But what about the asexuals?

This post was not intended to offend. Just to learn and so that we can all be informative.

I am asexual and I have strange urges and desires. 4
Fuck off with your urges and desires. 4
This poll is deeply offensive to my Highly Sensitive Person empathy levels. 2
I am asexual. What are urges and desires? 4
What is an asexual? 2
Asexuals are infantile and need to grow up. 3
Asexuals are in need of a good spanking session. 0
Why is this poll so gross? Why aren't there any warnings???? 2
I wish I was asexual. It would make life so much easier. Not having to deal with urges and desires. 4
I like sex and I'm asexual. 2
Can these people with their made-up sexualities fuck off and stop taking up space in LGBT? 4
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  • Ligeia

    "Can these people with their made-up sexualities (and genders) fuck off and stop taking up space in LGB?"
    Fixed it

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  • litelander8

    Not you trying to sexualize asexuals. Lol.

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet

    Preach.

    "i'M aSeXuAl BuT i LiKe TaKiNg DiCk/SmAsHiNg ChEeKs & mAsTuRbAtInG"

    Get The FUCK Out Of Here You Attention Seeking Clout Whore.

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  • YE

    Okay, I'm turned on by flowers in bloom but I don't want to pollinate them. Is that informative enough?

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  • Tinybird

    Asexuality is the absence of crushes or "couple" type attraction to others.

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  • PurpleHoneycomb

    A friend of mine is asexual. She has a kid with her boyfriend, so she's obviously not REPULSED by sex. She just doesn't like it.

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  • Grunewald

    Life would be easier in some ways if I was ace. My ears are open to learn more.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    How are we defining “strange urges and desires”?

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  • Wow3986

    A lot of people use that label to try to seem different from everyone else. That's why there are so many "asexuals" that claim that label then proceed to talk about their kinks and how they like getting dick slapped in the bedroom.

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  • Holzman_67

    There just wasn’t an option that spoke to me

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  • Wow3986

    This post is clearly meant to mock asexuals. OP, there's a spot in hell for bastards like you. Seek help immediately!! What's wrong with you people?

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  • LloydAsher

    I dont care, been on a bender without my testasterone and I can see the lifestyle of an asexual. 99% the same, just dont enjoy sex.

    Now do they need a stripe on that ghastly pride flag? Probably not, same for intersex, africans, sex workers, pan etc. The original 4 I guess was catchy enough.

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    • Ligeia

      What original 4, it used to be LGB...

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      • LloydAsher

        The T adds a nice ring to it

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    • ibrokemyds

      oh god, the rainbow flag gets worse every time i see it. first the black and brown stripes (since being black is a sexuality now i guess) and then that huge triangle. who knows what they're gonna add next.

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    • playklax

      Seriously though, there already is a color on there for asexuals, it's the gray one. Gray encompasses a few sexualities, like Demisexual, etc.
      But I do agree the original 4 was fine. It's getting too crazy.

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      • LloydAsher

        Grey is a perfect color for asexuals.

        Sex?

        Eh? No thanks.

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    • Wow3986

      So basically you're an acephobe?

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      • LloydAsher

        Seeing how the first 2 sentences related to my own experience and thus understanding of asexuals I think not.

        I'm intersex and I hate that stripe on the pride flag. No one asked, it was assumed we were a monolith. I'm here on IIN to wholly disagree with the notion that a physical condition warrants to have a spot on an originally sexual orientation flag.

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        • Wow3986

          So you hate yourself and intersex people along with asexual people?

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          • LloydAsher

            I love myself unlike yourself that has to hate your world.

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            • Wow3986

              Then why do you hate intersex people? And I guess you're invalidating my trauma smdh.

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  • Wow3986

    I have no idea what you're talking about. You're crazy.

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  • bbrown95

    I've never had any sexual urges or desires. Like Lloyd described his experience, my life is pretty normal other than that I just have no interest in sex and never have. I don't feel it's a big deal, really.

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  • RoyyRogers

    I am Asexual. I have desires outside that which are considered mainstream or vanilla.

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    • playklax

      Me too. :) I've only told 1 close person about them, and he agrees that they're out there.

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  • kikilizzo

    I have regular urges because i'm a human being and that's how a healthy body works, however I have no desire to act upon them and they are only annoying and stressful to me. To people who thinks being ace would be nice though it isn't. Imagine falling in love with people experiencing romantic attraction and a desire for exclusively sharing your life with a specific person, and they leave because sex won't be part of the equation or would only happen rarely because you are doing the partner a favour but not actually desiring it. Not an easy life. Sure there are other asexuals but they aren't easy to find, and rarely are they on dating apps since dating apps are typically associated with hookups.

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