Can i have sex?

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I'm a female, I'm 20 years old, and I have always been a sexual person. I feel like it's natural, but some of my friends tell me that it's a sin to have sex or to do sexual things. But I don't want to touch myself and I feel like there's a reason I have "sexual" feelings. Anyway, my question is, is it wrong to have sex, or do sexual things? Is it a normal thing to do or should I stay away from my sexual feelings??

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Based on 19 votes (14 yes)
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  • cheapeskater
    14 years ago

    It is very much a sin. Humans are not like other animals. We are not meant to reproduce. We are meant to follow whatever God tells us to do. Do not touch yourself. If touching your nose felt good, then you should not do that. Touching is pleasure. Please=God doesn't like. God doesn't like=sin.
    (sarcasm)

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    What are you asking our permission for? Just be sure to use a condom.

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  • Aleks85
    12 years ago

    You can have sex with me.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    Touch yourself. Watch porn. Explore your interests. Have safe sexual encounters. Dont listen to people who tell you that your body is sinful, love yourself. There is no reason to fear that which is natural.

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  • jamesmitchell29486
    12 years ago

    if you can find a fellow human that wants to fuck you LET THEM I don't care if it's a fat ugly old guy he just might be good in bed so try it if I were a woman I'd fuck anyone and hell even asa guy I have VERY low standards for women and admitidly high standards for guys but I am an = oppurtunity kind of guy.

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  • freethinkerguy
    14 years ago

    To the original poster:

    Learn to explore your own body, to find out what pleases you and what doesn't. This will be important later on when you become involved with others ... you will have confidence and knowledge of your own body and will be able to share that with your partner (... people vary and your partner(s) won't be mind readers). Be cautious, use protection and don't take risks you're not comfortable with.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Most people who are active in a particular religion get the difference between and make choices around the edicts and propaganda of that institution, their own spiritual life, and their personal lives.

    I think you are basically talking about masturbation. You think sexual feelings are normal. I agree. A few of your friends think its a sin? I don't. But if it is, they are sinning like crazy. Guaranteed.

    You do have to trust your intuitions and intelligence as a modern woman. And do be careful what friends you get advice from. If you are thinking of sex with a partner, do see a health care provider first (a nurse or doctor) about birth control, sexual and relationship health. Its your body and life. Look after it.

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  • buriedalive
    15 years ago

    Whether you view it as wrong or not depends on whether you are religious. Most mainstream religions officially look down on any sex outside marriage (though the minority adhere strictly to the rules). If you're not, then don't worry about it.

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    • Chronostriggers
      14 years ago

      ... you are a sexual person for a reason.. its human nature to want to reproduce... wanting sex is being human... if you want it... go get it... (and think about this... religion may tell you that sex is bad outside marriage... and non-straight sex is sinfull.... but think of what the people who are preaching this have been doing... i hear about pedophile priests all the time, and priests who were caught in affairs, or who bought gay hookers)... if you want sex, have sex... just make sure its safe.

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  • Alaskaraven
    14 years ago

    Whether or not you have religious convictions that tell you it is OK or wrong, take some facts into account:

    * 1 in 3 sexually active ppl in the U.S. have or get herpes every year.
    * There are MANY STD'S and no one seems to be talking about them, or acting like they even affect you.
    * HIV & aids are FAR from eradicated, but it's not the hot news item it used to be, so it's ignored
    * Condoms do not protect against everything, and they are RARELY used 100%% of the time.
    * Loads of premarital sex will seriously screw with your head, causing trust issues that will last a lifetime.
    * NO ONE thinks they will get pregnant, or be dumped for getting pregnant, and have to raise a child alone, with little money.

    Sex is OK, but the Bible says it should be between a man and a wife, so if your friends and you have religious issues, you will suffer emotionally for going against your beliefs.

    Also hard to find a man that may take your feelings into consideration if this is a serious issue for you. Most just want sex, unless you can find that rare boyfriend that loves you, and takes it slow enough to alleviate any guilt you may have.

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