Can you date a girl with a slutty past?

beats a girl with a slutty present

I wouldn’t care, to me what is more important is someone’s loyalty. If she was known to cheat during a relationship then yeah, be wary. But she is single so she can do whatever she wants. Also, just because she was caught with those two, doesn’t mean she has a slutty past. That’s just slut shaming dude. Threesomes are a thing just because someone is a part of it doesn’t mean they are a slut.

As someone who has hooked up outside of a monogamous relationship, you can be a "slut" and like hookups and desire monogamy with the right person. I slept with maybe 30 people before I met my girlfriend. I've slept with one person since we started dating, and it's her. Just because something is one way one time doesn't mean it'll always be that way.

It seems ridiculous that you wouldn't pursue something with a person that you really like just because someone told you they saw them having a 3 way. But it sounds like it really bothers you for some reason, so maybe it is best to just stay away.

I have learned to be very cautious about gossip. Unless you saw something with your own eyes I would always consider it to be possibly untrue, exaggerated, and definitely only half the story. You have no idea what really happened, or why it happened. Even if it did happen how they said, for all you know she could have been drugged, she could have been going through a bad time, she could have been forced/blackmailed, she could be being abused by her dad and not known how to cope, she could be secretly gay and desperate to hide it, she could just be super horny. Who knows. Only she really knows the full story.

I definitely wouldn't use secondhand information as a reason not to be with someone who I really liked, without at least asking them for their side of the story first.

Sounds a little too recent to be the past.

Not normal, I would recommend that you don't date someone who is or was associated with sluts.

Date them at your own risk.

I am no means condoning that you do this.

Everyone lies about sex; it's only human nature. So is hooking up. Look for qualities of good judgement that the girl has in other areas.

No.

I am more attracted to the slutty girls personally. I find them more fun, more adventurous. I've dated those proper girls, the christian type. And alot of them are just plain boring. They say no to everything. If good sex is important to you then try it out. If it doesnt work who gives a shit, you had good sex with her. You cant lose.

Imma give you the fastest way to figure it out yourself if you're ok with it, ready? If she's as slutty as you say just sleep with her. If you still feel the same love after then go for it. If your feelings are gone you're just horny or if your feelings of doubt are still there then it's probably not the right person for you. done

yes I love sluts

Yep, my past is no different so why not. Some of the best chicks you’ll meet have pasts like that.

If that turns you off you can't like her that much. You should see someone else.

If you're too much of a prude to accept what she did, then it's pretty damn obvious you should keep your distance. And the same applies if, as I suspect, you're at that age when what others think and say about you and the girls you're dating is hugely important to you due to your basic insecurity.

What a person does once while under the influence of alcohol does not define who that person truly is. However, you calling a girl a slut because of an event you only know about because of what others claimed they saw makes it pretty damn clear what sort of a person you are.

I strongly suspect she'll be better off if you're not any more a part of her life than you already are.

maybe you feel intimidated and inadequate in regards to da size of yo dick. you know she a hoe and feel scared coz yo dick don't measure up to others and subconsciously it makes you feel like you can't satisfy dat pussy

Why not? People change... She may well be looking for a better life - and you can offer her that.