Crushing on coworker? i can't concentrate on work...

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I just started training in a place a couple weeks ago and I have a major crush on my coworker. I don't ever want to do anything about it, and he has zero interest in me anyway. I'm not young. I haven't had a crush since I was a teenager, I feel absolutely ridiculous.

HOW DO I MAKE IT STOP? It's driving me nuts.

I can't avoid him because we work on the same floor, how can I make myself dislike him?

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  • dirtybirdy
    8 years ago

    Im no spring chicken either. There's a guy I know who is so ridiculously adorable, I can't even look him in the eyes. I can barely look in his general direction. I go full retard when I'm around him. Like I feel all fluttery and like I'm about to break out in hives and pass out. It's nuts. One of these days I'm going to take the advice of Zula. I'm gonna take him and grab him. I feel funny just thinking about it. I'm no help at all.

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    • [Old Memory]
      8 years ago

      Be careful, I'm no spring chicken either and I recently tried dating a co-worker and it blew up in my face. Work is bad enough as is, don't need to make it worse. Of course I'm a weirdo, so that probably doesn't help. Either way, be very careful.

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      • dirtybirdy
        8 years ago

        I was so caught up in the moment I didn't mention that he and I are not coworkers. I work alone, like a boss. I see him when I require certain services that his establishment provides. It doesn't hurt that the other two dirty guys who work there look delicious as well but this one, he's special. And he's like an inch shorter than me I just can't even. So cute. My, my.

        I do thank you for your concern, you spiffy freak. Should you ever need a third party revenge accomplice who is highly skilled in remodeling cars and faces with stealth and secrecy...I'm your bird.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      lol what if he sues you for harassment?

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      • [Old Memory]
        8 years ago

        What if she sues him for non-harassment?

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    • thegypsysailor
      8 years ago

      Oh dear, you've let the cat out of the bag now. Everybody is going to figure it out.

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      • dirtybirdy
        8 years ago

        Meow!!!

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        • shuggy-chan
          8 years ago

          wom, isnt that kitty-us of you

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  • regisphilbin
    8 years ago

    normale

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  • TrustMeImLying
    8 years ago

    Hahaha. Sorry for laughing but it's only because I've been there. Firstly, why do you not want to do anything about it? Because you believe in not dating coworkers or is it something else?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I answered you but the answer is gone now. weird.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      many things. mostly the dating coworkers thing, then hes 15 years my senior, and hes a strict catholic and im not.

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