Being taken advantage of... is it normal?
Buckle up kiddies you've just stopped in to the rollercoaster that is my world. Keep all hands and feet in the cart at all times. We'll do this in chronological order, just so I don't lose my train of thought.
Firstly, if you haven't read my crazy teacher story, see it right here as this was the beginning of the end: http://isitnormal.com/story/my-teacher-tried-to-screw-me-over-part-1-of-2-99573/
Now that you have read that, here is the rest of my story.
A "friend" of mine that I had let stay at my house for SEVERAL months without charging him for rent or food decided that since I couldn't do anything for him after he got kicked out by my mother, that I was his mortal enemy. He never reimbursed me the sum $400 I lent him and when I was at a party one day and he was there I ended up being jumped because he lied to his friends telling them I stole from him and that I was a piece of shit.
Another "friend" of mine I lent $100 and when he saw where I took my money out from he had people break into my house when I was at school and stole the rest of the money that I had the very next day. Then acted surprised the next few days when the police questioned him and he acted all innocent in front of my face saying he had my $100 back, of which he didn't give me.
In between those two incidences I started dating a 46 year old woman (now 47) and she took great care of me. She gave me about $400 a month and provided me with food and love. She was my knight in shining armor, the female version. This was short lived. About 6 months into our relationship she had me arrested because she was blatantly drunk one night and angry that I caught her cheating (by the way she has a fiance who lives 500 miles away that she supposedly intended to break up with, so including this guy, her fiance, and me, that's 3 people just that I know) so I get hauled off to jail and two weeks later released because she said my bail. I refused to talk to her and only gave her a second chance after she got on her knees and begged me to. Then after that her fiance found out about our relationship because I told him when she pissed me off severely one night because she told me she and him were over and I found out otherwise. She denied every single little thing and had him hooked around her finger. Then she came back to me and said that she wants to be with me but would have a hard time trusting me now (LOL, trusting ME?!) and that she needed a little more time to break up with her fiance who financially backed her 100%. So she left town to go down to her fiance and what do you know? She absolutely lied to me. He insulted me and told me to leave his fiance alone and that he would press charges if I didn't stop... This was just a few days after she was riding my horse like a bull and telling me that she and I would leave this area and move to somewhere better.
She has now to this day made it her mission to get as many legal documents as she can against me just to make it seem like she isn't a piece of shit. Her fiance is still a tool financing her heavy alcohol consumption and paying every bill of hers, regardless of knowing that she was dating a teenager while dating him. A sad pathetic man that one is.
Glad you kept your seatbelts on! Safety first right?!
Is it normal?