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I love my boyfriend and I'm really trying to make it work.However,am starting to feel like it can't.We both have different values.He is willing to do anything for money and I just feel like I don't know him at all.Am so worried bc maybe I've trying to build a relationship with someone who is maybe not the one for me.I mean we have different values and staff.Am so confused.
Girl you need to leave and find a man that on the same page as you. This dude is a waste and maybe drug dealer, once you start it's hard to get out!!!!
What do you mean when you say he is willing to do anything for money? Is he dealing drugs, pimping you out for sex, mugging old ladies? Or is he just a hard worker that puts in a lot of hours in a job many people would refuse?
He told me he is thinking of starting to sell drugs and as much as I tried to change his mind about it,he said that a man got to do what he wants.That's just but a few of the areas we differ in opinion.
Unless he's planning on opening a Marijuana dispensary, get the Hell away from this dude!
It sounds to me like ya'll are straight up incompatible. What are some of the other things you two don't see eye to eye on, OP? How to you guys line up on morals, values, politics and religion?
I think you should dump this guy.
Sounds to me like you should get as far away from him as possible and stay away. Good luck x
It is common for partners' to have different career goals and is often the reason they split up.
Relationships are extremely hard and you're never going to find someone that is perfect. That being said. You have to see eye to eye on the basics with your partner to even have a chance. If your morals don't match, you're starting behind the eight ball. Good luck.
I dated a guy like that once. Didn't work.
He was obsessed with making as much money as possible even though it had already wore him out once.
I find I much rather even be with someone who has shit-economy but shares my values and makes me happy.
It's always unlikely to work out when you don't share the same values as your partner. Something like values is one of the basic things you need to share for it to work longterm.