Can sexuality change all of a sudden?

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I'm a female and I've always liked men. I've never had a crush on a woman, in real life nor fictional/celebrity. I have questioned my sexuality before (not because I felt attraction to women, just because I felt like it), and when I did I came to the conclusion that I didn't like girls, romantically nor sexually, and the thought of a relationship with a woman didn't make me feel anything. It has been like this since yesterday, when I casually thought about dating a girl, and for some reason I felt comfortable and warmth in my heart. The point is that I don't actually like women, I never did. I don't feel like I could actually love a girl, I just like the thought of a relationship with one. It was very sudden and I never felt this way.
When it comes to men, it's different. I can like them and have crushes on them, I'm sexually attracted to them, but the thought of being in a relationship with a man has always made me feel weird. It may be just insecurity, or anxiety, but I definetly do like guys. Why do I have this feeling? Did my sexuality change out of nowhere?

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  • olderdude-xx
    1 year ago

    Your base sexuality can only change suddenly if there is major brain damage. Otherwise its a slow gradual change, if at all.

    However, there are many sexualities other than pure heterosexual or homosexual. At least 20% of people are some form of bisexual. If you are bisexual; but only every did things with one sex... It is possible for you to be attracted to someone of the other sex which would be a sudden change in how you express your sexuality.

    I suggest that you read up on the different kinds of sexuality.... That is likely where you will find the answers that fit what you are experiencing.

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  • Yurngur
    1 year ago

    I hope not because I love being asexual but I think it can change.

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    • RoseIsabella
      1 year ago

      Sometimes I kinda wish I was asexual.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    Yes it can. Sexuality isnt this sacred thing libtards believe it is. Human sexuality is very strange. Something as small as seeing a girl you have a crush on popping a squat can give you a piss fetish your entire life. The way our brains work is weird when it comes to sex. Maybe you saw something that peaked your interest and now its all changed.

    This is why I make sure I never go down certain rabbit holes when it comes to fetishes and shit. Some doors are better left closed. Because you would be surprised what you could end up finding hot.

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    • Clunk42
      1 year ago

      This is very true, and ended with very good advice.

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  • Naughty4bbc
    1 year ago

    Your mind trying to tell you to experiment and try new things

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  • kelili
    1 year ago

    It's just a fantasy.

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  • Tommythecaty
    1 year ago

    No, it is one of the most fixed things about a person.

    People can distort their thinking through illness or even straight lie to themselves, but it does not change a bit.

    When you see people confused about sexuality you will 100 percent of the time notice mental illness in other areas going on. Never met a “confused” person who wasn’t clearly troubled in multiple other ways.

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  • jackstormwater
    1 year ago

    I never understood why some people think it’s in unchangeable. Can a person’s taste in food change? Can a person’s taste in music change? Can a person’s taste in fashion change? We all know and accept this happens all the time. What makes sexual tastes different?

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  • Curiouskitten444
    1 year ago

    Maybe you're demi sexual

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    Have you had any recent bad experiences that may have shaped your feelings perhaps?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      Nope, nothing happened

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  • DADNSCAL
    1 year ago

    Nothing happens all of a sudden, but sexuality can change. I went from str8 to bi to gay before I settled on bimarried. My wife knows and accepts me.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      I know, but it has change gradually, right? For me I feel like this was a very sudden thing, and it's making me feel awful, so I don't think it's normal

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety
    1 year ago

    No, it can't.

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