Christians are the nicest people i've met

I see a lot of hate for christians online. I understand, they can be pushy and weird. but is it normal I don't mind them?
most of the girls who have been my friends (I'm a girl too, but seem to have trouble befriending girls) have been brought up christian. they weren't super religious or anything, but it was definitely in their family. Pretty much everyone I meet who's decent, turns out to be some kind of christian.
They often come up to me at university to talk about their religion. My first thought is something like, 'awh jeez, not interested'. but I can't say no to nice people, so I just humor them.
I have no religion myself, I don't think I ever will, it's not for me. i guess i would be best classified as agnostic. but I don't have a problem with any religion like many atheists do (seems it's really just christianity they hate, which I think is hypocritical and unfair).
is it normal I like christians and I'm not one?

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  • BloodRedAndTrue

    theres always a bad bunch of every kind of people

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    • Totally true, there are bad people in every sect. People should never believe someone is good or bad based on their belief system.

      However, I do get sick of all the religion bashing. There's no basis to calling it evil anymore, we aren't in the dark ages. There are no Christian holy wars. Look around, bad people in every sect, but the main group of people I see doing bad shit are Atheist (no offense to good Atheists).

      Atheists started out fine and now just regurgitate the same mindless rhetoric as Christians, just the totally opposite version. It's the reason I'm no longer Atheist myself, I was like "fucking hell most of these people are morons. So why am I with them, I'm smarter than this" and I changed. They are the ones who constantly preach and get in your face over religion, not the religious! Alot of Atheists have actually become mirrors of what they claim to hate.

      In my life I've had one Christian try to convert me, and when I said no he couldn't have been nicer about it. I've had a hundred Atheists preaching, abusing and getting all worked up at me just for saying I don't believe in either sect.

      It's so hilariously contradictive.

      Agnostic or die. Don't stand on either side of the fence because you'll start to mirror the other side, it's human nature.

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      • Awesome!

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        • What's awesome Mr Pen?!?!

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          • well..uh... you see...
            (sigh)...nevermind.

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            • *blinks

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      • RoseIsabella

        Meow!

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        • Meooooooows.

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  • Short4Words

    It's nice to know we haven't completely failed, thanks.

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  • disthing

    "IIN I don't mind them?"

    Yeah.

    "IIN I like christians and I'm not one?"

    Also yeah.

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  • Louisalice

    The fact is that Christians are simply human, just like anyone else.

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  • pacinoharmon

    There's a difference between Christians and hypocritical "Christians" like the Westboro Church for example. I don't agree with a bloody thing they say.

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  • Legion

    unfortunately, every religion, political group, fandom, etc has its share of bigots and ignorant assholes. It just seems more apparent in groups that try hard to keep a loving and open image.

    there was a guy that got into a rant with me about how chevy trucks are the best.
    (the dodge hat i was wearing must have triggered it.)

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  • Goomats

    I am glad someone noticed that a lot of Christians aren't jerks. :-D

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  • crion

    Some Christians are nice people. Others are psychotic fucking fundie whack jobs. You're talking about a group that, loosely defined, comprises well over 1,000,000,000 people. You'd be hard pressed to find anything universal in that kind of demographic. Don't worry, sooner or later you'll find one who won't shut up about how you're going to simultaneously rot and burn in hell.

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    • well, I never!

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  • Terence_the_viking

    I'm glad you have found good firends everyone should have good friends.

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  • I beg to differ. They give me nightmares.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    They're nice so long as you're on their side. Wait till you start banging before marriage, drinking, gambling, gluttonising, sodomising, advocating for gay marriage. Oh man, just wait for the self righteous supercilious cunts to crawl out of the woodwork.

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    • :-( ...not cool!

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  • Sweetbird

    I think this question depends on how closely your lifestyle resembles the lifestyle of these Christians. You say they are your friends, but if they are your true friends, you probably have a lot in common. I think pro choice people, gay people, and people with wild lifestyles find them a little more unpleasant to be around, if only because they must always be wrong, or they get nagged about their own choices. Birds of a feather.....

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    Shocking to find something positive on this website.

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  • thesmokingun

    Hint: no cop out comments, please

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  • lol..underneath the title we are still people

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  • Avant-Garde

    It's normal and very nice they you have been able to find good people of that faith. I've tried finding nice Christian folk, but most of my search has been like trying to find a needle in a haystack. :/ Some have been very nice, others have appeared to be nice when really they weren't, while others still were batshit crazy. What we all should remember is that good and bad exists everywhere regardless of a person's belief stance.

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  • Yeah, all of us aren't like that.
    (Although I can be a jerk when someone heartlessly steps on my beliefs or someone else's, even if it was a Christian being cruel to an atheist.)

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  • KiddKoolJoe

    A religion doesn't mean you're a certain kind of person, it's the same with different races. As I have met some Christians who have been total @$$h01es.

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  • TheLogicalSkeptic1

    I'd be more hard pressed to believe that good people gravitate to Christianity because it's usually considered a thing for caring people to be a part of. To be honest I've met very few other atheists(my best friend is one of the few), and I've met many Christians whom either refrain from talking about their religion or try to shove it down my throat. They're a mixed bag.

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  • sega31098

    I have to agree. True Christians tend to be the nicest.

    Botched Christians frequently tend to be one of the worst.

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  • mountain-high

    I think you're right when you say Atheists just hate christians. These are the first people to talk about others being intolerant and narrow minded when in all honesty is they that are filled with hate and intolerance. Atheists will listen intently and respectfully if someone is talking about some pagan idol worship but just mention the word christian and they fly into a rage. Very very hypocritical if you ask me, because they have a deep hate inside them.
    Having a faith in God for me is a very personal matter but for some they want or need to talk about it. It is very open minded and mature of you to listen to those people.

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  • filiasan

    People will be nice to like-minded people. Even when I was a Christian, the best I got out of other Christians was dismissive.

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  • KatieLiz

    Here to say that just because people seem nice doesn't mean they are. I met a lot of happy happy smiley smiley Christians at Uni, and a fair few of them turned out to be bigoted and became hostile towards me once they realised I was an atheist, but hey, they did it with a smile!
    (Also just saying that I don't hate religious people, and some of the Christians I met we're in fact lovely)

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Once I was walking down the street and this older woman passed by and asked me if I'd heard about Jesus. I hesitantly told her yes and she kept walking past. That's the kind of christian I like. Although I'm not sure if I heard the same thing about Jesus that she had.. I guess I'll never know...

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  • thegypsysailor

    "Pretty much everyone I meet who's decent, turns out to be some kind of christian." That's kinda like saying that Hitler was a pretty decent guy, personally.
    Historically Christians have been responsible for some of the most horrifying atrocities; the Crusades and the Spanish Inquisition, just to name two. Even today, the church tries it's best to protect their child molesters (priests)who purport to be "men of god".
    These people are not nice because they are Christians, they are nice in spite of it. Don't be fooled, it is not a kind religion to those who are not Christians.

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    • Actually, hitler was a pretty decent guy personally. Maybe I just can't hate anyone.

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      • Riddler

        The reason Christianity is hated right now is nothing the Christians did. Its the fact that its "Uncool" to be christian and most of the people hating on them are attempting to be cool. Now aside from churches like "West borough" which has shown to turn their back on people on their side most Christians are not insane, extreme fanatics as people attempt to portray them that do not believe in Science or reason.

        I also don't think all people who are Christian necessarily believe every part of the teachings but agree with some of the morals or just enjoying the church environment and sense of community. I have also heard of people who are atheist going to church simply because they enjoyed the environment.

        Before being Christian was popular and now being Christian is unpopular. So everyone is taking a whack at the Christians so they can be the cool kid. This type of immaturity seems to be common in society and its really quite irritating.

        No one is cool for being Christian, Atheist, Democrat, Republican, Gay, Straight or Bisexual, black, white, Hispanic or Asian. People need to learn to be fucking adults for once and stop acting like they are COOL for insignificant differences.

        Stereotypes are often not true and are often formed and pushed to people out of ignorance. This can happen to any group and it happens a lot. So don't believe everything you hear. Its just stereotypes and anyone who only judges on stereotypes are idiots. Not all Gays are demons from Hell either and all women are not idiots. Most of these stereotypes intelligent people eventually realize are untrue but the ignorant in society will gladly push them.

        The thing a lot of people seem to complain about generally at the worst is them going door to door. Which really all you have to do is say no. Its not like they are selling crack for fuck sake.

        That or something they did way back in history like in the middle ages. If you want to judge Christians on the Salem witch trials than really you are saying all current Germans are Nazi. Which is not fair since the Germans now cant change anything that happened before they were born.

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  • Erik963

    They are worthless sons 'o' bitches with bible up their asses. May the earth split open and drag their venal, virulent, beastiel corpses to the deepest corner of satan's asshole!

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  • hitchman

    ^ fucking go play with barbies you ignorant little child. 18+ doesn't mean IQ.

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    • KiddKoolJoe

      Calm down he's probably 12

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