Boyfriend using dildo

well i been going out with this guy for a year. he told me that he had once fingered his own bum in an experement to see if it felt good but didnt like it when he was young. anyway i came home from work the other day and he looked smug. i later asked him what was up and he admitted to me he had used one of my old (not used any more) dildos on his own ass. he said he was watching some really kinky stright porn and thought bout experimenting. a few weeks later i asked him if he had did it again he replyed no and but then admitted that he had. i asked him if he was gay cuz of it, he says he really likes women (he does like sex) and he just is a really kinky guy and only does it while watching straight porn.is this normal

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  • DiscoDuck

    Big time normal, and big time feelin good!

    Its not a gay thing as long as you are not homophobic. Bottom line is stimulating the prostate feels good gay or not. Its just that there is only one way to it....

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    • dan122

      im straight and im really in to dildos and a girl with a stap on dildo doing me up the ass thats the best

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  • not gay whatsoever..
    its just really good getting stimulate up ur ass..haha
    i do it..
    n i'm fuckin straight!!!

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  • duckfart77

    Hmmmm, it isn't that normal only because it is considered taboo by society's standards. If you want to know the truth, the male g-spot is in his anus (prostate gland) and by stimulating it actually makes a man's orgasms 10 times stronger!!! MOST men are afraid to try this because if they end up liking it, they will be afraid of being viewed as gay or bisexual, which isn't true. To really be gay or bisexual you have to be ATTRACTED to the OTHER sex. My wife LOVES using her dildo on me and it feels great! But I'm not gay or bi.

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  • AdamAndEve

    Why not offer to do it for him while he's watching straight porn? There's nothin' wrong with a little bit of kink ;)

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  • LF4sDLX

    Help him out & don't shun him. It feels good to be penetrated (you know that) He just needed time to grow into it

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  • lk4me

    well apparently having something in a guy's ass while he's getting off enhances his orgasm. i'd say its normal.

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  • lithp

    An individual does not have to be gay in order to enjoy anal play. The fact of the matter is that, whether straight or gay, there are thousands of nerve endings which can only be stimulated through anal play. It sounds as though your boyfriend is completely straight, but has been both open-minded and lucky enough to discover something which gives him pleasure.

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  • DJBleach

    I do this too! Anal stimulation feels really nice. And no, it doesn't make you gay. Sex with another actual, living, MALE being makes you gay.
    Don't listen to the haters.

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  • TheAukwardOne

    Stimulation of the prostate can be arousing, so yeh, it's normal.

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  • Thatfeeling

    the g-spot is very pleasurable...this does not mean you want a penis rammed up your ass...itz normal...

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  • Step21

    Ask him about getting into pegging (You wear a strap on and go the other way around)
    and i am not sure it is normal.

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  • you should do it for him stick it in his arse while yous are having sex I bet youll like it too. Just how many old dildos do you have lying around would you like to sell them on Ebay

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  • PunkZombie

    He might be bi...

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  • yes this is very normal, i know a loot of my freinds who have admited that they like a dildo in their bum when their gf isnot att home

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  • ecowoman

    i dont think he is gay.mnd if i ask him 2 fuck me in the ass he does on the occation but he is normaly like but i prefere your pussy so much more to your ass.but it it normaly for strait men to use dildos in their bumm when they are by themself

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  • I think it's bullshit that he does it when he is alone watching porn. He could at least have you do it to him during sex.

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  • Bilover91

    Nothing wrong with that you should offer to help him and let him enjoy it to the fullest somebody else penetrating and fucking your ass is much better to enjoy

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  • Roundtable1

    I've done it about 10 time or less with in a month or two back in December ,I feel super ashamed after and don't feel like going even outside anywhere until I have sex with my wife but I think I can enjoy it all the time everyday but I'm too chicken now, if I didn't feel the way I do after plus i would continue.It makes me feel wrong because I have kids and I don't think I'm setting a good example as far as my morals plus I've only had one super orgasm with a beeded type dildo and holy fuck it was out of this world. Cum was coming out like urin .

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  • bbunsup

    not gay at all. unless he wants a guy to do it. Men have a prostate in them. it feels really good to get rubbed. if you milk his prostate right (google it) he will cum like a woman, bucking , moaning , longer then he's ever cum before. even with a soft dick he will come buckets. it is.. a fantastic orgasm. get a strap-on he'll cum much better if you do the work. if you guys get into it... he's a lucky man. I told my wife... and now she thinks I'm gay.

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  • Mark3L

    Yes its normal, cause im striaght and i do it

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  • Allistalla

    Dude , he took the dildo you used in your Vagina and put it up his butt ? ok really is that scanatery tell him atleast wash it .

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    • bbunsup

      rrubbers are good for that. a silicone dildo can be boiled :)

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  • jondoerandom

    Yup, normal. he's stratight.

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  • pixie_dust

    it kinda sounded weird when he specifies "straight porn" and not just say, "porn". its almost like he's defensive about it.

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  • hes a dick lover

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    • DJBleach

      Just because he likes anal stimulation doesn't make him gay. Go make better use of your time than bashing people on the internet.

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  • thebiscuit

    totally normal.... sexuality has nothing to do with wanting a dildo in your ass..... and seriously who gives... like i allways say.. if it feels good ... keep doing it

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  • Artanis186

    I remember looking up somewhere that a man's "G-Spot" Is somewhere around the inside of their arse. I think it's normal. I've not done it myself though.

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  • Lizzy__xOxo

    A guy that liked me told me that he does that... because "he's a huge freak".... I stopped talking to him.

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