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Heres a new poll poeple , its a decision do you think boys or girls are more munipulative . Girls you always saw that player that scored on all the ladies right? Boys and Girls may have seen that one Queen backstabber that is out to screw up everyones life within range . So lets have a poll who you think makes a better con or in which gender do you think their is more cons in your chioce have fun .
| Boys | 22 | |
| Girls | 95 |
There is no "which gender is more manipulative", humanity in itself is manipulative.
boys,when they r in puberty,most of em dont say that they jus want sex but also say they want love
I'm going to have to say women are more likely to be manipulative but men are far more better at it.
When you think about a woman manipulating someone, it's always a man, and that is simply because of the whole sex manipulation thing.
Men manipulate people to do far larger things, they also make the person being manipulated think it's the right thing to do. Charlie Manson for example, and that guy with the cool-aid.
This.
I was surprised that you didn't get more thumbs up this time.
Though, women do manipulate other women frequently. Usually when they want their man.
Maybe the man should go out a find a woman that will not manipulate him, rather than subjecting himself to the manipulation of a woman that is obviously not nearly the adult required to solve one's problems without having to use their vagina as a hostage and leverage.
If a man can not identify that a woman that withholds affection rather than growing up and solving a problem is obviously not a worthy wife, mother or companion, then I fault none but his own judgement. If a woman can see men as disposable and a woman is willing to "dump his ass" for any reason of her own, a man should be able to "dump her ass" and shop for a new model if the woman he is with insists on childish behavior.
In case you have not noticed, men also have power and free will and feet that can walk away. To allow oneself to be manipulated by one's own primal urges are a weakness, not one that I pity anyone for having. Especially if they have a right hand. Mine has served me pretty well over the years.
Equality. Men have the ability to take power and control over their relationships. If you want to talk about male empowerment, talk about what they should do for themselves, not what women need to quit doing to them as the focal point of your argument here.
@OP if you may have noticed, I edited this quite a bit as I am having trouble with my typing and articulation tonight. Pay no heed. This is probably not relevant to the argument at all. I just feel that the concept that "manipulation" in the form of sex even being plausible as a one-sided deal is not entirely valid.
I still agree with you, ItDuz, although I don't think that introducing the concept of sexual manipulation was too good of a representation of female manipulation, so much as it is exploitation of male weakness and lack of proper reasoning skills and does not contribute to your cause.
I do hope you have resigned yourself to the fact that this discussion will almost certainly go nowhere.
You say this assuming that poeple know when they are being munipulated this is not always the case . The key to most poeple when they munipulate others is to not let them know that you are doing it and sometimes if someone is doing this and you can tell you will not always be able to stop it or get out of it . You do not give the munipulator enough credit you act like its a thing you can control you miss the piont of munipulation . You ovbiously have never encountered one of these poeple often when they do this you do not realize they are doing it and if they are good enough and you are able to catch it you still might now be able to get out . You apperently do not know what a mindgame is or how it works and you do not understand human behavior at all .
Of course the possibility that some of us are not stupid enough to keep from putting ourselves in a situation in which our needs would be use against us by someone that is morally corrupt for the purpose of gain, unless we're talking about manipulation on a societal level.
Introspection and analysis of the situation that one is in often remedies the act of manipulation, as well as capacity to make one's own decisions. Unless of course, you refute humanity's ability take such power into their own hands. If that is the case, my pity is yours.
Yep, it happens when someone doesn't go along with the "I see every girl as a powerful, unstopable princess, the best of humanity" view.
Quite saddening, most of them let their emotion lead them rather than logic. I'd take a thumbs down from an emotional crowd than rather be part of the crowd thumbing something completely logical just because I said women weren't the best at being in control of others.
Shactees, the third sex. They're so cunning and intelligent we still can't pick them up on our societal Radar.
Equal; it's human nature.
I've seen just as many manipulative men as women.
some guys may lie in a relationship to make you believe that you are their special loved one ... but a lot of girls lie, fake emotions, use sex, and all kinds of tools to manipulate people into getting what they want
I voted guys to even the score a little. Nobody deserves to be annihilated, here.
It has not to do with gender or sex. Everyone manipulates some one at some point. Some people are just better at it and/or do it more often, in their advantage. And manipulation is sometimes for the better good.
I have to go with both. I think having a manipulative personality isn't dependent on sex, but just your actual personality.
I have met manipulative men, as in them pretending to love me to get sex out of me. I have met manipulative women who pretend to be friends with other women just to bring their status down as queen bee etc.
I've seen more manipulative girls than boys and usually it's a guy being manipulated.
That's just from my experiences, though.
Both are equally manipulative. But not all manipulation is bad. You can manipulate a situation to gain adavantages for others, not just yourself. It's just usually looked at in a negative context. But take a surprise party, for example. You have to manipulate people to pull one off successfully. And they usually aren't for evil reasons. Any type of group organizing is manipulation. Whether you are organizing soldiers, animal lovers, cancer survivors, children, or your neighbors, it is what you do with that power that is important. Are men or women more likely to use that power to cause negative reactions? It does not matter.
OP, are you trying to manipulate us into another battle of the sexes? What do you hope to gain with this type of question?
Also it makes it harder when you dont have a copout awnser it forces you to think I do not want a war of the sexes . I wanted to force poeple to think and anyone else would have to comment this aswell creates a conflict so they can not just say both and have to justify why they picked what they pick as in these kindve things . I was cosidering putting both and im like nah .
That is very true good piont. Oh no I had another piont I thought if I had a both that I will not see what poeple thought I wanted to see if poeple had to pick a side which would they pick . This gives me imformation as who has been hurt in the past and what poeple have pbserved also it forces the poeple who believe both to comment so I get more comments on my thread I auctully pulled a trick of my own . So I didnt bother adding a both option I also figured that 90 percent would pick one or the other becuase poeple tend to be biest so Im did not think anyone would auctully put both and the poeple who put both would be forced into commenting either way I accomplished my goal .
so that charlie manson may not have been a geniues but the kids he captured were stupid and thought dating a man over 20 years older than them selves with a great Idea becuase children are insane i do not understand teenagers and this is becoming the norm for so man teenagers I have no idea why and i would be thier watching all my freinds be taken away or something bad happen as they told me about thier wonderful lovers over 20 years older and to them it seemed fantastic . I never understude the allure but to highschoolers its very common . I hated highschool and would watch this happen every day I lost many of my freinds to this kindve situation and they never listen to anyone who gos against it.
Listen:
Please stop typing so quickly.
Please use spellcheck. I literally cannot read half of your comments because they are loaded with so many spelling and grammar errors.
Please stop making so many stories. There is absolutely no need to post so many, especially when they're about incredibly small things. You don't need to make a post about girl scout cookies raising their price. You don't need to make a post about how addicted you are to this website. You don't need to make a post about how Meg looked cool when she "went lez".
Just calm down. Half of us fucking hate you already, including me.
Oh I dont know anymore its not important . to some it up im saying tteenagers are becoming more and more self destructive and I was too lazy to add a both option becuase it was more fun seeing which side you guys pick and making it equal is no fun " . So thier i shortened it that is all i was saying . In a nutshell flutterhigh .
I'm gonna say boys, judging by my own observation. I just see more players than "queen backstabbers." Yeah there are girls that are manipulative bitches but they tend to be a only a few women that just get around a lot.
I'm gonna go with Girls.
My brother is the most manipulative guy I know and he's totally being manipulated/played by a girl. (...and no, He won't listen to me when I tell him.)
If a girl can take down the master himself, she must be better at it.
Should I even add another "both" comment?
It's not the criterion for the "battle of the sexes", since it really depends on the person.