Being an asexual autistic woman

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Im going to start dating again because I happened to meet a guy who seems really great but I am unsure what because ive come to the conclusion im some kind of asexual since I can like the idea of sex and stuff but in real life everytime ive had the opportunity its GROSS and I cant go through with it.
My plan is to make myself go through it so its done and then maybe I feel different but I dont know. I am on the autism spectrum and I twitch everytime when someone touches me a little bit which is strange honestly because I was very affectionate when I was little but then I stopped all of a sudden and twitch everytime but I dont know why.
I have during quarantine and covid been thinking if I am lesbian because I might be but its so hard to find a woman date so I give up and I wont know for sure. I fall in love with men so much though but I dont know if it counts. I wonder if is it normal for autistic WOMEN to be asexual because many autistic women I saw online has mentioned not caring about or liking sex so they think they are asexual and I wonder if you guys find out a woman is on the autism spectrum do you think she might be asexual ``? especially if she never speaks in flirty tones because I start to write in my dating profile that I am on the autism spectrum so this guy im going out with knows. I did put demisexual as choice for sexuality on my profile but I dont know if anyone looks at this info-bit on the profiles but its on the asexual spectrum as a sexuality and maybe if I go all the way I am demisexual instead if I LIKE It...

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  • Lusty-Argonian
    2 years ago

    Just tell the guy straight up you don't know where you stand sexually. You want to date him see where the Chips fall but you can't promise anything in the bedroom.
    Dude will probably just understand it that your a Virgin and don't your sexusliry yet. I woildnt try to over complicate it when you explain it to him

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  • SkullsNRoses
    2 years ago

    I’ve read that asexuality is common in autistic women, they tend to either really enjoy sex or not like it.

    Honesty is the best policy here, there’s no point in pretending to be something you’re not.

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  • bigbudchonger
    2 years ago

    Have you ever considered that maybe all the shit like asexual and demisexual is just bullshit and you could just be a standard autistic person who doesn't like to be touched?

    I remember when I first came across the term demi-sexual and it strikes me as something a lot of women technically fall into. Don't overcomplicate it like Lusty-Argonian says; just explain to him the situation and he should be cool about it.

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