Bf gets mad at me when i bring up him cheating

Very common for low-empathy manipulative scumbags. The fact that you're still with him is you telling him it's ok to cheat, so that's why he isn't too concerned about your feelings. he's probably still cheating on you because now he has the excuse of "You were too upset and I have needs"

honestly just leave him, you know it's not going to end well and that he hasn't learned and he doesn't respect your feelings

Just get rid of him. He sounds like a real piece of shit.

I think, that you are the girl with a boyfriend, who bought some nude pictures on Snapchat, and then you got the info, that he even cheated on you. I really don't understand, that you still wanna be with him. Do something good for you and break up with him as soon as possible.

Why are you still with that piece of shit scumbag?

Do want you can to move away from him and by now I mean right now, because he might still take advantage of you. It's not okay for him to do this to you. If you keep on being with him he'll just keep using you he's playing you, he isn't a real boyfriend. He isn't worth your time.

You have every right in the world to be upset about his cheating. You will be much better off if you just leave him, he's no good.

Fucking hell, just end it. I don't need to know anything further about you or him to know that you can do so much better. Nobody deserves this.

Once someone cheats, that's it. Things will always be a little more shitty than they were before. Then they will probably cheat again at some point. Things get shittier still.

Don't go down that road. Just walk away now with your dignity still in tact. You don't need this guy. He sounds like an idiot.

Have you really talked about what happened? Got into it? Because it will be impossible for either of you to move on until you do. It'll be messy but you'll know for sure if you want to remain together or move on at that point.

Tell him you want to have a serious conversation without emotional outbursts. If he agrees to it, prepare yourself to uphold your side of the deal. This doesn't mean you can't feel emotions or express them, but simply that you agree not to scream, blame, or cry (in a pointed fashion... tearing up is of course, okay).

Now it is time to ask your real questions. You surely wonder about what he did. Are there details you are curious about but have been afraid to ask? Maybe you want to know what they did together? Maybe there is something he has been ashamed to ask you for that he feels he needs. If he can't have this conversation with you (and you can't have it with him)? You'll both be stuck in a past moment and won't be able to exist in present ones.

dump the prick

I just ended a 3+ year relationship maybe a month ago and my ex bf put me through the same exact thing. My ex used to say it was my fault that he cheated because I pushed him away and made him feel so unloved and unwanted that he cheated basically. I used to look at him like he was stupid and ask him if I pushed him away so hard that he tripped and his dick fell into her pussy and if that was how it was my fault. I would also sarcastically ask him if I was there holding a gun to his head while he fucked her and I forced him to fuck her, on multiple occasions at that.

Truthfully, I wish I would have walked away from the relationship way back then instead of sticking around and trying to work it out and get past that because it only got worse. My ex may not have cheated on me again but in the end he ended up beat the shit out of me and he broke me down so bad mentally that I honestly believed that the person I used to be was gone forever and I was forever going to be this pathetic, sad, depressed, defeated, abused version of myself forever.

It hasn't been very long since I escaped that asshole and it's been one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. He kept me isolated from everyone I knew for so long that when I finally got away I had no one I could turn to for help (and my family won't have anything to do with me) and I have been literally homeless on the streets in the middle of winter struggling just to survive. Don't end up in the same situation as I am. Get the fuck away from it all now before you have to deal with it. I knew if I had stayed with my ex for even a couple of months more he would have killed me. He even said so himself. There were a few times where I thought for sure that was it and I was done for. I got lucky. No one deserves that shit.

You're only staying with this asshole because you're lying to yourself and telling yourself that hes actually sorry and he actually loves you because you don't want to be alone and because you want someone to love you and whatnot. He has already proven that he doesn't love you and never will when he decided that fucking someone else was worth risking your relationship to begin with.

Yes it's normal, too normal, and quite a disappointment to you, just find a man you can lean on.

He wont change.
Also you shouldnt be with someone you dont trust it's not healthy and you cant keep bringing that up. Staying pretty much means you are okay with it and forgive him, it only seems like you're a drama queen if you stay but keep bringing it up. It would be different if it was a mistake he deeply regretted and also wanted to work through but obviously he doesnt even care.
And please stop making fake accounts and baiting him. Don't you see how toxic that is? Just DUMP.HIM.
Jesus.

It depends how long its been. Even if it hasnt been long ago I feel if you have to constantly bring it up and think about it maybe he's not a good fit. If you two are always miserable and arguing for any reason then thats a negative relationship. Might as well find someone that makes you feel happy.

Don’t fall for it. Manipulators use aggression to squelch their victims’ feelings. Stand up for yourself.

How long has it been since he cheated? If it's recent then he's got to deal with the fallout of it. If this is years later then you've got to move on as some point.

Lock him in a chastity device and get over it