Can i find a girlfriend if i wasn’t born funny?

I have Asperger’s and humor doesn’t make sense to me or help me cope. I like being analytical and discussing facts and statistics.

Some people are attracted to those who are charming and witty. I don’t know why that puts people as ease because it just doesn’t come natural to me.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Find a woman who doesn’t care about a man being funny so much, I’ve seen plenty of older couples where the husband is serious and analytical (normally works as an engineer or something) and the wife is more artistic/bubbly and it works for them.

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    • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

      100%

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  • KacyWatson

    Being a comedian is a gifted talent but is not an intentional to find love. Women value men that properly respect them for who they are regardless of the man is a comedian or not.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    Ive met some really hot autistic girls. 50% of ppl are girls so theres gonna be some weird chics too. You'll find a girl like that for sure.

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  • Tommythecaty

    I am pretty quick with a joke and good at improv in person, but I am a humourless void of charcoal black filth on the inside.

    So anything is possible, you don’t have to be born funny, one can work on developing a sense of humour.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    im charmin and witty but everyone hates me

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    • litelander8

      I don’t hate you.

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      • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

        maybe you would if you got to know me

        ive noticed the pattern

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        • litelander8

          I suffer from the same affliction. So I can see the possibility. But I doubt it.

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    • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

      Bahahaha i think im funny too. My problem is no one else does.

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      • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

        it comes down to a combinationa joe pesci 'am i a clown' syndrome and people bein mad about bein made fun of by a better intellect

        ive gotten through lotsa difficult management jobs by bein the superior comedian with the cuttin comebacks and clever observations but it does piss people off at some point

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        • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

          Theres a fine line there with that. There's a manager at my work who has all these academic accomplishments like full ride scholarship to Vanderbilt where he got his masters and the guy is just a prick. He thinks he's God's gift to man because he's smart but he borders on being a bully. He always makes these passive aggressive comments and throwing shade at people under him. So yeah, havin witty humor is fun but if you use it to bully people that could be fucked up. Not saying thats what you do idk but I kno a guy who does.

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