Autassassinophilia

Is it normal for me to become sexually aroused when my life is in danger?

While i was withdrawing money from an ATM machine recently a man with a gun came from become behind me and demanded i withdraw all my money from the bank and give it to him, I did as he requested and he ran off. It was the most terrifying thing that's ever happened to me, but at the same time I had never been so horny?

When i asked my boyfriend he told me about his little kinks and that it's probably normal but at the same time he's worried i might put myself in danger just to become aroused like that again.

I just want to know if it's normal and if i can 'deal' with it, without putting my life in danger?

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62% Normal
Based on 357 votes (223 yes)
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Comments ( 13 )
  • Offer the robber a bj and bite his dick off

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  • purplemonkeydishwasher

    Fight or flight. Adrenalin. Arousal. Attention. Dominant. Submissive. That's it.

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  • Fleabitten

    As long as it doesn't interfere with you living a satisfying and healthy life, it is normal.

    I have heard that the locations in our brain for sexual arousal and fear are very close and can sometimes overlap.

    Also, as children, the seeds of a fetish can be planted from something that really frightened us. (For example, I know a guy who, when he was a little kid, he was at a birthday party and someone popped a huge balloon right behind his head. It scared him half to death. Now he has a thing for people blowing up balloons until they explode.)

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  • forti101

    Autassassinophilia wow i have this. i alternate from driving high speeds and masturbating at the same time and tresspassing into million dollar realestate and having full blown kama sutra sessions with my girl in there spas. Only on the weekends

    p.s. normal is overrated

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  • fatmonkey

    I think everybody has that a little not to that extreme but I think it's normal unless you put your self in danger like your boyfriend is worried about

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  • xtreemgamer129

    Be careful not to ever let yourself get kidnapped. You might be susceptible to Stockholm syndrome.

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  • nothing2

    you got some emotions inter-changed

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  • justlikeheaven

    i mean, it probly wouldn't help, but you should just watch it. haha

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  • justlikeheaven

    that was kinda like a movie i watched a while ago. i believe it's called 'spliced'. that might be the wrong one though. everytime something bad happened, or the killer guy was near her, she would be come super aroused. you should watch that movie.

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  • wonderin

    I think so but just so u all know if someone ever wants u to take money out of ur accont just eneter ur pin in back wards and the police will be secretly immidiatley notified and come to the scene example if ur pin is 1234 then enter 4321 but yes i think so

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  • PsychoNikki

    You and I could be the best of friends. I too "suffer" from a kink like this. Except for i have a thing about having rough sex at gun or knife-point. I actually posted something last night about my serial killer fetish. I get really turned on by men in ski-masks, and various rape fantasies, although they do not include being being bound, (gagging is ok, kind of) in anyway as I'm not a fan of bondage.

    My vote is..you're normal.

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  • Phaeteon

    Go to google and look up "rape and danger situation fantasy and fetish". You'll find that you are one of many people who are turned on by dangerous situations.

    If you're curious, it's a reaction to the fear and adrenaline that triggers your body's reactions. There are ways to get the thrill without risking yourself, but your boyfriend needs to be willing to participate in the activities, and you need to be creative.

    Try some different things, and see what you can come up with.

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  • Powernoend

    you know what this weird story. But the only help i can advise you with is continue your education no matter how difficult and hard it is.

    If you believe in your self and you think you can do it you overcome the impossibilities

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