting blanks, right?
Im not a virgin but I kinda wish I was. I attract many guys but I wish I can blow their minds even more and tell them I'm a virgin. Guys love a hot virgin.
But I love sex so.. I dont know, It hard to miss out on that. Unless you can use a vibrator?
Does using a vibrator make you a virgin?
Clinically speaking, yes. It does. Well... in the context of already being one. A vibrator will not magically turn a non virgin into a virgin... just wanna make that clear.
Clinically speaking you lose your virginity either by way of sex, oral sex, etc,etc.
Some would disagree though.
The original concept of "virginity" applied only to women and they tended to judge it by whether or not the hymen was intact.
Now'adays we know that such a test can be woefully inacurate. Also the meaning of the term has evolved to include both sexes.