Black girl white guy?

It's absolutely normal. I'm a white guy and I've been dating a black woman for 4 months now. She is the first woman I have dated outside my own skin color. We both live in NYC and my family is from Ireland while hers is from Belize. So I'm super light and she's super dark. I was always attracted to black women or all colored women as long as I found them attractive. Before my girlfriend I've never been hit on by a black woman. Weird part now is that I get hit on by black women almost on a daily basis. I brought this up to my girlfriend jokingly and said that these women smell her pheromones on me. I asked her how did I go totally unnoticed by black women and now that I date one I need to beat them off me with a bat. She said black women can apparently tell when a white guy is into a black woman by the way a white guy looks at the woman.. I still don't understand it but she says I must look at black girls differently now in a way they know that I find them interesting. We find it funny that in today's society and especially in new York city of all places, we get weird stares by people. Black people look at her all F'd up and white people look at me F'd up. Neither of us care because we have a great thing going so someone else's opinion doesn't matter one bit to us.

I am a modern young caucasian gentlemen and thought i could lend my opinoin.

Most men like 1 or 2 things. And all women are equipped with them. Most white guys (and we are talking like abercrombie white), think that they cannot get involved with a black girl due to cultural differences or they never thought a black girl would be interested in them.

White guys in abercrombie clothes though. They usually like other men or are in love with themselves.

well Im a black girl who is dating a white guy. This is not being offensive 4 black males towards black female this is my personal experiance. Ive been dating black guyz but compared to my boyfriend now who is white he is better than all of them in many wayz. Im not saying that all black males are bad 2 date. Just the worong I mate where cheaters playas and we got a misunderstanding of their life style. Well this white man we r in luv we go together in publich his family loves me and he is proud to have me in his arms. he loves me he trust me and I trust him in other way Im not afraid 2 choose him as a future husband and the future father of my babies. While dating even we r in a civilized country (US) Racism of who u date is not issue anymore. we get more negative comment. some blacks call me a sellout! ask me why Im with him wuts wrong with checkin in black guyz who r out there for me. Well my friendz and family r okay with it. But we get many negative comments I can not even believe that one guy who was goin out with a white girl judged me about me being with him. Let me tell u something if u find true luv dont mess with it by what pple say or gonna say 2 u. I luv him and he luvs me as we ever loved before. We r 6 mouths 2gether and we never had any fight we love each other as the first moment we saw we fall in luv since then.Before asking if its normal with a black girl to go out with a white man. It doesnt necessary have to be normal when it comes to love baby. Keep it real! Im black girl and hey stop hatin on a sista if she find affection and attention from a white guy. U black guyz do it and its a compliment but when we do we r sellout?? keep it real! be fair and luv without limit

Greetings,

Yes, it is very normal.

My husband is European American, and I am a Black American young woman. We are happily married, in our late 20's, and have a beautiful child together. Before we met we both dated outside our race & my husband knew what he wanted & why, he's generally confident and dont care to much what people think-He approached me & all though his appearance was breath taking to me- tall, dark hair & handsome, I also was attracted to his gentleman like qualities and the intellect, sincerity and liveliness in conversation he provided.
We have lived in the urban city when we were younger & experienced bad attitudes & ill comments from all types of people, but only about 1 percent, even those who have tried to break us up for their own personal reasons. It comes down to surrounding yourself by positive people in general, no matter where you live or where your from.
Some people are haters, but most are not. Just dont worry about them, stay away from negativity & live a good life.

Now we live in a nice, small middle & upper class neighborhood.It is predominately white, however because there is a major diverse college here-( UCONN ) It is not a shock to see different cultures together.
But unfortunately in the small suburban town where my husband grew up, it is kind of a little shock & not accepted by more than a few of the town, but there is also a hate group secretly based located downtown in that Shelton,CT. area to blame for this & around that Valley area.

Anyway,we both have traveled around different cities, urban & suburban of CT. NY. Florida, Southern states & both have mostly dated outside of our race, so when we met we pretty much knew what we wanted and what to look for BESIDES COLOR, in a lifelong partner. While the interracial attraction is there- We knew it was & not infatuation or a fetish or experiment on either of our part.

It sounds like you have a little crush.
I suggest before you rush up & ask these guys out on a date, you should see what kind of person they are. If they are good people or into things that may actually turn you off. Just be their buddy and hang out around them to see how they are around their friends. Also try personal conversation like, are they looking to serious date someone, do they have any fetishes, are they into or open to heavy drugs, are they bisexual or open to it, have they ever or would they date a black girl & if so-why? - to just "try it out" and see what it's like? "experiment" ? or for true love? Most wont just come out & say the negatives, but if you act casually about it you can gain the truth of character.

Have fun, make it clear to everyone your single, be confident & friendly, dont be afraid to ask questions, do your character research and just be yourself.

trust me, white guys like black girls! Obviously not all white guys, but more than you might think.
I'm a white guy who's always had a thing for black girls but nevef actually dated one untill late last year at the age of 26! I think the main reason i hadn't dated a black girl before was because i just alway's thought black girls weren't into white men, it's that simple. I've been with my current (black) girlfriend for 5 month's, meeting the family was a bit strange and to be honest i'm still not convinced that they're too pleased she's with a white man.. Oh and one more thing, my first time dancing with a black girl was STRESSFULL! So you mighg want to take that into account if dating a white dude who's never been with a black girl before! (i'm used to it now though! No longer an issue!)

but i'd say if its normall for a white guy to like black girls, then its normall for black girls to like white guy's. It's definately more common to see white guys & black girls together these days. Good luck with whoever you end up dating anyway!

It is perfectly normal.. I am a white man in college and am very attracted to black girls. I have only been with one black girl in high school but we grew together so i was not intemidated. I do think that white men to get intemidated because they are not sure if the girl is into them. I also am now feeling more attracted to black girls then i am white.

Also, I see people saying that white men dont ask them out because of the girl might have brothers. This is just stupid, i mean all girls have brothers why should you be more scared of a black guy. If this is stopping you then are a huge pussy.

Anyways be with who you want because the only person that matters in this situation is you, who cares what others think

I'm a black girl who is definitely more attracted to white guys not that I have anything against black guys, I find a lot of them good looking I just happen to prefer white guys. I thought that was an usual preference on my part b/c I never saw any white guys dating a black girl and most of the white guys I see around are only dating white girls. I have been hit on plenty of times but only by black guys which has left me wonder a time or two if white guys are just interested in white girls. Well from what I'm reading it seems that the average white male is more open to dating black women then I thought. It's good to know. I'm not as abnormal as I thought.

You know...I have always been attracted to black girls most of all...wondered why...and now...I just continue to be...accepting it for all the joy it could mean for her and I...and just hope to meet an attractive romantic black girl for dating...love...and lasting togetherness...

Wow...too bad I didn't get on this site a year ago when this was first posted...
A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman. Each unique by hair, skin, or eye color. I love them all! haha
I'm white and I'd love to meet a black woman...I love the Danish heritage woman I have now but...you know..haha

well, im a mixed person, italian, hispanic, and native hawaiian. im not dark but im not light either. i have been married for a little over a year now to my wife, who is of african decent. i love her dearly and my life is not complete without her. we get looks from people all the time, especially black males. i have even been sucker punched, minding my own business and holding my wifes hand. and then almost arrested for defending myself. although times now, may not have the same type of racism years ago, many people are racist and reverse racism is a problem. i can understand why many black people are mad at white people's ancestors for the many years of slavery. but almost every culture has been persecuted by another race. i mean i am native hawaiian and white people overthrew my whole country, imprisoned our queen, and tryied to destroy our culture, but i dont go around with a chip on my shoulder or anything. i feel blessed to have grown up in such a diverse setting and accept all people as being equal. a man is not measured by his color or social status, but instead by his character.

im a white/asian/indian guy, and ive only dated black women. and i can tell you, evry where you go, at least half the white guys, like black girls. but the reason most of em dont go after black girls. is due to stereotypical beliefs. so i guess you can say, they shy and and scared to an extent. especially if u in certain colleges.
but if u curious, just go up to a few and ask em what their opinion is. or, you can holla at meh, and ill help u. lol. but yea its normal. this the new generation, everyone under the age of 25, is gonna at least date one opposite cultural character. meanin white to black, etc, by the time the get old and pass away. thats how i see it tho, ya diiig.

There are definitely white men that LOVE black women. A lot of times they are intimidated or think they may be rejected because they think most black women wouldn't be interested in dating outside their race. I hope more black women will become more open-minded and see past skin color since black men sure have.

Totally normal. Why wouldn't it be. Maybe the guys don't think you are interested? Or perhaps, I know some folk prefer to date within their race, but the white guys I know are just as attracted to black as to white girls - well, as far as I know.

I can't speak for other white guys, but I was intimidated. I knew I liked black women, but do they like white guys? One day I got tired of wondering and started asking, and to my surprise, about 80%% of them were into white guys and find them very attractive. Over time, I met my wonderful fiance, who is black.

So to make a long story short, I believe white guys are just intimidated and scared to ask if that black girl they find sexy dates white guys.

I'm sorry. I wasn't even going to post because a lot of people already put in some good points. But this last comment by hazed upset me a little. The past is past. Why do you hate this generation for the things white people did a hundred years ago? Why carry your racism into today? Unless your 100 years old, you weren't even personally enslaved! Sure we need to be aware of history but only so that we don't repeat it! I can't stand racism! Boo!

I will keep this short, I am a white guy and I truly loved a black girl at one time. Her picture is in a link in my profile. There is nothing wrong with it in today's society, have fun with a white guy.

I don't see anything wrong with it. Seriously, Im a white female attracted to asian guys.

I'm a white guy who is very attracted to black women. With a black woman, I'd probably need a bit more of a sign that she was interested before I approached her, though. It's not because I'm intimidated, but because I know a lot of black girls who prefer black men over white. But if I sense that a black woman might be interested in me, I have no problem talking to her. Yes, there are differences between the races, but not as much as some people seem to believe.

As a white woman I can say that I at least don't feel annoyed or anything when I see a white guy with a black girl. I don't remember any other white girls I know saying that had a problem with it. I'm always a little surprised to see a interracial couple because you just don't see them that often but it doesn't bother me.

I am a white male college student and I am very attracted to black girls. I just sometimes get intimidated when trying to talk to them because I am unsure of their interest back.

Just created an account to tell you that white guys like black girls as much as we like asian or white girls. We don't care about skin colour when it comes to mates. And neither does black or asian men. The reason to why most of us don't show our interest is quite simple, because mostly it doesn't pay off. Black girls generally won't approve a white mans approach and that's why we are reluctant to approach her. It's the total opposite when it comes to asian girls who very much indeed approve a white mans approach. So basically what you should do to get a white mans attention is to somehow make him understand that you are approachable, if you don't he will automatically assume that you're not. That's the tricky part, but if you can get the message across then you'll see that the interest for black girls is not low in white men!

I am a white male. I've dated many races of women. I have dated almost exclusively black for the last few years. Currently I have a black girlfriend(dark complected) for about a year. She is athletic and tall and I am actually a little shorter than her but a bodybuilder with lots of tatts. We rock it! We are so attracted to eachother I don't even look at anyone else. Our sex is amazing and every time is better than the last. Sure we get some looks...some good some bad but most think we are really hot together. I think it's because we don't give a F*#$ what anyone thinks. I am pretty big, so I guess that keeps the black guys chatter down, I understand why that is a concern for some white guys. Many black guys think its ok for them to date white, but that black women can't date outside the race. Who cares what color you are. Most people will never feel passion like we have and I think it's partially because we are both so attracted to eachothers races. I actually started dating inter-racially when a black girl pursued me. Before that I never really considered it. I say, muster up some confidence and go for it. Chances are you probably won't get lucky like me and have a black girl pursue you. If you end up with half of what me and my lady have, you will never look back.

it may not be normal to certain people but i do believe it is i have always found black women beautiful, dont have to be a certain type skin color such as you hear alot white men only like light skined black girls or only dark skin etc. but personally i have always found it diffucult to talk to black women on a date level, im not affraid of them not affraid of black men its just you see how black movies and black comedians portray white men on television as this goofy ned flanders(the simpsons) type of guy and i think it sets in alot of our minds that why bother with this girl she'll turn me down. but for you as far as these white college guys that wear these clothes you mentioned i would say maybe they like black guys or other guys. look at his hair that is a sure way to tell if he is straight, straight guys dont tend to set in front of a mirror and make sure every hair is in place. i am in the navy i have friends of all colors and i will tell you the black guys are the more succesful of us with the women hispanic i believe is a close second with asian and white guys battling it out for last place. we (if straight) notice you but we prefer a noticible hint that you notice us before we encounter. black guys will just go right up and say hey lets get it on. i appolgize for my improper english and sentence run on etc. i fell asleep alot in school.

I'm the exact same way i'm in love with white men. there so hot, i'm not sure what it is but its working!!! Yes its normal but i'm not sure why they just look and do nothing, its becomes a bummer...

I'm a white man that thinks black women are beautiful, sexy creatures. Is it possible that white men are feeling inadequate because of the black male stereotype, and don't believe they can satisfy a black woman? Keep looking. You'll find a nice white gentleman to sweep you off your feet.

Id realy like to know some black girls even just to befiend,but I dont want the hassle from the brothers. I look at lovely fit black girls and wonder what a guy has to do or look like to date such beautifull chick. If you so much as just look black girl they just suck teeth. Im not bad looking and keep fit myself, But most of the black girls Ive seen are not so friendly. I think black girls dont think white guys are big enough in certain areas.

The brothers dont want black girls with white boys, So we look but dont touch

Thats a perfectley normal thing. cause for one im a white guy who is attracted to black woman. And im also not attracted to white woman what so ever. And i find it more difficult to talk to a black girl over a white girl. I think maybe they wont like me cause im white. Thats the biggest problem i have. And the other problem is getting my family to accept the girls i want to date. There not very keen on it.

As a white guy who grew up in wealthy suburbia, I was never exposed to any non-white people - bar visits to the dirty old city, or a neighbour with a dark-skinned maid. But once I reached the later stages of puberty, I started being attracted to black girls, fantasizing whenever I could get a glimpse of a pretty black girl. I have never dated or even kissed a black girl and I am now turning 30, being rather secluded in white upper middle class surroudings, from white colleges to a PhD program in which the black girls exclusively dated black guys.

Whenever I have tried to approach a black girl, it has ended in utter rejection. I went on dates, on which I was told that the girl only ever dated black guys and felt uncomfortable. I was often rejected even in the mildest approach, whereas white and asian women have approached and seduced me relentlessly for the past decade.

I am athletic with broad shoulders, a little over 6 ft, have a Princeton PhD, and am coveted by attractive white and asian girls from good backgrounds. But black girls won't even become buddies, let alone consider dating me (including one with whom I was passionately and emotionally infatuated).

It is rather depressing and I wonder whether I would even know how to pleasure a black woman, although I have supreme confidence with other women (insert penis joke). I may surmise that the barrier is rather the attitude of black women than the lack of interest of white men.

Any advice is welcome.

I feel like this I am a black woman and I date a lot of white men because its something that makes me hot about a white man because im into the whole bad boy rocker. its not all about race. I like to see a whote guy put his hands on me bc its different. Its not race its just about who they are and how they treat u. There are some bad apples like any other race. But its really hot to see a man be so strong that he will date you and defend your relationship no matter what anybody says. plus,y is it ok for a black man to date a white woman but when a black woman dates awhite man she is a sell out or doing it for money or she thinks she too good for brothers? Or she get her ass beat? Gurl have fun because rock and roll sex is hotter trust me!!!!!

I hope it's normal, otherwise white guys like me won't have the privilege to have a wonderful relationship with you! I think everyone have some kind of preference but everyone is different thank goodness.

to answer your question im sure ALL white guys are attracted to black girls in some ways..and the other question the answer is all white guys are probably intimidated by black girls in some ways. LOL..i dated a really cute black girl i met online a while back and we pretty much hit it off in the first five seconds..i recall getting a few glares/stares from black guys but i didnt care..doesnt matter what color you are..its your personality that will make u connect

I think white guys like black girls. thats just how white boys are. Im not sure why but most dont seem to approach women they dont know. I am a white girl, i see white guys checking me out but never say anything. As for black guys everytime i step out the house, i get hit on. This is probably why there are more white women dating black guys than the other way around. If a white guys checks you out, i think that his way of showing you he is interested.

We are attracted to who we are attracted to- nothing more than that. The older you get, the more you'll be attracted to mental and emotional qualities, not so much just the physical... Maybe we grow...

As far as ACTING on any of it, they WILL, if they think they have a shot. Most men do not care what color you are if they like you- it is how you act AFTER they decided they are attracted to you. ACT confident. Many of us are slightly insecure [who wouldn't be in this world?], but if you look directly AT them, smile, laugh, and treat everyone as if you were hot, they are not so important to you, and there WERE no color differences, you may find the man you are looking for is colorblind.

THINK: How did all those couples get together and get married if white men won't look at any other colors? SOME of them ARE good!!

It's normal! I'm a black girl, and I actually find white guys more attractive than black guys. For the last two years of high school I went to a majority black school, but I also went to a majority white church. So seeing the difference in personalities, I feel much more comfortable around white guys.

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White guys like black girls but are too intimidated. A black girl might have a angry black boyfriend.

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I'm in the same exact place. Except, of course, I'm a guy and i have a crush on the black girl. Now I'm not blowing my own horn, but I really think I'm a nice and handsome guy. but it always seems like she has absolutely no interest in me. I really like her and she is so beautiful and we have so much in common. i do think its normal because I'm in the same thing!

I'm a white guy who grew up in NY and lived in the traditional white middle class neighborhood. It was not until I moved to Florida and began teaching that my attitudes towards non-white women changed. I began to hang out with several black female teachers and then my focused shifted. Since then I have dated one black girl and always am looking at black girls much more than the past. I know there are people who will find problems with inter-racial couples, but I say who cares as long as you like who you are with. The greatest advice for those white guys that ARE interested is just go and talk to them, get over the whole skin color issue. If you are interesting and have that connection than it will happen. As for family members and their acceptance, it will either happen or not, they will have to live with your decisions.

Well I'm a young black female. Ive been with, mostly mixed guys. But I was with this white guy for about two years. And I am now in love with the white race. I'm still at home but when I move out on my owb in about a year. I plan on dating only white guys.. To me black guts are desent and singed are pretty fine. But white guys are soooo intresting and hot and I'm very attracted to them. I'm actually mores intemidated of them bc im more of a quite girl. I'm not at alllllll the stereotypical "black girl". The majority if my friends are white. I likr being black bc it sets me apart and I'm prety.so its col. I just wish the cuter white his would approach us black girls more and/or perfer us. (some not all)

My cousin is married to a black girl, and they have a sweet little baby girl. So I think you just have to find the right guy.

I'm like the only person who didn't write a ten paragraph comment lmao

I am black and I am attracted to white and asian guys. I like their facial features for some reason - like bone structure, eyes, asian guys are probably my favorite followed closely by white guys. Besides I want half asian-half black kids because I think that's the cutest combination ever (Tiger Woods is the exception as he's not hot, but his Dad was very unattractive - some things can't be overcome even with a hot mom)

I lived in a big city so I didn't have problems with white guys approaching me, asian guys though only approach me online.

I don't have any problem with white women dating black men because I don't own black men or anyone else for that matter.

A funny thing happened to me and my then boyfriend one summer evening though. He's white and we were walking down the street holding hands, this couple was walking towards us and the man was black and the woman was white. It usually feels good to meet another inter-racial couple so we were pretty thrilled and all of us starting smiling at each other, except for the other woman's BF, the other guy was glaring at us. The other woman and I looked at each other in surprise and puzzlement and then we just shrugged. It was quite odd.

I just though I'd say... I love black girls and i'm white. Theres just something about dark skin being more temping to me... Dunno... hmmm

I%%u2019m 41 and have always preferred black woman over others woman. during puberty I was more curious than attracted to 'em%%u2026. it was taboo, being from an old school Italian Jewish family and all, dangerous and exciting. The racial situation in my city was not the best at the time. He 5 brothers hated me, but he two older sisters would flirt like crazy with me. She loved oral sex ( can I say that here?) and said %%u2018dudes%%u2019 don%%u2019t do that to their booo(s)%%u201D anyway, I met a really dark skin Kenyan girl that was two years older than me...she was sixteen and I 14. She said "white boys know how to treat girls//"her words' not mine. We stayed together for 10 years much to the consternation of our family and friends. The contrast of color of our entwined bodies was breathtaking!

Firstly, let me say that the term 'race' is idiotic. We're all human, we all bleed red. Normal? Perfectly.
As for why they don't react the way you expect, look at the personality differences involved here.
(WARNING: This is a gross generalization. There are many exceptions)
It has been my experience that most 'black' men are ... Well... Loud. Sorry to be blunt about it. On the other hand, most 'white' men tend to lean more toward the shy end of things. (With notable exceptions to both statements)

My suggestion to you is this; Try striking up a conversation with the guys you're looking at. Ask them out. We don't live in the 50's! If they are interested, then they'll accept. If not, then whatever.

Oh: As for inter-'racial' couples: Whatever floats your boat. :)

People tend to be more attracted to those who look like them. Don't you notice how many couples look like they could be siblings?

But, if they seem uninterested in you, it's probably not your skin that's causing it.

and to answer your other question, i'm a white woman and I look at interracial relationships like any other.

i am a white male. i have dated a few black girls before. i see nothing wrong with it. in some peoples minds it is taboo they need a good slap to the face.

because I didn't want him to think something was up. I thought of Brett the whole time while he was fucking me. He came after 2 minutes and I lied to him again that I came. But my pussy was throbbing...I wanted Brett so bad!! As soon as my BF fell asleep I went room to room until I found brett naked in his bed. I spent the entire rest of the day getting ravished by this beautiful white boy. Needless to say I left my loser pot smoking BF and Brett and I have two beautiful babies today.

Hello again,

I quote

From my husband:

"Women have power, use it & dont be scared, it's not always going to work out, but it will.
Go for what you want it's very easy for a female to meet a guy-no matter the colors. Go to white bars & clubs, dance socialize & have a great time" :)

Well im white and i like black girls..But im too much of a pnk that they dot like me..I only dated one and yea...Most white men dont like to date black girls cause of their borthers nad i just tell my fiernds they are pussys but its normal..Im dating a native girl now and yea..but anywho..Its normal girl and tlak to the guys...

I personally think that some white guys are intimidated by their white friends and not the black girl's brother.Im a black girl who likes white guys more that black and im also attractive and ive been hit on by alot of white guys and black.But when i met the perfect white dude.he moved away so guess it wasnt meant to be.but some people thought that we went out and thought it was perfectly normal.

It shouldn't matter what white girls think. I'm black and I dated a white guy for over two years. Actually, he's only ever dated black girls. It's all about preference. Some guys like black girls, some don't.

I signed up just to comment on this post! So I'm a black girl as well and it just so happens I've never dated a black guy. I've always been with white guys or mixes of everything else but black or African. I think it's just because of where I grew up I live around Asian and White people! Now that I'm in college there are a lot more black guys around and they try and talk to me but I'm not that interested. However there are some cute ones.

Anyway enough about that! I think it's just the approach white guys take. They're not as forward as black men I would say. At least where I live. All the white men I ask about this say they just think we are not into them. So you should just be friends with the Ambercrombie hotties first! I say that because it sounds like you're thinking the same thing they are (they aren't into black girls vise versa). And when it does happen you will see that not everyone is as open minded as you but that will just give you and your white guy something to laugh about. =]

Well I am black girl( I am not been racist)and I was not interested in dating white guys, only black guys. But this preference of mine changed when I finally met a white guy and we became good friends. I really liked him but sadly enough he had a GF:(.I think people should be allowed to date who ever they want to date, whether black or white we are all human beings:)

Love them Fat Ass Black women. Shake your rump!!!!! Get them white boys girls. White boys love that shit!!!!! don't lie. We Blacks invented that shit, so that we black women can fuck your white men. Oh, Yeah!!!!! Its on! What you got to say about that?

Well I am a young black female and I live in London, I have always been interested in white boys and I have dated more white boys than black but it's not about colour at all. In London there are sooo many interracial couples it's really normal !
I am sure the boy will like you if you get to know him who knows :D

its normal to date someone you like so date whoever. personally i think it is wrong to date or not date someone based on the color of their skin but thats just me. as for worrying about what other ppl think dont it doesnt matter there will always be someone who doesnt like what you are doing or who u are dating. have fun interracial is fun :D

Lol!Im a black young lady and i reckon all Men(straight)are into women, period. Im finding it quiet interesting now that iv aknowledged that i like white guys, just how flirty we get, its such an adventure chatting to them and noticing that they find me just as attractive as their black counterparts, and since i stoped acting akward around them-i can tell they find my sweet charm refreshing: in turn this makes me more confident than iv ever been. Blonde, brunnettes, black hair all fall for me. im also in colledge and iv noticed that the guys here are still trying to conform so they all date white girls, however ther are exceptions. To Charlydavidson...that is exactly my problem, i find that most black girls settle when it comes to white guys, why is it so impossible for a preppy/jock blue eyed blonde guy to fall for a black girl? are they too hot for us?.. Luckily i dont settle when it comes to black guys and i refuse to start doing so when it comes to white guys and fortunately for me i dnt have a type, i just like my vanilla ;) honestly though, we are all human, im attracted to men of al races, but it seems asian men are the most reluctant to approach black girls, well-where im from....so, in conclusion, just be yourself_treat them like you would any guy, be secure and confident and i bet any man of any race would love to date you. all the best

taste is taste i'm a guy i have a spusiffic type i like my wife of 23 yers is not it but i love her with every bee of my heart i like dark skin so wht she fits me in much more profound ways don't find the white one find the writ one

As a white woman who prefers white men Ive noticed I get hit on mostly by black men and white men seem to never hit on me. I always thought it was cuz Im a full size woman but I dont know. As for u being black n likin white guys I think ur normal....and as far as black men hittin on u and white men not I cant really say. I dont wanna stereotype but I think black men are more apt to hit on women than white guys.

Wow I cant believe there are other girls who feel like I do. Its so funny I was just having this convo about 2 days ago with my brother. I'm cute black guys fall over for me but I dont like them. Never have and never will. I like the honkiest (is that a word?) white guys ever. Like Rob Zombie, Sully Erna, Brandon Boy but I'm always thinking I dont think Rob Zombie would ever ever ever ever ever date a black girl and the rest of them I mentioned. For the most part I would get stared at and thats it. I'm also really shy my brother who is in his early 30's said that the guys were probably intimidated. but why? My husband said that he always wanted to date a black girl but they just try to use him as a trick. Dont really have to much of a point but I can really relate to the question

Of course! I'm black and I've only dated white guys my whole life! Even my current bf, of a couple years, is white =D LOL!

My boyfriend is white and our daughter is half and half. It is what it is!

I have tge same issu..white guy who doesnt do anything but stare and sometimes sa hey..but whe ibhive him my number no call no show..uh men

Like most people have said already, it's normal. Oddly enough (or not considering the population of black to white is 1:5) I'm approached more by white guys than black guys, almost shamelessly at times. Other times you can tell that they're really shy or intimidated to say anything, but they never hesitate to take the opportunity to hold a door open for you as a way of showing interest. Just because they aren't approaching you does not mean that they aren't attracted to you. Smile more, it's a good way to show that you're open and friendly. Sometimes they need a bit of encouragement.

Good luck!

i feel the same way but i like white people and black people so i see girls in my school that date white guys and their black but it doesn't feel right for me but i'm attracted to them

Of course some people always have problems with black men - white female and the opposite. Especially with the fear of being used in the sense of a 'residential visa' in a country differen't from birth.

Lets ignore these fears though because technically this can happen with many different nationalities and colours. People have so many different switches that cause attraction; its normal for them and thats ok. Some white men aren't attracted to blacks, just like some aren't attracted to asians, girls with big boobs, girls with small boobs, blondes, gingers, freckles, tall, small... the list is obviously endless.

The chances are higher that [race A] is more interested in [race A] than [race B]. Why? they usually have similar characteristics and culture (my opinion). That doesn't mean tho that nobody in [race A] is attracted to [race B]. In this case just use trial and error, People are just attracted to different things, there is no answer to any group of people. Everyone is different, and you don't know until you try! You can interpret anything out of anything - doesn't mean your thinking right.

work at it

Thats totally normal! Thankfully a lot of racism has stopped now. But who knows whats wrong with these guys that don't do anything. haha Have you tried talking to them? getting to know them? There shouldn't be any problem with the color of the skin. Im hispanic and I've dated white,black,and filipino guys haha
I really don't mind the ethnicity or the color of their skin, what matters most is personality (in my opinion) There are some people out there that are against black girls with white guys or vice versa but thats just retarded. You shouln't worry about what other people think. If you like white guys then talk and make friends with some, maybe it will lead to something more :)

I like people mentionning rights hihi
Blondes! For chrissake, it's hard to date a blue-eyed blonde when you're a brown white yourself! And if you do, it's because they have no tits or what not. Set realistic goals and go for a red hair first then you can think about dating a preppy blonde.
Seriously, if a white guy is looking at you, dont get nervous and scream at him "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT?"
Dating usually works itself out, if you find yourself able to smile at someone it means they're looking at you. ;)

well Im a white female, and Im mostly (not only) but mostly attracted to black men. I always have been, I dont think there is anything wrong with it. But yes most white men might see you (or your brothers) as intimidating, if your really intersted in someone, you should ask them out, go to a movie, coffie, lunch, whatever, see how it goes. but you might be waiting a while if you wait for a man to do anything. hahaha

I'm a white guy, and I have black girl friends, but I find black girls entirely sexually unattractive. No offense, it's just my personal preference.

AH, this is intersting, too~! <3

^o^ Most asians are attracted to asians.

I for one, have absolutely no interest in white boys. I don't particualarly enjoy it here in the US. I suppose it's okay. At least it's civilized here and the living conditions are acceptable.

I'd rather move to Korea permanently, though. I find that the people are generally friendlier there.

^o^ There are many nice Americans, though!!!

But... I do wonder why you call yourselves "American"... What about Canada and South America?

:D I think I'm supposed to wish you good luck now. Good luck. :)

I'm more attracted to white guys but I like all types of men as long they are good looking and nice (yeah, I can be a bit shallow).

Most men like attractive women and the skin color doesn't matter at all. People often stick with their own ethnicity because it's the people they see more, but in the world of today it's easier to travel and meet new people. I don't find it taboo. I'm from Brazil btw.

I see that people from USA are to fixed with the race and ethnicity idea, this is not so strong in Europe and south America.

They get pregnant too fast. Some are very beautiful

The way you've been talking makes me believe you come from a place where racism is still there and/or the idea of mixed race dating could be considered taboo. Ok moving on. Im a white guy just fyi. People just have preferences and are attracted to who they are attracted to and for what ever reason. I find some black girls attractive but I don't live in an area where there is a large population. The other thing depends on a persons personality and attitude. If a black girl is really hood. Like the stereotype attitude. Im not attracted to that. It may sound like bad but Ive met a few.

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Most races aren't attractive to black women since they look ok very masculine

I am a black (bi-racial) girl and am dating a white guy. I have dated white guys before and never had any real problems. But I too have noticed that when I am seeing a white guy and I am out alone, or on-line or in any social setting that white guys definitely look my way more. It's a weird intuition I guess. I read that someone else experienced that too, I think it was a guy. Anyway, I have one concern with this particular guy. It's gotten kind of serious, the L word has already been used, and I am crazy about him, BUT I think the staring thing might bother him a little. He says he doesn't care what people think but I can tell it does bother him a tad. He has never dated a black girl before. I should say woman (we are both over 40!), so I guess he's just not used to it. Should I be concerned or should I just let it work itself out. At first we didn't talk about it AT ALL. I think we were both being very stand offish for different reasons. I got used to it a long time ago, growing up in a bi-racial family, but he certainly is not. Any thoughts??

For me I can say it is normal. I am here in Philippines, my father is black american and mom is filipina. I have some black family and friends . I am engaged now with a european guy and we are together for 3yrs now. We will get married soon this year and we love each other so much. We are very happy having each other and it never came to a point that we have a big problem on our skin color. My family don't even make any problems about it.His family and friends too were fine, I met some of his friends already and his family love me so dearly. Everything is fine and happy for us. That all that matters and when you love each other color doesn't matter.

Oh my this got a lot of comments! >_< Great to hear people care! (; <3

From where I'm standing it's kind of like we think we would have zero chance plus a little ridicule thrown our way for asking you out (I'm white). Put it to you another way: in my industry (music) I have had black band members and associated song writing friends, etc., (and BTW have black music student too) and not at one time did any of them say to me: Hey FP22, I got this black chick I want to set you up with". I did get plenty of match-making and blind-date offers from family, white friends, white business associates, etc.

So this is why I kind of won't try.

i havent really found a pretty black girl but one. she looked like a church goer. she was cute. but idk if she'd be interested in hispanics. people can b so stereotypical bout mexicans. like how they all like wearing boots, sun brerro, walking around with a churro, taco or a burrito in their hand with the other hand holding a carona or jarito

I am a black girl that has always been attracted to white men but have just been to wary to do something about it now im 22 and have a child with a black man but that relationship has died and im ready to overcome my fears i typically like the rocker type but dont kno if theyll b interested idk what to do

I'm a 22year-old South African woman, black of course. I don't think anybody should tell you if its normal or not, it just has to be okay with you and him. I've always dated whÍte guys, my family and friends know and they are cool with it. Some people do not approve, we get rude stares and racist comments. Some people are scared to date across the racial line because of our not so distant history. You have the choice to be with whoever you wanna be with, nobody has the authority to decide that for you. Its your happiness at the end of the day. White guys do love black girls, our chocolate, caramel or peaches and cream skin drives them crazy. You are not going to like every white guy, and they won't like every black girl, personality is the key. Try to strike up a conversation with a guy you are interested in and see if you gel, and maybe you could be become friends, and later something else. Just go out be yourself and have fun. Good luck

SO GLAD u posted this. If anyone can help u out with this its me. I'm a black girl that has always liked white guys. I've never even been with a black guy. I'm just not attracted to them. All the guys I've been with have been white, except 2 who were puerto rican. don't feel bad about how u feel it is in fact normal. But u have to be careful. Alot if white guys will say they wanna be with a black girl but they mean sexually. If I wanna get laid, no problem white guys are all over it but if u want a relationship its very hard to find someone genuine. It might just be me but most white guys want black girls cuz they're supposed to be "crazy in bed" but I hope u get luckier than me and find one who will appreciate u and love u for who u are.

IIN? At 34 years of age I am NOW exploring the possibility of dating outside of my ethnic group. I am what those would deem, a black hispanic ( born in America) So what? American Blanic? lol Anyway, I am considering dating Caucasian men. Surprisingly, I was raised that "White is definitely NOT right",( my mother would kill me) but I find myself attracted to Caucasian men at present. I have never dated a Caucasian man and I'm not sure how to. I am not one for approaching men in general (I'm old school), so how would a Caucasian man know that I am interested? What should I do? I need some help here!... Thank you

It's totally normal I actually have a beautiful and the greatest boyfriend ever and he's white and I am black :)
And we have been dating for 3 years now!! I love him with all my heart!

I'm a 25 y/o black woman and I agree that an attractive being is an attractive being, no matter the race. I have dated black men, white men, and spanish men. I think its perfectly normal, but with any interracial relationship you have to be ready for outside opinions, which really don't matter at the end of the day. But you should be prepared for those ppl who, for whatever reason, are more concerned with the happiness of a stranger than that of their own.

My first interracial dating experience, I was 17 and when he and I went out it was uncomfortable. My mother didn't mind, but she once asked me if I knew how his parents felt about him dating a black girl. She also warned me that others may not agree with us being together. At that age, I couldn't really deal with it all. The stares... the whispering... blatant disrespect... He and I later dated again about 5 yrs later. A little more mature, we enjoyed our time together without worrying about how anyone else felt.

We're all beautiful ppl! Now, is there a difference when dating different races? I could say that there is, but really, there are good guys and dogs in every race. But I do wonder, since I've never asked.... those of you dating black women, how does your family feel about it?

I am a black woman (36), and I love white guys. I just find it hard to locate those willing to love me back. Where do they hang out?

I think most guys like any attractive woman of any color .A lot of guys would never admit to that,but,I hear my friends comment all the time when they see an attractive black woman.

For me it has to be chemistry.Personally I've only been approached a few times from women of color.I think if more guys knew,or had a idea that a woman of color was interested in them,they would be more at ease,and it would not be an issue.

This is just my take on it,and I'm not speaking for all white guys.

I personally don't like to hear the word black,or white when talking about people,as we should look at who the person really is inside .However,I understand why you posted the way you did in order to make a point.

Best of luck to both of you as very few people find real happiness regardless of race .

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I'm white and I find that black women are sexy above the rest, I don't exactly know why but i can't argue with myself.

There is nothing wrong with interacial relationships anyone who says otherwise black or white is racist.

Hi am a black gal too n i av this strong thng for white guy's,da tin is av never dated any..so if ther's one nice white guy out ther,why not..i wud'nt mind being his first..

Im a dark skinned latina and EXCLUSIVELY date only white guys the preppy types mostly and they were shy at first but end up head over heels for me and they even start dating dark skinned girls after me lol. Which is good im bringing colors together

You're gonna have to make the first move. My white friends like black girls, but they all have black or brown hair so you wouldn't be interested lol But you probably have to make the first move. Slip a note or have your one of your girlfriends do it for you.

It just depends on what people are interested in
Guys have a type
Maybe those guys dont find black girls attractive
But yeah its normal

Oh and just to follow up on something in another comment, for me personally, the 'shade' of skin is an interesting topic. For me, I really don't find myself attracted to light-skinned black women as much-- or really light skinned white women for that matter. I prefer either medium to dark, but not really dark. But it's not a racial thing, it's just a preference. Just as I'm attracted to white women with a medium complexion, but not too dark either.

Well, I have a crush on a black chick...I'm white...blonde...but don't wear any big name brands. It's a form of brainwashing. Flannels and heavy cargo khakis with military one*stars...but it's just cuz they're too focused on themselves...

think you are completely normal. I am a black girl who finds white guys sssooooo attractive i cant stand it!! My first encounter with a white guy happened at a frat party my freshman year of college. Now keep in mind: I am a black girl from East L.A. I grew up with mostly black guys and hispanic guys in my neighborhood. That was all I knew. I just accpeted that these were the guys that I had to choose from for the rest of my life. When I was growing up, there was three of us. There was Taisha: she was a fiery black girl that lived two doors down from me. And there was Siobahn, a half black, half hispanic girl that grew up in a group home but she always managed to spend her time with us. When I was 15 I started dating and I dated a lot of black guys but I never really felt any real attraction. As young girls we made a pact that we would attend the same college. I remember it so clearly. It was my freshman year. Taisha never made it to college because she was pregnant her senior year of HS to a real asshole that eventually wound up in prison. That left me and surprisingly, Siobahn ended up right along my side at the University of Pittsburgh. Getting back to it, I had been dating a black guy because that was what i expected to do. He played football for Pitt, but he wasn't a star, he mostly rode the bench and was always smoking weed which turned me off. Anyway, we were at a frat party and it was getting late, things were winding down, the music had stopped and my BF and I had settled into a comfortable corner of a huge couch and started to fall asleep.

yeah it's normal.im not dating yet, but i've only had a crush on 1 black guy my whole life.it just happened that way.ill see a black guy and think "he's cute" but wont have any attraction,really.the guy i have a crush on now has blue eyes and blond hair,skinny and porclain skinned.2 or so inches taller than me.
i do think about what if we were dating what would people think but i decided who the heck cares?oh, and to hazed:hazed.with the damaged mind.u are no better than the kkk and hate groups because you are racist just like them.who cares about slave owners?they are dead now anyway.and i still go to school and believe me,they teach about slavery and all.you act like a calabo idiot be ashamed of yourself,hope you dont call yourself christian .i really hope you're kidding and are just trying to cause contriversy(however you spell it.).because i cant believe that someone would actually think like that.my best friend is white.