Constantly fear to disapoint people

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Usually I can normaly talk to someone but when the conversation ends I start thinking "what if I said something wrong, but the person just pretended to don't notice/care to not hurt/cause a possible argument. Most of people that I talk are acctually pretty chill, but I can't help myself but worrie about possibly hurting someone.

I think that this may happened cause a person that I used to be very close with, even though I apologized, called me "guilty" "terrible" "traitor" "selfish", I acctually don't remmenber details about what happened, all I remmenber is that it started when I was a stupid 8 years old and it leasted for years. Sadly everytime when someone say "is all your fault" it hurts a lot (this was their most common phase to say to me). But I don't think they are terrible either, they were also justa child/tennager when they did it after we never saw each other again, I really shoudn't listen to what they said, but I can't help myself.

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    You’re too dependent on other people’s opinions. Read this article on differentiation: https://www.psychalive.org/psychological-differentiation/

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  • YE
    2 years ago

    You'll never fail to disappoint a soul, trust me.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    Same bro anytime I open my mouth its some awkward bullshit that comes out. I have no control of it. Its either be an awkward fucker or be silent. I wish I could turn it off. I piss so many ppl off on a daily basis.

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