Calling people racist
I hear people say you're racist sometimes like its a big insult to be labeled that by some random person (almost ALWAYS a white person saying it). At the end of the day I dont care if someome thinks I am racist. Because I probably do have some racist views. But I'm ok with myself because I know I treat people with respect. If some black man is respectful to me I'm respectful to him. It doesnt mean I would want my daughter to have children with his children. But I would not treat someone unfairly.
I talk politics quite a bit with other people and also black people in person or on the internet. And it makes them have a level of respect when I keep it real with my opinions and not try to be fake. It even makes people open up with something like "yeah I wouldnt want my children marrying whites either, and I wouldnt want to live in a white neighborhood". You can still be friends with black people and have these views. And they will usually respect your views. And they will agree with you on a lot more than you'd think.