Basically, why did she flirt with others when i invited her out

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So I'm 27f and I offered this beautiful woman to come with me to next LGBT event. She said shes def keen! I also said I'm taking some my wnates and said I'd buy her a drink. Does that alone tell her, I am interested in her ? She arrives and I miss seeing her at the door and then find her among people 20 mins later and she was looking for me. She and I flirted a lot yet she also flirted with others. One women drunk af came up to her and they placed their hands on each other and that women kissed her. Ffs I was upset! Me and her had deep eye contact, hand holding, shed grind on me moments. Idk why she didnt lean in for a kiss? She was pretty drunk. Ig she isnt the hook up type? She didn't let me drop her home ? Either

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  • Ellenna
    3 years ago

    It sounds as if you expected her to give you her sole attention, and that's not realistic. IF you really want to get to know her and work out if it's worth pursuing a relationship, ask her out on an actual date with just the two of you. If she refuses she's not interested, so just move on.

    By the way, what are wnates?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Wnates?

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      • Ellenna
        3 years ago

        First word in third line of your post

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    3 years ago

    I dont think this is normal. It was disrespectful and inconsiderate for her to kiss others on yalls "date".

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      I domt know of she thought it was a "date"??

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      • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
        3 years ago

        True, but still if it was obvious you were into her and were taking her out it was a little shallow to kiss others.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          3 years ago

          Exactly

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  • CDmale4fem
    3 years ago

    She might be looking to see if you are a psycho jealous fuck that goes ape shit because she talks to other guys. Or she might just be a social butterfly. They love the conversation, the attention.

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    • Ellenna
      3 years ago

      Read it again: they're both women. Same suggestion applies though.

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      • CDmale4fem
        3 years ago

        I would say YOU read it again. NOWHERE doea the writer say "I am female." Just because they are going to an LGBT event does not imply they are both female. Or is it supposed to ? After all this is the year 2020. I usually dont assume.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          3 years ago

          Ima women you fool

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        • Ellenna
          3 years ago

          I didn't assume anything: OP describes herself as 27f, doesn't that mean she's female? Or am I not up to date with the alphabet soup these days?

          Read it again yourself!

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            3 years ago

            Dam wtf I'm a woman!! Born a women

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Apparently she's introverted though ..

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      • Ellenna
        3 years ago

        Introverted? It doesn't sound like it to me!

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          3 years ago

          She is, she doesn't go to many of the events and first time I saw her 2 weeks ago she didn't stay to play pool and was shy af

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          • Ellenna
            3 years ago

            Introverted people don't usually flirt in public, unless she was drunk or high on something? Maybe she's just introverted and shy with you?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              3 years ago

              https://www.isitnormal.com/post/i-really-want-to-kiss-and-have-sex-with-her-but--idk-how-she-feels-295170

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              3 years ago

              Do I ask her if I can kiss her

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              3 years ago

              Awww cuteee

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  • olderdude-xx
    3 years ago

    Perhaps its normal. Some people are natural flirts and flirt with others their entire lives. They also can control going much farther. For this group - its harmless.

    Some cannot control going further. For that group its not harmless in most cases (unless they have an equivalent partner and open relationship agreement).]

    There are others who flirt with others because they are not really that interested in you. That is not harmless. It is however, quite normal.

    Have fun figuring out which group she is in...

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